Peer Appreciation Program
We present to you Peer Appreciation Program where you can observe and appreciate good qualities in a 7cups peer. The peer could be any fellow cupser- a fellow member, a fellow listener, anyone on cups basically or yourself, yes, you can appreciate yourself as well. Read more about it Here (clickable). โค
If you take time to observe and talk about a good quality in another, then that quality starts becoming a part of your personality.
Is that not amazing?!!
Use this form to Appreciate a fellow cupser or yourself:
Peer Appreciation Form (clickable)
The appreciation submitted through the above form will be posted in this thread!
Want to join our team? Click here to apply.
Need tips for writing an appreciation message? Check out this wonderful post by @Hope
Got questions about the program? Read the FAQ here.
Have feedback for us? Write to us in this thread. We are all ears.
Appreciated someone or yourself, And/ Or you're a smile spreader who posted an appreciation? Please share your experience by clicking here. We'd like to encourage you more.
(Sunisshiningandsoareyou last updated this thread with additional information on 03/28/2023)
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
And so are youuuu
*wavesss back*
@floatingdandelion
You have been appreciated by @toughCup4675 ๐
Your appreciator toughCup says that you are :
Supportive - You are kind and helpful.
Respectful - You try to make sure everyone feels respected and understood.
Empathetic - You look to understand and share the feelings of another.
Patient - You take the time to calm down before you act.
Cheerful - You are fun to be around.
A Great Communicator - You speak with everyoneโs best interest in mind, are genuine, and are open to conversation.
Here is also a message from them ๐
Thank you toughCup for choosing to appreciate your peer ๐
dandelion, thank you for supporting your peer whenever they have a tough time ... That's a really great quality you have, and you deserve lots of love and support back ๐งก
Thank you for taking care of each other, I'm hoping that both of you are doing well ๐
Kind regards, GloriaD
Heyy everyone ๐
Time for another appreciation post!
@Jenna , you're appreciated again! ๐งโ๐
Take a guess at your wonderful appreciator!
Your wonderful qualities have been noticed:
Supportive
Respectful
Empathetic
Patient
Great Communicator
Authentic
And, *drumrolls* here's a lovely appreciation note from cupcakes!
Jenna and Cupcakes, you both are awesome in the listener chatrooms!
@charmingFlower8111
Thank you so much, @heartsncupcakes! This was unexpected and I love it. I adore you a lot!
@Fristo This is amazing I appreciate you for making this!!
@VictoriaLove7
Aww Victoria thank you soooo much ๐๐๐ป
@GloriaD
You are most welcome, Gloria! ๐
@GloriaD
Aw haha Gloria, remember when I said you're super thoughtful xD you could've replied with something more basic but you chose to send across an appreciation for an appreciation xD and wow thanks for making me cry! ๐ฅฒ
I can relate with the appreciation culture being uncommon off-cups and a certain lack of expression at times, it sure feels so gratifying seeing it happen here more often AND being a part of the community, that actively encourages appreciation around!
I have hehe, the bestest, most prized possession for me from here~ it's the relationships/ friendships I've built here, they are better than any "awards" for me any day. I mean look right here? You taking the time out, legit opening the peer appreciation form, typing my username and taking time to think of me~ this alone makes me cry tears of gratitude hehe, someone thinking of me and considering me so worthy of their time and good thoughts. Truly, this is so much enough and I cannot express fully, how much it means to me and how big of a difference it creates for me. So thank*youuu* Gloria, for your friendship, a prized possession for me, for being *you* and for all your kindness and gratitude. (Also if there was really an award-award for it, you're getting lots of it too because all of that you say for me, applies to you as wellโค)
Aw thankyou for saying that, I'm really glad it's reflected exactly the way it is. I honestly don't feel anything here at all should get the right to the person to behave differently (lol not even the admins or the OG captain of the ship themself or really, anyone at all and no worries if they read it too XD). The roles and badges and the "privileges" that come with a badge (for instance, the ability to edit/ remove posts for a community mentor or higher) are always a means for an extra aid in supporting the 7 cups mission ~ they are not in any way superior or better, if at all though, I feel those in *any* leadership roles actually have to be more careful and mindful about leading with example. So really again, thankyou for saying all you did, my sense of humility is #1 value for me always and I'm only more humbled to hear it comes across exactly the way it should! ๐ฅบ
I love how observant, wise, thoughtful and extremely inquisitive (in a very good way hehe) you are always. Your ability to recognize someone's strengths (we speaking appreciations here but to be fair this applies for just being able to recognize how someone is and what are their "top" visible character traits~ good or not so good) and it's a quality I so highly admire in anyone. Being a good judge of character, it's a smart skill to have in life and everyone should have it, I feel! Beside, it takes one to know one, in a good way here again xD and perhaps all that you see about me are qualities and abilities in yourself too.
