Peer Appreciation Program
We present to you Peer Appreciation Program where you can observe and appreciate good qualities in a 7cups peer. The peer could be any fellow cupser- a fellow member, a fellow listener, anyone on cups basically or yourself, yes, you can appreciate yourself as well. Read more about it Here (clickable). ❤
If you take time to observe and talk about a good quality in another, then that quality starts becoming a part of your personality.
Is that not amazing?!!
Use this form to Appreciate a fellow cupser or yourself:
Peer Appreciation Form (clickable)
The appreciation submitted through the above form will be posted in this thread!
Want to join our team? Click here to apply.
Need tips for writing an appreciation message? Check out this wonderful post by @Hope
Got questions about the program? Read the FAQ here.
Have feedback for us? Write to us in this thread. We are all ears.
Appreciated someone or yourself, And/ Or you're a smile spreader who posted an appreciation? Please share your experience by clicking here. We'd like to encourage you more.
(Sunisshiningandsoareyou last updated this thread with additional information on 03/28/2023)
@BrightIndigo
@Fristo
Your secret friend has also added the following photo:
Link to the image: https://imgur.com/a/5P6k1nx
We are back with a new appreciation! @yourbuddy30 , you have a message from a secret friend. They are sending you a warm hug with the appreciation 😊
Your secret friend´s message for you:
We haven't talked to each other much, but you noticed me and asked if I could be a forum supporter for a certain forum. I never got to then thank you for that, because after that, I found myself wanting to participate more, and also met some wonderful people. Thank you for being a beacon of support, I know I can always run to you whenever I need some help.
Thank you for being a member of our community!
We have one more appreciation to share. @Ashen4 , a secret friend thinks you are great, and wants you to know it. They are sending you these pretty green plants and a trophy with the message, because you are a true champion.
Your secret friend highlighted these of your qualities:
Purposeful - They act with a purpose, a dream that the world can be a better place
Motivated - They are internally motivated to achieve their goals
Respectful - They try to make sure everyone feels respected and understood
Supportive - They are kind and helpful
Open Minded - They are able to see things from others’ point of view
Empathetic - They look to understand and share the feelings of another
Optimistic - They focus on cultivating positivity, to bring out the best in everyone
Have you ever gotten an appreciation so good you wanted to frame it? I framed thisone for you 😊 Without further ado, here is your secret friend´s message:
I'm a member on 7 Cups who had the pleasure of having been listened to by this listener. I say listener; however, it was clear that in the time that we spent conversing, this person went above and beyond what it means to not only be a listener but also what it means to a be quality-listener: they were an OUTSTANDING listener - everything a member could ask for and then some! There is so much to appreciate about this person as well as the value I received out of our conversations so far that I doubt any quantity or quality of words I use would suffice.
This outstanding listener devotes SO much of their time to listening which speaks to their patience, empathy and generosity. I believe each of our sessions lasted for hours! Additionally, during those hours-long sessions, they responded immediately and thoughtfully - I really had their undivided attention. They have such a strong desire to help others.
They were the perfect balance between professional and personable too. While they valued maintaining boundaries such as keeping personal information private, it didn't get in the way of their treating me like an equal - I felt respected, valued and validated. It didn't feel like I was speaking to someone who felt they were superior to me or who wanted to distance themselves from me. It felt like speaking to a close friend.
Lastly, this listener is highly intelligent and insightful - in a league of their own really. I was caught off guard by how they challenged me with questions and ideas that no other listener had done before and they have such an eloquent way of writing those ideas too. To be challenged with a new perspective is exactly what I look for when I reach out to listeners, so it went a long way for me.
I could go on and on with nice things to say about this listener, but then I'd never finish writing this, so I'd like to end off there. I'm utterly infatuated with this listener and am looking forward to the next time we can speak. For a while now, I've been dealing with mental health oriented struggles, but for the first time in a long time, I'm feeling something else besides apathy: I feel love, understanding and even inspiration - I even began listening on 7 Cups again myself! Wherever my mental health journey takes me next, I'll always be grateful for having met this listener. Thank you, Ashen4.
Thank you for allowing me to submit this appreciation form. (Big thanks to Fristo who introduced the form to me!)
Thank you for being a member of our community!
We have a special message for @kindHug676 . A secret friend is sending you a selfcare kit and this song .
