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just a black cat trying to figure out the world




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Build-a-weekend
Motivation & Accountability / by sadcat13
Last post
 November 16th
...See more Hey everyone, my tooth is healing well and I will be able to go to work on Monday again! In honor of my newly returning functionality and as a post bedrot un-blobbing motivation, I came across this cool list on Pinterest (you can get the original list here, all credit belongs to the original creator https://sk.pinterest.com/pin/281543724386664/ [https://imgur.com/a/Hdc1Olp] ) ! A little bit modified transcript below for accessibility and an easier mix-and-match 😊 Let´s challange ourselves and try to incorporate one thing from the categories into our weekend. Feel free to do as much or as little as you wish (from both the original, or the modified list), or share your thoughts in the comments! What did you choose? 1. Moderate movement 🍃 go for a bike ride 🍃 stretching or yoga indoors 🍃 go for a hike and collect autumn leaves to press 🍃 go for a walk 2. Reset your space 🌼 light some fall candles 🌼 decorate for the season 🌼 make some DIY decorations 🌼 deep clean a part of your home 🌼 water your palnts 🌼 diisinfect any touchpoints (because flu season) 🌼 clean out the fridge 3. Autumn foods 🍗 make some hot tea 🍗 bake some muffins 🍗 bake a pumpkin or an apple pie 🍗 visit a local farm or brewery 🍗 make a soup 🍗 try a new recipe 4. Plan your week 📝 Plan your meals for the week 📝 Make a seasonal playlist 📝 Block out time for activities you were putting off 📝 Make a vision board 📝 Update your TBR list or reading trackers 📝 Make new bullet journal pages/templates/layouts 📝 Make a bucket list 5. Enjoy a cozy evening 💖 Turn on the humidifier or oil diffuser 💖 Take a warm bath 💖 Watch a movie 💖 Shop online for your autumn wardrobe wish-list 💖 Journal about your accomplishments and what you look forward to 💖 Play a boardgame with your loved ones Tagging my friends who may be interested: @tinywhisper11 @Heathermarie95 @Kristynsmama @LoveMyMoonflowers @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @WeEarth @Georginahowe @kylersartpace @jesusredeemedme2425 @mytwistedsoul @YourCaringConfidant @PineTreeTree @iloveyouxx 
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Pity party for wisdom tooth recovery
OCD & Related Behaviors / by sadcat13
Last post
 November 23rd
...See more Hey all, lot of whining about wisdom tooth removal and surgery ahead (possibly some health OCD too), please be mindful of your triggers and do not read if you are sensitive to this kind of stuff, especially medical and dental triggers ahead🌻 I had my wisdom tooth removed a week ago and I'm still not doing great. The surgery was not a simple one, my tooth was laying horizontally and refused to get out. Even despite slicing it up, my dentist who is a very very skilled dental surgeon lost a few instruments due to the sheer force of my stubborn tooth refusing to be removed. I have a terrible diet that is not exactly rich in dairy, I have genuinely no idea how I got some iron bones and teeth but apparently I do. Anyway. It took around an hour to fish it all out. I got my preventative antibiotics and a strong painkiller prescribed and went home. The first few days sucked. I had a very swollen face and kept obsessively checking the wound, panicking at every change. I actually ended up having a panic run to the dentist to have it checked but everything was ok. On top of that, med panic, inability to eat properly and not being able to have hot/warm food or drinks really sucked. I didn't have a good time. With time I dropped the painkiller when the pain became on the tolerable side, since they are very strong and gave me a bit of devouring issues. It's been a week now since the procedure and we took out the stitches today. I'm still not ok and need a week for the wound to properly heal. I'm still experiencing some pain, swelling and discomfort and I'm so tired of it. Only difference is that now my swelling is mostly on the inside, causing me to bite my cheek. Yay. I nap a lot and am absolutely drained by the recovery. I still don't do too well with the warm stuff what is making me upset. I want hot food. And I want to wash my hair but the hairdryer has hot air that would not do well with my swelling. Only time I liven up a bit is in the eve. But in general, feeling extremely exhausted. I wanna do stuff but I can't. I am just too tired and weak to do it or the movement required causes me pain. I'm so tired of this. I want this all to be over already. And worst is, I have two more wisdom teeth to fish out. The firstone was a fast and quite simple case, top jaw that is easier to avoid moving in the recovery. I thought we will get the other top one out this time, but my dentist suggested doing the bottom right one because that was the most urgent based on the rtg. All of my close family shares the same dentist, and when my dad went in for his appointment that happened to be a day after mine, and the dentist showed him my rtg and explained to him everything about my procedure. Turns out, my tooth was so bad it was actually pressuring my nerve. I had no idea, as it was not giving me any pain except rotating out the tooth next to it that occasionally scratched up my tongue. Also, turns out the other wisdom tooth on the bottom has an inflammation (it's not the dangerous kind as wisdom teeth are a bit special but it needs to go out next). I wanted to get them all out anyway during this and the next year, but I really am not having a good time. I know they will sooner or later need to go out and I can pretty much choose to do it now on my terms or later with a lot of issues and not having a choice and that's why I'm choosing now. It just sucks. My OCD is making it even harder and more exhausting and I really really really hope it will already heal and I can be back to functioning like a normal person. Sorry for the rant, I'm just really exhausted by both my recovery and my OCD. And even more exhausted by just thinking about having to do it two more times.