Thankyouuuu again for such a beautiful message, I love your appreciations so much xD because they are more "my-type" lol with urgh evidence for silly brain to really accept and let something sink inside more. So thankyou for caring about this too and sharing the examples you did. My heart is full and super duper touched!๐ฅบ๐ฅฐโค
I'm always so proud to have seen you grow in this incredibly amazing, humble, approachable, efficent, kind and oof take every adjective you can about how a good leader should be.
Before that, I'm so grateful to know your beautiful hooman self and so look forward to continue nurturing our friendship more! Thankyou truly, from the bottom of my heart, for everything you do and all you are! โค
Always hoping for all things kind, peaceful, happy and loving for you too. Here for you too. We got this hehe! ๐ค
Truly am sooooo grateful, I've saved the beautiful message in the pretty graphics in my little "pick me up" folder and will be sure to come through, whenever needed. A bigggggg Thankyouuu and massive hugs for your bright self! *you* da best! โค
@VictoriaLove7
Viccc, this is so so beautiful. Thankyouuu for making such pretty graphics always, I know the design site/ app doesn't support emojis from text and I see you used the same emoji stickers for the message to not lose its touch/ feel different (we know emojis add expression hehe) and I'm so so so grateful for your thoughtfulness and willingness to make extra effort in making things even more perfect! You're immensely kind and lovely, I'm more grateful to have your sweet presence in my life. Thankchuuu! ๐คโค
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
(Yes yes, if I use emoji it becomes square ๐)
Thank you for everything, Sunshine ๐ฅบโค You are my most treasured blessing and I am in full Sunshine now โค
@VictoriaLove7
Ohh, that happens to some emojis for me, in Canva ... @Sunisshiningandsoareyou is so observant, hehe ๐ Thanks Victoria for taking the time to put emojis to convey how I felt!
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Aww I looked at your reply, and I'm so happy to hear all your thoughts and feelings ๐ Glad we can observe each other's strengths and things to improve on, and help each other as teammates and friends ๐ Also happy that its saved in your folder for times when we need a proof of some kind about how much we are cared for, yes, it happens to me too ... I sometimes need to see what about me reflects wise, or supportive, etc. so same here ๐ถ
Yes, I've seen many talk about how 7 Cups is like a buffer to stress, or pain in offline life ... kind of like a place that reminds you that you are valuable, not alone, loved by people around the world, etc. and these helping resources reduce your pain in offline life ๐ป
And truly amazing Sun, I'm so happy to hear that the relationships you have here is like your award, I feel similar because what matters to me here or anywhere is my passion and the people I'm with. I'm so honored to meet you and others like you, you all are really inspiring, and I actually wonder how things would be if I didn't discover this site. I'm soooo thankful for joining here, I give credit to my development to all of you as well ๐ญ
Hmm yes ... being in leadership roles, you have to be more mindful about leading by example, the work ethics, etc. I love how you said leader roles don't reflect how better you are than others, perhaps your qualities help you to be in a better position to aid others in an additional way, like a connecting point between 7 Cups' mission and other community members ๐บ
Thank you so much for being who you are Sun, surely we can know more about each other and strengthen our friendship in the coming weeks and months, for as long as we are here ๐ฅฐ
@GloriaD
Awww love how reflective and thoughtful you always are, Gloria, thankyouuuuu, I know right lol, I'm so glad this platform exists and all of us here got to meet each other and learn so much from one another. Super grateful for youuu too, and immensely proud of you always. Thankyouuu for being so so perfect in being youu!๐คโค๐ค
Biggest hugs and all the sunflowers for you!๐ปโค๐ป
@navyAcai8433
You have been appreciated by @krisha28 ๐
Acai, your acts of kindness and amazing qualities have been noticed by krisha ...
