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Conquering Anxiety: Panic Attacks and How to Tackle Them

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Hey everyone,

I’m excited to join the Conquering Anxiety series with a discussion on panic attacks. These attacks can be scary and feel overwhelming, but there are ways to manage them.

What is a Panic Attack?

A panic attack is a sudden surge of intense fear or discomfort that peaks within minutes. Physical symptoms like shortness of breath, chest tightness, heart palpitations, dizziness, or numbness can accompany it. These symptoms can be really frightening, but it's important to remember that they're not dangerous and will pass.

How are Panic Attacks Different from Anxiety?

Anxiety is a general feeling of worry or unease, often about future events. Panic attacks, on the other hand, are sudden and intense episodes of fear that come on strong and fast. People with anxiety disorders may experience panic attacks, but not everyone who has a panic attack has an anxiety disorder.

Strategies for Managing Panic Attacks

In the Moment:

  • Deep Breathing: Shallow breathing is common during panic attacks, but deep, slow breaths from your belly can help slow your heart rate and calm your body. Try inhaling for 4 seconds, holding for 7 seconds, and exhaling for 8 seconds.

  • Focus on Your Senses: Ground yourself in the present moment by focusing on what you see, hear, smell, taste, or touch. Notice five blue things in the room, count the sounds you can hear, or sip some cool water and describe the taste.

  • Positive Self-Talk: Remind yourself that this is a panic attack, it's temporary, and you'll get through it. Some people enjoy writing their own affirmations in advance.

  • Relaxation Techniques: Progressive muscle relaxation involves tensing and releasing different muscle groups, which can help ease tension. Practicing PMR regularly during calm periods can be very helpful for managing general anxiety and reducing muscle tension. This lower baseline tension can make you less susceptible to panic attacks. It is not recommended that you practice/apply PMR during periods of panic attacks or long-term anxiety as the body is already in a heightened state of arousal/tension during such states.

General Strategies:

  • Learn Your Triggers: Identifying situations or thoughts that trigger your panic attacks can help you avoid them or prepare for them. A panic attack journal can help you look for common patterns that may be triggering. Some common triggers are stressful situations, social situations, or negative thoughts.

  • Challenge Negative Thoughts: When anxious thoughts arise, challenge them with evidence-based reasoning. For example, if you're worried about passing out in public, remind yourself that panic attacks, while uncomfortable, are not dangerous. Try evaluating the evidence that supports and is against the thoughts you are having.

  • Seek professional help: A therapist can teach you coping mechanisms and help you understand your anxiety.

Actionable Activities:

  • Create a "Calm Kit": Assemble a collection of items that help you feel grounded and relaxed during a panic attack. This could include calming scents like lavender, a stress ball, pictures of loved ones, or a playlist of soothing music. Having this kit readily available can be a helpful reminder that you have tools to manage your anxiety.

  • Practice Visualization: Imagine yourself in a calm and peaceful place during times of low anxiety. This can create a mental refuge during a panic attack.

  • Develop Your Personal Panic Attack Plan: Personalize what you will do during a panic attack according to your needs.

Discussion Questions:

Members:

1. What are some of your experiences with panic attacks?

2. What coping mechanisms have worked well for you?

Listeners:

1. Are there any resources you'd recommend for people who struggle with panic attacks?

2. How can you best support someone who is dealing with a panic attack?


Remember, you're not alone in this. There is help available, and you can learn to manage your panic attacks. 


This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here. 


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Hope May 31st

@SoulfullyAButterfly

Thank you for making this post! 

I am looking forward to seeing everyone's answers.

P.S: Do PM me if you wish to contribute to learning from others' post of this series where we learn about managing anxiety from people's own experiences

GlenM May 31st

Very comprehensive, practical, and helpful post! Thank you Soulfully!

KatePersephone May 31st

@SoulfullyAButterfly

1. Are there any resources you'd recommend for people who struggle with panic attacks?

https://www.nhsinform.scot/illnesses-and-conditions/mental-health/mental-health-self-help-guides/panic-self-help-guide/

2. How can you best support someone who is dealing with a panic attack?

by ensuring they are in a safe place and being compassionate towards them, and also by providing them some techniques to help calm them down as much as possible.