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Which halloween costume matches your personality? (quiz)
Icebreakers and Games / by sadcat13
Last post
 October 31st
...See more Which halloween costume matches your personality? Find out by playing the quiz below! Count how many times you answered each of the letters, and see what costume did you get! 🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻 1. You find yourself in a magical store. What will you do first? a) look through the book section b) check out the antiques c) wander around and see if something catches your attention d) chat with the shopkeeper 2. What´s your ideal evening like? (for this question, let´s assume the time to be around 18-20pm) a) hanging out with your best friend or family b) taking a walk c) resting and doing some self-care d) going to a party or a social event 3. You get invited to a Halloween party! What do you do? a) I vibe with my friends b) I stay at home c) I spend time mingling with people but also time vibing alone depending on my mood at the moment d) I´m the one hosting, obviously, and making sure everyone is having fun 4. You accidentally summoned a genie and it is granting you a wish! What do you wish for? a) health for you or someone else b) money c) you can´t decide what to wish for so you ask the genie for some time to think, effectively wasting your wish d) something cool you always wanted 5. You realize you can walk through walls! What do you do first? a) use your new ability to shorten your path b) use it to avoid unwanted social interaction c) try to see if you can stand in the wall or be just partially in it d) prank someone 6. What pet would you like to own? a) a raven or a crow b) a cat c) a hamster d) a dog 7. If you could choose a superpower, what would it be? a) understanding the language of animals b) flying c) telekinesis (moving objects without having to touch them, perfect to get you the remote when you don´t want to stand up) d) mind reading 8. You find out you are the chosen one for a quest. What do you do? a) Take a trusted friend or pet with you b) Reject the quest or handle the quest on your own c) Accept the quest but decide to take a nap before you go or procrastinate on starting it in some way d) Get excited about the adventure 9. Oh no! You encountered a mirror that shows your biggest fear! What do you see? a) you failed at something b) you are stuck in a social situation c) you have to do something you dislike or don´t want to do d) you are lonely 10. You finished the test and it is time to reward yourself! Which treat do you choose?  a) cookies b) chocolate c) muffins d) ice-cream 🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻 Count your answers and check your results below  If you chose mostly a: You are a witch/ wizard! You are smart and value deep connections in your friendships. You also have a great intuition and give good and insightful advice. Embrace the nurturing and mystic vibes and bring out your inner witch this Halloween! If you chose mostly b: You are a vampire! You have a rich inner life and some very cool hobbies. Thanks to your introverted nature, you are comfortable spending time on your own. You choose your friends very carefully and see through everyone´s ***. Your mysterious vibes are irresistible, and you would absolutely rock the vampire costume! If you chose mostly c: You are a cat! You enjoy comfort and coziness and march to the beat of your own drum. Thanks to your natural curiosity, you often notice things many people don´t, but you also tend to get distracted easily. You like to have a balance between socializing and alone time, just like real cats do! If you chose mostly d: You are a devil! Extroverted and always ready to have some fun makes you the life of the party. You are open minded and inclusive, making sure noone is left out. Your creativity and quick thinking allows you to be very adaptable and find out of the box solutions to your problems. People would sell their soul to be your friend! tagging my friends who may be interested: @tinywhisper11 @Heathermarie95 @Kristynsmama @LoveMyMoonflowers @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @WeEarth @Georginahowe @kylersartpace @jesusredeemedme2425 @mytwistedsoul @YourCaringConfidant @PineTreeTree @iloveyouxx 
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Autumn would you rather
Icebreakers and Games / by sadcat13
Last post
 October 30th