and they have a special message for you too ๐
Acai, you are awesome for helping someone new to the community! I remember how I felt when I was new, and I was extremely grateful to all those who supported me during those times (even now, hehe) ๐ Thank you for being kind, helpful, understanding, explaining things in clear ways and for your presence on 7 Cups ๐งก
I'm so glad you received support krisha ๐ Thank you for choosing to support people on this platform, and feel free to visit the listener support and community rooms for further help whenever you need ๐ป
Kind regards, GloriaD
@GloriaD thanks so much for posting this! โค๏ธ @krisha28 I didn't imagine my help would leave such an impact on you for you to leave me an appreciation message like this. It means a lot to me, and it's absolutely unexpected. I hope you can flourish on 7 cups and show everyone just how amazing of a listener you are!
๐ข Trigger Warning!!! ๐ข
๏ปฟThe following is a self-appreciation note to and by Anonymous. There was no username included on the form so I have no way of knowing who. When I started reading this note-- it was beautiful. I thought you myself "Wow. This is a real person that really knows how to self-appreciate..." and then my heart broke. I have put a trigger warning to this posting in case but still... I have to post this still in hopes that Anonymous is able to read this!
I believe in fate and never chance so, Anonymous, if there is some way you come across this posting and see this, please know that... 
๏ปฟIt is so heartbreaking to think you feel like you are alone or that you are not enough. I assure you, you ARE and ALWAYS will be enough! Reading your note and the fact you mention 7cups and "roles" has me thinking you may be a listener. And if that's the case, please know you don't have to feel alone! I beg you to please reach out to me or someone you feel comfortable with so you can get the support you need. You are valuable as a person and I am sorry you are having feelings of inferiority. I am sorry you feel out of place. But please know, that 7cups is better with YOU here! Life is BETTER with YOU here. Don't you know that you are the only you in this world? You are irreplaceable and your life has purpose and meaning to it. I can't stress this enough-- you do not have to go through these thoughts you are facing alone.
Self-appreciation is a beautiful thing. You seem bright. And even though you may be in a dark place, so to speak, I can tell you care about yourself and desire to feel better. Why else would you sent yourself this beautiful yet sad note? Why else would you try to motivate and remind yourself of your worth? You got it right, Anonymous, you are STRONG! You can overcome everything and I am so glad that you "trying your best". May you never lose sight on who you are...
You are a true gift to this world! Like I said, I believe in fate so I will keep the faith and hope that you reach out to someone to talk to. If you are a listener and rather, please just create a member account and login and message me or someone else. That way you can still remain Anonymous if you like.
Anonymous, thank you for being brave enough to write yourself a note. Self-appreciation is not as easy as it seems but you did it. I am so proud of you. I truly hope you have a beautiful day and know by now just how important you are. ๐๏ปฟ
@YourCaringConfidant
Sending love, comfort, and support to this person who is struggling. โฅโฅโฅ
@Jenna That is sooo sweet and kind of you. <3
@YourCaringConfidant
Thank you โฅ
An appreciation for a Smile Spreader @Shinequeen001 from your secret friend ๐
By the sound of this appreciation you seem pretty awesome and I'm glad you have nice people here to remind you about it ๐
Your friend also shared an image
you can also click here to see ๐
Thankyou secret friend you're so kind for appreciating your peer ๐
