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Number of ratings65 Number of reviews53 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish, French, Persian Listener sinceSep 11, 2023 Last activein last week PathStep 566 People helped345 Chats2,111 Group support chats254 Listener group chats483 Forum posts991 Forum upvotes1,881
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Hi ~Just a human being 🌿

On a self-care break. Response time may be slow. Thanks for your patience💙

(Currently not accepting new member chats❤️ Warm welcomes to you wonderful human, reaching my cozy corner.⛺️ Let's have a cup of tea and talk it out.🍵 Remember that you're not alone, and we will get through this together. I hope you all get the help you truly deserve, stay awesome.💚)

I try to keep it respectful at all times, and I expect you to do the same, so we can create a really awesome place for you to share and feel safe. Everyone has their own unique story, and I'm honored to listen to yours.😊)

~It is in our darkest moments that we must focus to see the light. 🌠

I'll be there for you

             When the rain starts to pour ; )

" There is still a joker roaming around the world. He will make sure that the world never rests. Whenever possible -and wherever possible - a little fool will jump out wearing long donkey ears and jingling bells. He will look deep into our eyes and ask, who are we? Where do we come from? "

Jostein Gaarder, The Solitaire Mystery ♧

Dear fellow reader, how have you been?😊

I’ve been meaning to write this for a while now, and I finally took the courage to do so. I appreciate your patience going through my profile.

We are stuck in a world with tons of problems, each and every one of us carries their own. These problems can change, but from my own personal experience, there is never a time when we don’t have any. I can relate to that as well, I know you do too. BUT, the way we approach our problems matter. That’s what helps us grow. 

I know we might never recover from our pains, our bad memories are always going to be a part of us as well, although, the important part is that they get lost between the good ones.

I’m not going to tell you what to do and what not to do, but to let you know that my main reason to be here is that I simply care. I want to be with you when making tough decisions, when dealing with something harsh which life threw at you. I’m not a saint or an agnel. I make mistakes and take some actions that I might end up regretting, I’m not going to judge you when you do as such. Pinky promise.

Some things that I’ve come to learn during my life: (The list will be updated during time lol)

✨You can’t be the hero in everyone’s story.

✨You don’t need to keep everyone satisfied to feel happy.

✨Take your steps based on what feels right to you, not everyone else’s.

✨Space and time make some things better, if you’re not sure they apply to a situation, try them.

✨We all gain our initial deep motive to help us keep going in hard situations during time. Time certainly makes you a master. Take your time, and build that motive. This doesn’t mean that you will go through challenges happily, but to solely be able to get through them eventually.

✨I agree that even best friends can’t be hundred percent there for each other, I agree that us as listeners have our own issues going on as well. But I truly believe you might still find someone caring about you in silence. If you feel like troubles are there weighing on you, and it feels harsh to move on carrying those burdens, I’m here to help easing up that pain as much as I can.

About me:

🕊️A fellow soul in my 20s, searching for the meaning of life and pursuing my passion in college. 

🕊️I love learning new languages.

🕊️I’m passionate about reading, listening to music, and hiking.

🕊️I love reading mystery novels and watching movies in this genre. 

🕊️Friends and Modern Family are my two comfort shows.

🕊️I'm a pretty good photographer 📷.

🕊️Green is my favorite color 💚. 

🕊️I am here to at least make another fellow soul feel a bit better. 


May all your days be blessed, Take care!😇


“Message in a bottle is all I can do

Standing here hoping this gets to you” T.S. 😊 💕


My amazing twin listener: Ultraterrestrial ♡

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Great listener who provided a comfortable place to say what I needed to
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