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What is the thing that depression effects the most in your life?

JK17 February 20th, 2016

Just wondering how depression effects other people.

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lostinheaven February 20th, 2016

Loving myself

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JK17 OP February 21st, 2016

@lostinheaven - Can you please explain?

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lostinheaven February 21st, 2016

@JK17 when I try to love myself and try to be happy with myself my depression stops me from that needed love

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JK17 OP February 21st, 2016

@lostinheaven Thanks. I think lots of us can relate. Self love is very important.

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r3w1teit February 21st, 2016

It made me hate everyone and everything. Even me.

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Burnie123 February 21st, 2016

@r3w1teit Me, too.

JK17 OP February 21st, 2016

@r3w1teit - Yeah I feel like that sometimes too.

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Burnie123 February 21st, 2016

Depression makes me wonder if any of this is worth it... The nicer I am, the more I get crapped on... Especially by my spouse.

I hate everyone and everything... I especially hate myself for being a door mat.

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r3w1teit February 21st, 2016

@Burnie123 exactly. Thas why i resorted to just bein a bitch but i get crap for tha too. And octavots like everytime i get up life has to hit me harder than the last time...

r3w1teit February 21st, 2016

@Burnie123 it's*

JK17 OP February 21st, 2016

@Burnie123 Thanks for sharing Burnie. Im sorry to hear about your situation.

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BridgetAileen February 21st, 2016

The more depressed I am feeling, the less motivation and energy I have and the more I isolate myself...which only makes the depression worse. Vicious cycle.

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JK17 OP February 21st, 2016

@BridgetAileen - I agree with that. I like to think that because it's a cycle there's a chance to break it.

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BridgetAileen March 3rd, 2016

@JK17 - It's taken a lot of work this past month, but I'm finally breaking that cycle. What a relief! I know that depression won't be gone forever, but having learned what I have in the past month and having worked so hard to implement it all so that these tools become new habits, maybe it won't be so difficult the next time around. I hope you're learning and improving, as well.

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JK17 OP December 31st, 2016

Hi hope you are doing well and breaking the cycle. @BridgetAileen

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BridgetAileen January 1st, 2017

@JK17, awwww, thank you so much! Actually, I'm doing OK. Smooth patches, rough patches, but over all the smooth patches outnumber the rough ones and the rough ones aren't quite as long and deep. How are you doing?

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Gman1246 February 21st, 2016

@BridgetAileen

I get you there. I get the samethings going on and I close the curtains, lock the door and sit in the dark. TV off and all that. Don't even feel like eating. That's usually when the anxiety starts kicking in.

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BridgetAileen February 21st, 2016

@Gman1246 Yep, I can sit for hours and then wonder what happened to the day. Fortunately for me, though, not every day is like that.

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JK17 OP February 21st, 2016

I guess for me depression has been around since I was young. It comes and goes. But when it hits I lose control and hope. I push people away. I waste money. I shut myself off. I don't eat properly. I stay awake late. I feel sad. I have suicidal thoughts.

The combination of these things gives me an overall sense of hopelessness.

Then I think I don't care what people think about me. As long as I can be happy I don't have to prove anything to anyone.

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BridgetAileen February 21st, 2016

@JK17 I definitely relate to what you said!

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Voidmare February 21st, 2016

I'm lonely. Shy. One. Fantasizing about abstract affairs. Isolated. Silent. Stronger. Empty. Intelligent. Weird. Constructing an inner fair and exciting world unlike this one. What else could I say?

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BridgetAileen February 21st, 2016

@Voidmare I think you said it very well.

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JordanPeraltaa February 21st, 2016

It differes for me, sometimes I feel like I'm worth nothing and I hate my entire existence, other times it physcially affects me, I can't sleep etc, and have Social Anxiety too, so I literally cannot interact with anyone

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BridgetAileen February 21st, 2016

@JordanPeraltaa I'm sorry that you have Social Anxiety on top of depression. I can only imagine how difficult that must be. Hugs!

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JordanPeraltaa February 23rd, 2016

@BridgetAileen Aww thanks, but we all have problems! <3

JordanPeraltaa February 23rd, 2016

@BridgetAileen Aww thanks, but we all have problems! <3

JordanPeraltaa February 23rd, 2016

@BridgetAileen Aww thanks, but we all have problems! <3

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Sarav123 February 21st, 2016

Probably my school life and social life. Because of My depression I have to be homebound. Which means that I still go to my school but I can't be there because I'm a risk to myself.

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BridgetAileen February 21st, 2016

@Sarav123, I'm sorry that your depression is taking such a toll on you. It must be difficult to be homebound for your schooling. I hope that you find support and friends here at 7 Cups that will help ease things for you.

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benevolentWings22 February 22nd, 2016

It really affects my motivation and its a struggle everyday to find a reason to get through it.

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BridgetAileen February 22nd, 2016

@benevolentWings22 You're right there! It takes a lot of hard work. Every. Single, Day.

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georgiaaigroeg February 22nd, 2016

My ability to work. I'm unemployed at the moment. I think my inabilty to concentrate and lack of energy leads to stress when I'm working, and not being able to cope with the stress causes suicidal ideation and a whole bunch of other symptoms.

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BridgetAileen February 22nd, 2016

@georgiaaigroeg Oh Georgia, that must be incredibly difficult. I'm fortunate in that I was able to continue working until I retired. I hope things improve for you.

Underpressurewilson March 3rd, 2016

@georgiaaigroeg relationship with my girlfriend and son

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BridgetAileen March 3rd, 2016

@Underpressurewilson I'm sorry to hear that your closest relationships are affected. I hope the three of you find a way to work it all out.

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Namaste799 March 17th, 2016

@georgiaaigroeg It's like I was saring me on the mirror with your status descriptio...I am desperate and I do not have a clue what can I do.

If someone read to usand could give a piece of advise...

It is really hard feel in this way

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