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@KateDoskocilova great resources! Excellent tip about ensuring and prioritizing safety and calm

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pamharley003 May 31st

@SoulfullyAButterfly

Are there any resources you'd recommend for people who struggle with panic attacks?

I use music calming music from my app called calm I also use meditation and mindfulness

2. How can you best support someone who is dealing with a panic attack?

I do the best I can to help others through the panic attack. I listen clearly and open mind and hear what is bothering them and use coping skills if needed for them 

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@pamharley003 thank you for sharing your experiences. Listening and just being there can indeed be very helpful

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CordialDancer June 1st

@SoulfullyAButterfly

Thank you for sharing!

1. Are there any resources you'd recommend for people who struggle with panic attacks?

https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/conditionsandtreatments/panic-attack

2. How can you best support someone who is dealing with a panic attack?

Firstly by being there for them, so that they feel most supported. For some people that is receiving a hug, or for others just seeing that someone is there with them. If the person does have a plan they follow with panic attacks, seeing how you can help them through their plan also provides help in a way that makes a difference.

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@CordialDancer great points! Often having people who can support us during the plan or when creating a plan is very helpful in better management of panic attacks

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@SoulfullyAButterfly

1. Are there any resources you'd recommend for people who struggle with panic attacks?

I would like to recommend some apps: lojong. Serenity. Moodee. SELF. Bettersleep. How we feel.  Which helps during the long run. 

2. How can you best support someone who is dealing with a panic attack?

I think reminding them that we're here with them and they don't have to go through it alone. Focusing on the emotions and not the reasons when they already are having emotional waves. 


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@daydreammemories thank you for sharing! I agree that focusing on the emotions can help minimize panic levels and help us feel calm 

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mytwistedsoul June 3rd

@SoulfullyAButterfly 1. What are some of your experiences with panic attacks? Some can be pretty bad. I sometimes have nightmares and flashbacks that set off panic attacks. Certain tasks can cause one. I hate when I'm in public and have them


2. What coping mechanisms have worked well for you? I try to be mindful of my breathing. I know a lot of the triggers but some are unavoidable. have a number of different things I try. Breathing - 54321 - rainbow grounding - I do the progressive muscle relaxation. And remind myself that I'm safe. Sometimes nothing helps



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@mytwistedsoul thank you for sharing your experiences. It is true that sometimes management is a bit difficult. Rainbow grounding sounds very interesting - I will look this one up

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calmMango9611 June 10th

@SoulfullyAButterfly I was born in the Mid 70's. When I was a teenager in the 90s, I experienced some anxiety and depressive symptoms. This was before the wi-fi and internet age. I want to counseling for it and learned coping skills. One coping skill I learned is deep breathing. In mid 2000's, I took a class in Meditation and Mindfulness. Where I learned some new coping skills. So I add the Meditation and Mindfulness skills I learned and use them with the deep breathing skills I learned in counseling. It is very helpful. I do not suffer to much from anxiety, as an adult. With depression, it is a life long issue, but I have the skills to get me out of my depressive state. Now, I do my best to help others here at 7cups, to feel less alone.

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SoulfullyAButterfly OP June 11th

@calmMango9611 thank you for sharing your experiences! You are right in that we need to keep updating our coping toolkits 

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Heather225 June 10th

your content is always so good!!

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SoulfullyAButterfly OP June 11th

@Heather225 thank you for your support!

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alwayslove123 June 11th

@SoulfullyAButterfly

1. i find Headspace a really good way to calm myself down when i’m having an anxiety attack. it includes breathing techniques and lots of other calming resources.

2. i haven’t actually witnessed anyone having a panic attack, but i would tell them to name 5 things they can see, 4 things they can hear, 3 things they can feel, 2 things they can smell and 1 thing they can taste, it helps distract people :)

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SoulfullyAButterfly OP June 12th

@alwayslove123 thank you for sharing! Using an app for calming activities like breathing exercises is very interesting and accessible. That activity for others is also one of my favorites for grounding

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