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Become An Adult - Teen Listener (ATL) | Support The Teen Community
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 August 29th
...See more Hi everyone! This post talks about a very important step in a listener’s journey, becoming an adult-teen listener. We were teens once and we know how confusing and challenging teenage life can be. A lot of questions and thoughts in mind, but no idea who to reach out to. But you can be that person to whom they can reach out and feel heard and comforted. You can find all the information you need on the role, requirements, process, benefits, and expectations here. ➡️ What is an Adult -Teen Listener? An Adult- Teen Listener is a trained listener who listens and supports both adult and teen members. Becoming ATL allows one to join the teen side of the 7Cups community and listen to teen members 1-1, participate in teen member group chats to support members there, and participate in teen listener group chats to share experiences, learning, and resources to support teen community better. Commonly known as ATL in the community. ➡️How is it helpful to become an adult-teen listener? * Allows one to support teen members i.e. helping them feel heard, and less stressed and your support efforts contribute to a better support system while they transition to a new phase of life (Adulthood) * Allows an aged-up Teen Listener to reconnect with their teen members to continue listening and supporting them * If interested in leadership opportunities, it allows one to participate and help scale up teen community projects. Important Note: For all of the 18+ listeners who are interested in listening to teens, to work with teens, you must have experience as a listener and meet some general criteria, as outlined below. Additionally, the application process involves a background check and a video call interview on either Skype or Google Hangouts. ➡️ How to apply to become an Adult-Teen Listener? Basic Requirements * Be a Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/GetVerifiedon7Cups_290064/] * Be a listener for at least 3 months * Have at least 100 1-1 Chats * 4+ Star Rating * 6000+ cheers * Completed 20+ training guides [https://www.7cups.com/listener/training.php#training] including AL 1 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1wG5popRr-lrfhUc8AoZh-QTMR5QM0Flp3bJlkVROZr8/viewform] & AL-2 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe2hbLMIdBr16LQ48keucm10K5qjjh9EcgC0PUbn6wnqHiuqg/viewform] * Zero Behavioral Reports In addition to that, a few more criteria * Full legal name * To verify identity, you would need to submit a photo of 1 government ID. (Please send the ID via email to bookworm4@7cups.com) * Successfully complete a video call interview with a community leader * If you reside in the USA, you will need to provide a phone number for safety check purposes. If you do not live in the USA, this is NOT required. ▶️ Click this link to submit the application [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe1KvaFVN_eab9iF6jfAUJN6Nz3tuq9-umbQrtxAsmLl-vXLQ/viewform] ➡️ A few resources that you may find helpful: * FAQs related to Adult-Teen Listener Program [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/FAQsAdultTeenListenerProgram_292998/] * Click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/TeenListenersOnlyClub_98/ATLHowcanyouensurethatyourapplicationgetsprocessedasap_215465/] to see tips for fast application processing! * We understand that the Adult-Teen Role process can be scary for some, but we assure you all of your data is safe with us and it is truly worth it. You can hear from the teens themself here! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerCommunityCenter_38/FriendshipCornerforTeensATL_1809/YoushouldbecomeanAdultTeenListenerbecause_231025/1/#2484138] * If you are already an ATL and feeling confused? Check out this guide. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingupSupport_1766/PresentingAdultTeenStartersGuide_249084/] If you have any questions or concerns, please reach out to @Bookworm4, @Jenna, @Heather225, and @ASilentObserver. We look forward to working with you to bring more support to the teen community. *Post edited by Erica on 04/15/23 for clarity purposes* *Post edited by Jenna on May 20, 2023 to update interview information* *Post edited By Jenna on May 23, 2023 to clarify ID submission*
Aging Up Support Thread
by Hope
Last post
 June 25th
...See more Hi everyone! In the past few weeks, the Teen Leadership Team has been brainstorming ways to better support our transitioning teens. In an attempt to provide you with a space where you can get support on transitioning into the adult side we are launching this Teen Transitioning Support Thread. Here is it how it will go: â This is a safe space for all teens who are soon aging up or have recently aged up to share anything that concerns them about the transitioning process, ask questions and get support. â The thread will be monitored by our Teen Transitioning Mentors. Most of our Teen Transitioning Mentors have gone through the aging up process themself and are passionate about supporting our transitioning teens. They will respond to the members posting in this thread. Important! â This is not a place to get support on matters other than aging up as a teen. This is so we can focus our resources on supporting the teens who are going through the transitioning process. If you are looking for support on a personal matter/in need of a listener, please check our browse listener page. [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] *Aging Up: A period when a member/listener who joined 7 Cups as a teenager turns 18 and is moved to the adult side. It is also referred to as the transitioning period. ------------------------- This post is brought to you by the Teen Transitioning Program. Please read about it here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/AgingUpSupportRequestWearehereforyou_216566/].