...See more An activity i sneakily borrowed from pinterest, just adapted it for cups format lessgoooo 😁 🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁 Would you rather... 🍫 drink hot chocolate 🍫 or 🍵 drink hot tea 🍵 🎨 do some crafts 🎨 or 🍄 go for a walk 🍄 🍂 make a fall wreath 🍂 or 🐞 attend a fall festival/activity 🐞 🍏 go apple picking 🍏 or 🎃 go to a pumpkin patch 🎃 🔥 have a bonfire 🔥 or 🎬 have a movie night 🎬 🐴 go on a hayride 🐴 or 🌽 go to a corn maze 🌽 🌿 visit a botanical garden 🌿 or ⚽ watch a football game ⚽ ⛺ go camping ⛺ or 🍰 bake a pie 🍰 📷 have a fall photoshoot 📷 or 🌰 collect acorns 🌰 🐦 make a bird feeder 🐦 or 💛 knit a scarf 💛 @tinywhisper11 @Heathermarie95 @Kristynsmama @LoveMyMoonflowers @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @WeEarth @Georginahowe @kylersartpace
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What would you dress up as for halloween if your fairy ghostmother granted you the wish of getting you the perfect costume?
Icebreakers and Games / by sadcat13
Last post
 October 7th
...See more Hey everyone, got my pc fan replaced, so should be able to use the pc again 😊 Now onto the game 🎃🍁👻🎃🍁👻🎃🍁👻🎃🍁👻🎃🍁👻🎃🍁👻🎃🍁👻🎃🍁👻🎃🍁👻🎃🍁👻 Your spooky fairy ghostmother just appeared, ready to grant you a halloween costume of your choice! What will you be dressing as? @tinywhisper11 @Heathermarie95 @Kristynsmama @LoveMyMoonflowers @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @WeEarth @Georginahowe @kylersartpace
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I'm useless
20 & Over Community / by sadcat13
Last post
 September 25th
...See more I'm useless. I work a half time job at almost 24, living with parents and having little to no independence. I see all the people who are my age or younger living to the fullest, working, studying, travelling, getting engaged, moving in with their partners and having a good time. And then there is me. I hate this so hard. I can't climb out of it no matter how hard I try. I feel useless. Worthless. And I hate myself so hard for it all. If I only tried harder. Fought harder. Maybe it could be me. But it isn't. And I'm just stuck being useless. With no life skills and independence. With no energy at all and a *** health. Anyone else on the same boat? :(
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Looking for heros to spread smiles with us
Positivity & Gratitude / by sadcat13
Last post
 June 20th
...See more Have you ever wanted to be a hero? You can become one now! Join our team as a smile spreader and help us make people smile 😊 What would you be doing? 🎨 processing appreciation requests and turning them into cute graphics with the use of Canva or other graphics programs 📝 writing a heart-warming message for the appreciated peer and the appreciator 💻 get in contact with the appreciated peers to let them know they have a message What do we offer? 🦋 a fun way of volunteering to make the world a better place 😊 a team where you can find new friends and inspire each other 🎨 an opportunity to learn new skills in graphics 💝 flexibility and self care breaks 💼 in case of interest and good work, you may pick up more challenging roles within the team with it´s unique responsibilities Who can join us? Everyone is welcome, you don´t have to have any previous experience with any digital graphics 😊 Where can you apply? Fill and follow the instructions in this google form 😊https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfo8Myq7_mZ3_lt0AtTwRf4-7g3Fvy42oz3h-IXGS-C6Slu7g/formResponse Want to see our work? Check out our peer appreciation thread where we post the done graphics here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?p=390] 😊 We are looking forward to your application 😊
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What's your favourite "useless" fun fact?
Icebreakers and Games / by sadcat13
Last post
 July 19th
...See more A lot of us know a random piece of specific information that we can't really do anything with, but still are very proud of and cant wait to get an opportunity to share it with others. Mine is that sunflowers are used to help clean up soil contaminated by radiation as they have the ability to take up the toxic and radioactive materials from the soil and store it in their tissue. 🌻🌻🌻 How about you? What is your favourite useless fun fact? 😊 @tinywhisper11 @Heathermarie95 @Kristynsmama @LoveMyMoonflowers @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @WeEarth @Georginahowe @kylersartpace
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