Your secret friend highlighted these of your qualities:
🌿 Motivated - They are internally motivated to achieve their goals
🌿 Agile - They change course as needed
🌿 Respectful - They try to make sure everyone feels respected and understood
🌿 Supportive - They are kind and helpful
🌿 Open Minded - They are able to see things from others’ point of view
🌿 Resilient - They bounce back when things fall apart
🌿 Empathetic - They look to understand and share the feelings of another
Your secret friend´s message for you:
Kind is a true hero, always working to help others. In this life we All face struggles, and I'm certain she faces struggles of her own. Yet she is here doing what she can to help others despite whatever she's facing. Thank you Kind!! You are an inspiration. A truly wonderful and amazing woman. Strong, compassionate, caring, helpful, a real pleasure to be around. Please know that your efforts are greatly appreciated Kind, I can't speak for anyone else, however I know for sure that you have been a great help to me, and I'm sure that you have also help many others here. A friend of mine once told me, 'you never know the impact you have on the lives of others'. I want you to know that you have made an incredibly powerful, and positive impact on my life. I look forward to every opportunity to speak with you. You are my hero Kind, and you are nothing short of astounding. 🦥(⊃｡•́‿•̀｡)⊃💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Thank you for being a member of our community!
We have a special message for @Tobedoctor ! @Rui00 has a heartwarming message for you.
Rui specially highlighted these of your qualities:
🎀 Friendly - They are caring and nice to everyone
🎀 Supportive - They are kind and helpful
🎀 Humble - They humbly admit when they are wrong
🎀 Empathetic - They look to understand and share the feelings of another
🎀 Positive - They focus on good qualities in others
🎀 Cheerful - They are fun to be around
🎀 Respectful - They try to make sure everyone feels respected and understood
Rui´s message for you:
I know you have been having some rough times lately Tobe. So I just wanted to remind you how amazing you are! I'm so grateful to have you here on Cups with us Tobe. You matter, a lot! You are really super duper awesome! Thank you for being you! Continue being you! 💙
Thank you for being a member of our community!
With this lovely self care kit👇
And this champion's trophy👇
@Dancat1128 also has some special words for you @Kristynsmama !
You're a gift to the community Kristy and we appreciate you so much!
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Thank *youu*, Sunshine! 🌞❤ for the time you spent & your hard work in making the cute graphics that makes the appreciations even more sweet & meaningful! 🤗❤
My favorite thing about Hotaru's daily shares is how comfy and happy she is with small moments of self care and coziness. This is why I send virtual healing tea 🍵🍵🍵 because I know she takes her time to feel the warm cup in her hands, smell the tea and sip it mindfully. I believe this is how Hotaru does a lot of things in life and that's what enjoying life is about."
Hellooo fellow awesome smile spreader @teenytinyturtle, I'm happy to share this little encouraging note from @VictoriaLove7 for you!💜
Ooh and Vicc being the thoughtful and creative Viccc as always, sends you a specially created gift~ "Sunshine on you".🌞
Always so kind, caring, creative and thoughtful, Vicccc, thank youuu for reminding our awesome friend of how appreciated they are.💜
*hugs* Teeny, you are allowed all the time you need to feel okie, always. We're all here with youuu!💜
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
🥺❤ you are the owlsome, amazing one, Sunshine! 🌞❤🤗❤
Thank *youu* for all your hard works in creating the graphics, for bringing your myriad of skills to Cups. Thank you for being the beacon of light, Sunshine! 🌞❤ 🤗❤
A Secret Friend is here to give a special shout out to @YourCaringConfidant it’s a week deserves shout out! Here’s what the secret friend had to say:
The gingerbread house you made for me was really cute! Thank you so much. It is no lie that you are very talented and you sharing that with me, even though we weren't well acquainted was really sweet. I appreciate that. And from the little chat we had in forum, you are a lovely person :) Now gemini twin, can you guess who I am?
@Kristynsmama Thank you so much for delivering this sweet note to me. It's sooo pretty and definitely made my heart smile.
I would like to think a certain minion is my secret friend and if so, I would like to ask if we can make it official? What do ya say, Gemini Twin? ♡ *smiles* Thank you for thinking of me and for thos very beautiful, kind note. I'm grateful. @BlissfulBue