FAQs: Adult-Teen Listener Program
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 January 10th
...See more Support comes in various forms. Listening to a member 1-1, group chats, forums. Supporting a listener or a leader etc. Similarly, when a listener becomes an Adult-Teen Listener (ATL), they are willing to support teens. But while applying to become an ATL [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/], there can be a lot of questions or concerns in your mind. We will be trying to address more of them through this FAQ post. It lists most of the common questions usually a listener may have. ☑️What is the significance of Adult-Teen Listener? Adult-Teen Listener is a unique role in the 7Cups. As 18+, we all have our experiences of being a teenager as well as lived experiences of the transition phase of a teen to adult. We understand the struggles and emotions a teen goes through, so being an ATL allows us to listen, support, and comfort a teen in order to help them have less stressful experiences being a teenager or a teenager in transition. That’s how ATL has a significant impact on the teen community. ☑️What is ATL Interview? Is it necessary to attend? ATL Interview is part of the ATL Onboarding & Training Process. It is necessary for everyone to attend. Without it, your ATL onboarding process may not be completed. ATL Interview is an Audio-Video Meeting with ATL Program Leaders to assess and discuss your support vision and the community’s expectations from an ATL. It is an opportunity for an open conversation with the ATL Program Leaders. ☑️How long ATL interview going to be? ATL interview lasts for 5 minutes to 10 minutes based on the ongoing discussion needed. ☑️Why do I need to submit social media handles or Government IDs? It is required for the ATL Verification Process to protect the privacy and safety interest of an ATL and teens. Having the verification process allows consistency in the application and onboarding process for all. ☑️Is my information secure? They are highly secure and confidential. Any social media handles or Government iD you share is only visible to an Admin. Your information is only used to complete the Verification Process after which the government IDs are deleted. ☑️Does having an interview mean I am approved to become an ATL? Not necessarily. While landing an interview certainly moves you a step closer to becoming an ATL. Though, the best fits are selected. What if I fail the interview or requirements to become an ATL? That is okay. If in case you fail, you will receive feedback to improve your skills in the areas you needed to improve and after a certain period, you can reapply. We are all learning and failing is part of the process. ☑️What kind of questions should I expect during the interview? What are the keys to responding to these questions? In addition to expectations, and behavioral and situational questions, the most common questions you might expect are your vision, how would you support a teen with X situation? How do your listening skills help the teen member? Etc. The key to responding to the interview questions is to acknowledge and identify what encouraged you to apply to be ATL in the first place and how your presence may bring support to the teen community. ☑️I am scared to attend the interview. Any tips? * I hear you and I can relate to how anxiety-inducing interviews can be. Here are some tips that may help reduce anxiety. * Deep breathing: Take slow, deep breaths from your diaphragm to help calm your body and mind. Breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth. * Mindfulness meditation: Focus your attention on the present moment, your breathing, or your body. This can help you relax and reduce worrying thoughts. * Challenging negative thoughts: Identify negative thoughts that are anxiety-provoking and challenge them with more balanced thoughts. This can help reduce anxiety and worry ☑️After becoming an ATL, what I can do? Once you are an ATL, you will have complete access to the Teen Community and you can do the following: * Take a 1-1 Teen Support Chat * Communicate with a Teen Listener 1-1 * Participate in the Teen Member Group Chats to support teen members * Participate in in the Teen Listener Group chats to learn and share your experiences and tips with fellow teen listeners. * Can apply for Leadership Roles like Teen Transitioning Mentor, Teen Chatroom Mentor, Moderator, etc. ☑️If I have a question or any concerns, who should I contact? For anything and everything related to Adult-Teen Listener Program, you can reach out to anyone of us @Bookworm4, @Jenna, @Heather225, and @ASilentObserver If your questions or concerns are not covered here, please add your question to this thread. To apply to become an Adult-Teen Listener, submit your application here! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe1KvaFVN_eab9iF6jfAUJN6Nz3tuq9-umbQrtxAsmLl-vXLQ/viewform] | Read more about the role [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/]
Welcome to the Adulthood! You've got this
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 June 20th
...See more Hello and welcome all to the adult side of life & community! I am Obs and I can understand how exhilarating and transformative a journey can be. As you start a new phase, I want you to know that you are not alone. We are all here with you to support and guide you as you navigate the world of adulthood. Transitioning from being a teenager to becoming a young adult can feel overwhelming at times, but trust me when I say that it is also an incredible opportunity for growth and self-discovery. As you spread your wings and embrace your newfound independence, remember that we're all here to help you along the way. In this post, I'll be sharing three initial resources that you can explore and use:  * Request for Transition Support through this form: [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] It will allow you to pair with a transition mentor to help and guide you through the transition, your questions, and queries related to the adult side.  * Check out the Self-esteem discussion [https://www.7cups.com/forum/selfesteem/BuildingSelfesteemseries_2655/BuildingSelfesteemSelfesteemandallthatitimpacts_321258/] to learn more about self-esteem and how you can improve it.  * Take your steps to explore group chats [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php] to seek and receive support.  Please know, that adulthood is a journey, not a destination. There will be bumps along the road, there will be moments of doubt, and that's totally okay. The key is to embrace the ride, learn from your mistakes, and never stop evolving. Once again, welcome to the adult side! Embrace the journey, stay curious, and never stop growing. Together, let's make the most of this exciting phase of life. We've got this! Note: This thread will be the welcoming space to meet fellow teens who transitioned every week, so please subscribe to the thread and welcome & connect with your transitioned group to support each other while we together navigate the adult side.   P.S. If you have any tips or resources for fellow new adults, share them in the comments below! Let's build a supportive community where we can all thrive and shine together. -------------------------
New fun weekly sessions - Wednesdays 6pm ET
by wishfulWillow6962
Last post
 December 27th, 2023
...See more Hi everyone who is reading this, I am excited to announce a new weekly session that will be starting this week! This will be a time for us to gather together to play games – all teen members and listeners are welcome, along with any ATLs who would like to join us. These sessions will be held in the Support Session at 6 pm ET on Wednesdays. The first session will be held this Wednesday (6th December). This room will be opened around 5:50 pm ET each week. The first session will be more of an introductory session although a game may be played as well. I hope to see some of you there! Also, if you have any suggestions on games you would like to play during these sessions, you are welcome to either share them below or drop me a message. 
Dear Adult Me...💭🖋️
by
Last post
 November 9th, 2023
...See more Hello Hello! This is Dys, and here we are with another icebreaker! Aging up is another roller-coaster ride in life, and for those who are about to go through it, or still a newbie in this new phase, you better watch out for what's coming your way! New stage, new start, new goals, and maybe a new you. " Is it going to be for the best or the worst?" Well... stay tuned. So, our icebreaker for today is: What would you -your teen self- like to say to your adult self? It could be anything; make it deep, meaningful, funny, honest, sarcastic etc. as long as it comes from your heart. Alright! Let's start this with: " Dear Adult me..." * * * Thanks for participating. If you're a teen about to age up or have recently aged up, or a recently badged ATL, don't hesitate to fill out this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] for any queries or concerns you've got in mind, and you'll be paired up with a TTM asap.
Transition Support Prompt #3: What kind of person do you want to become as you enter adulthood?
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 September 18th, 2023
...See more Hello everyone, I hope you are all being easy on yourself this week. Last week we discussed: How do you plan to prioritize your well-being as you become an adult? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/WelcomeIcebreakersCheckins_2544/TransitionSupportPrompt2Howdoyouplantoprioritizeyourwellbeingasyoubecomeanadult_311507/] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt12Doyoufeelpressuretoconstantlyachieveandexcelatworkduetoanxiety_308224/] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt11Doyouthinktherearecertainpersonalitytypesthataremorepronetofeelingmisunderstoodordismissed_307445/]Thank you to all who participated and shared their thoughts for discussion. I enjoyed them. I hope you all did too. If you didn't share yours, please share them here and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/WelcomeIcebreakersCheckins_2544/TransitionSupportPrompt2Howdoyouplantoprioritizeyourwellbeingasyoubecomeanadult_311507/] This week's prompt: What kind of person do you want to become as you enter adulthood? This week I want us to reflect and explore the thoughts of the person we want to become as we age up and grow. Imagine your best future self and share what kind of person you may want to be. Are there any specific personal or professional achievements you hope to accomplish? Let's get started and all thoughts are welcomed! Also, you can request a Transitioning Mentor to support and guide you as well! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform]
Transition Support Prompt #1: What are your biggest fears and concerns about transitioning from being a teenager to an adult?
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 September 4th, 2023
...See more Hello everyone and I hope you are all having a bit easier week. How are you all feeling? I am starting the Prompt Series with the goal can share our transitioning thoughts & challenges and supporting each other by responding to the comments and thoughts in this thread. Today's prompt is: What are your biggest fears and concerns about transitioning from being a teenager to an adult? I know how transitioning can be worrisome and draining for one's well-being. But please know you are not alone and you have all of us here to listen to and support. Take a moment to share your thoughts and discuss with or support others as well. Also, you can request a Transitioning Mentor to support and guide you as well! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] -------------------------
Transition Support Prompt #2: How do you plan to prioritize your well-being as you become an adult?
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 August 29th, 2023
...See more Hello everyone, I hope you are all being easy on yourself this week. Last week we discussed: What are your biggest fears and concerns about transitioning from being a teenager to an adult? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/WelcomeIcebreakersCheckins_2544/TransitionSupportPrompt1Whatareyourbiggestfearsandconcernsabouttransitioningfrombeingateenagertoanadult_311246/] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt12Doyoufeelpressuretoconstantlyachieveandexcelatworkduetoanxiety_308224/] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt11Doyouthinktherearecertainpersonalitytypesthataremorepronetofeelingmisunderstoodordismissed_307445/]Thank you to all who participated and shared their thoughts for discussion. I enjoyed them. I hope you all did too. If you didn't share yours, please share them here and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/Anxiety_2560/WeeklyPrompt13Doyoufinditdifficulttoembraceyourimperfectionsandacknowledgeyourstrengths_310434/?post=3337350https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/WelcomeIcebreakersCheckins_2544/TransitionSupportPrompt1Whatareyourbiggestfearsandconcernsabouttransitioningfrombeingateenagertoanadult_311246/] This week's prompt: How do you plan to prioritize your well-being as you become an adult? This week I want us to reflect and explore the importance of self-care and mental health. Let's get started and all thoughts are welcomed! Also, you can request a Transitioning Mentor to support and guide you as well! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] -------------------------
Here's to our Aging-Up Geminis ♊ and Cancers ♋! 🎊
by
Last post
 June 27th, 2023
...See more Hello Hello! This is Dys, and I'm a Teen Transitioning Mentor. I want to take this chance to celebrate and wish a happy (late/early) birthday to those who have aged up (or going to) this month * throwing petals and giving cookies*. The adult side is greeting and welcoming you with wide open arms! Wish the best for you in life and living in happiness, health, and wealth. Happy birthday!! (Now, make a wish😃) Please, feel free to share with us: 1) How did your birthday go for you? 2) Anything special happened or was done that made your day even more? 3) Since it's your 18th birthday, how do you feel about it? Is it any different? * * * Thanks for participating. If you're a teen about to age up or have recently aged up, or a recently badged ATL, don't hesitate to fill out this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] for any queries or concerns you've got in mind, and you'll be paired up with a TTM asap.
Here's To Our Aging-Up Taureans♉ and Geminis♉!🎊
by
Last post
 May 23rd, 2023
...See more Hello Hello! This is Dys, and I'm a Teen Transitioning Mentor. I want to take this chance to celebrate and wish a happy (late/early) birthday to those who have aged up (or going to) this month * throwing petals and giving cookies*. The adult side is greeting and welcoming you with wide open arms! Wish the best for you in life and living in happiness, health, and wealth. Happy birthday!! (Now, make a wish😃) Please, feel free to share with us: 1) How did your birthday go for you? 2) Anything special happened or was done that made your day even more? 3) Since it's your 18th birthday, how do you feel about it? Is it any different? * * * Thanks for participating. If you're a teen about to age up or have recently aged up, or a recently badged ATL, don't hesitate to fill out this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] for any queries or concerns you've got in mind, and you'll be paired up with a TTM asap.
Welcome to the Aging Up community! Let's get to know each other
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 May 20th, 2023
...See more Hello everyone! Welcome to our aging up community! We're thrilled to have you here and can't wait to get to know you. We're thrilled to have you here. As we all navigate the ups and downs of getting older, please take a moment to introduce yourself and share a bit about your journey. We're here to listen and support each other every step of the way. We're a diverse and supportive group, and we're excited to welcome you. Let's get started! ------------------------- If you have a question related to transitioning or need support, please submit your request. Open form here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform]
Announcing: A new community for Aging up Teens
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 May 11th, 2023
...See more Hello everyone, I hope you are all have an easy week <3 As we grow older, we face many challenges that can be overwhelming. Teens aging up or aged up face a unique set of difficulties that can make transitioning into adulthood a daunting task. That's why I'm excited to introduce the new and dedicated Aging Up Support Community - a dedicated space where young adults, and teens in transition can come together to share their experiences, offer support, and find the resources they need to thrive. The goal is to focus on building a supportive network for those who are aging up or have already aged up. We understand that this time in your life can be tough, but you don't have to go through it alone. We are all here to listen, offer advice, and share our own stories of success and struggle. We are determined on providing a safe and welcoming environment where everyone is free to express themselves and connect with others who understand what they're going through. Whether you're looking for mental health support or just a friendly discussion or questions or thoughts related to aging up, our community is here to help you every step of the way. So, if you're feeling lost or unsure about what comes next, know that you're not alone. Join us today and start connecting with others who understand what you're going through. Together, we can navigate the challenges of aging up and build a supportive community for us. You can request Aging Up Support by filling out this quick form here! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] ------------------------- Introduce yourself and share your transitioning experiences with us here! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AgingUpSupport_225/WelcomeIcebreakersCheckins_2544/WelcometotheAgingUpcommunityLetsgettoknoweachother_304843/]
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