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Become An Adult - Teen Listener (ATL) | Support The Teen Community
by ASilentObserver
Last post
August 29th
...See more Hi everyone! This post talks about a very important step in a listener’s journey, becoming an adult-teen listener. We were teens once and we know how confusing and challenging teenage life can be. A lot of questions and thoughts in mind, but no idea who to reach out to. But you can be that person to whom they can reach out and feel heard and comforted. You can find all the information you need on the role, requirements, process, benefits, and expectations here. ➡️ What is an Adult -Teen Listener? An Adult- Teen Listener is a trained listener who listens and supports both adult and teen members. Becoming ATL allows one to join the teen side of the 7Cups community and listen to teen members 1-1, participate in teen member group chats to support members there, and participate in teen listener group chats to share experiences, learning, and resources to support teen community better. Commonly known as ATL in the community. ➡️How is it helpful to become an adult-teen listener? * Allows one to support teen members i.e. helping them feel heard, and less stressed and your support efforts contribute to a better support system while they transition to a new phase of life (Adulthood) * Allows an aged-up Teen Listener to reconnect with their teen members to continue listening and supporting them * If interested in leadership opportunities, it allows one to participate and help scale up teen community projects. Important Note: For all of the 18+ listeners who are interested in listening to teens, to work with teens, you must have experience as a listener and meet some general criteria, as outlined below. Additionally, the application process involves a background check and a video call interview on either Skype or Google Hangouts. ➡️ How to apply to become an Adult-Teen Listener? Basic Requirements * Be a Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/GetVerifiedon7Cups_290064/] * Be a listener for at least 3 months * Have at least 100 1-1 Chats * 4+ Star Rating * 6000+ cheers * Completed 20+ training guides [https://www.7cups.com/listener/training.php#training] including AL 1 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1wG5popRr-lrfhUc8AoZh-QTMR5QM0Flp3bJlkVROZr8/viewform] & AL-2 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe2hbLMIdBr16LQ48keucm10K5qjjh9EcgC0PUbn6wnqHiuqg/viewform] * Zero Behavioral Reports In addition to that, a few more criteria * Full legal name * To verify identity, you would need to submit a photo of 1 government ID. (Please send the ID via email to bookworm4@7cups.com) * Successfully complete a video call interview with a community leader * If you reside in the USA, you will need to provide a phone number for safety check purposes. If you do not live in the USA, this is NOT required. ▶️ Click this link to submit the application [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe1KvaFVN_eab9iF6jfAUJN6Nz3tuq9-umbQrtxAsmLl-vXLQ/viewform] ➡️ A few resources that you may find helpful: * FAQs related to Adult-Teen Listener Program [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/FAQsAdultTeenListenerProgram_292998/] * Click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/TeenListenersOnlyClub_98/ATLHowcanyouensurethatyourapplicationgetsprocessedasap_215465/] to see tips for fast application processing! * We understand that the Adult-Teen Role process can be scary for some, but we assure you all of your data is safe with us and it is truly worth it. You can hear from the teens themself here! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerCommunityCenter_38/FriendshipCornerforTeensATL_1809/YoushouldbecomeanAdultTeenListenerbecause_231025/1/#2484138] * If you are already an ATL and feeling confused? Check out this guide. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingupSupport_1766/PresentingAdultTeenStartersGuide_249084/] If you have any questions or concerns, please reach out to @Bookworm4, @Jenna, @Heather225, and @ASilentObserver. We look forward to working with you to bring more support to the teen community. *Post edited by Erica on 04/15/23 for clarity purposes* *Post edited by Jenna on May 20, 2023 to update interview information* *Post edited By Jenna on May 23, 2023 to clarify ID submission*
Aging Up Support Thread
by Hope
Last post
June 25th
...See more Hi everyone! In the past few weeks, the Teen Leadership Team has been brainstorming ways to better support our transitioning teens. In an attempt to provide you with a space where you can get support on transitioning into the adult side we are launching this Teen Transitioning Support Thread. Here is it how it will go: â This is a safe space for all teens who are soon aging up or have recently aged up to share anything that concerns them about the transitioning process, ask questions and get support. â The thread will be monitored by our Teen Transitioning Mentors. Most of our Teen Transitioning Mentors have gone through the aging up process themself and are passionate about supporting our transitioning teens. They will respond to the members posting in this thread. Important! â This is not a place to get support on matters other than aging up as a teen. This is so we can focus our resources on supporting the teens who are going through the transitioning process. If you are looking for support on a personal matter/in need of a listener, please check our browse listener page. [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] *Aging Up: A period when a member/listener who joined 7 Cups as a teenager turns 18 and is moved to the adult side. It is also referred to as the transitioning period. ------------------------- This post is brought to you by the Teen Transitioning Program. Please read about it here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/AgingUpSupportRequestWearehereforyou_216566/].
FAQs: Adult-Teen Listener Program
by ASilentObserver
Last post
January 10th
...See more Support comes in various forms. Listening to a member 1-1, group chats, forums. Supporting a listener or a leader etc. Similarly, when a listener becomes an Adult-Teen Listener (ATL), they are willing to support teens. But while applying to become an ATL [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/], there can be a lot of questions or concerns in your mind. We will be trying to address more of them through this FAQ post. It lists most of the common questions usually a listener may have. ☑️What is the significance of Adult-Teen Listener? Adult-Teen Listener is a unique role in the 7Cups. As 18+, we all have our experiences of being a teenager as well as lived experiences of the transition phase of a teen to adult. We understand the struggles and emotions a teen goes through, so being an ATL allows us to listen, support, and comfort a teen in order to help them have less stressful experiences being a teenager or a teenager in transition. That’s how ATL has a significant impact on the teen community. ☑️What is ATL Interview? Is it necessary to attend? ATL Interview is part of the ATL Onboarding & Training Process. It is necessary for everyone to attend. Without it, your ATL onboarding process may not be completed. ATL Interview is an Audio-Video Meeting with ATL Program Leaders to assess and discuss your support vision and the community’s expectations from an ATL. It is an opportunity for an open conversation with the ATL Program Leaders. ☑️How long ATL interview going to be? ATL interview lasts for 5 minutes to 10 minutes based on the ongoing discussion needed. ☑️Why do I need to submit social media handles or Government IDs? It is required for the ATL Verification Process to protect the privacy and safety interest of an ATL and teens. Having the verification process allows consistency in the application and onboarding process for all. ☑️Is my information secure? They are highly secure and confidential. Any social media handles or Government iD you share is only visible to an Admin. Your information is only used to complete the Verification Process after which the government IDs are deleted. ☑️Does having an interview mean I am approved to become an ATL? Not necessarily. While landing an interview certainly moves you a step closer to becoming an ATL. Though, the best fits are selected. What if I fail the interview or requirements to become an ATL? That is okay. If in case you fail, you will receive feedback to improve your skills in the areas you needed to improve and after a certain period, you can reapply. We are all learning and failing is part of the process. ☑️What kind of questions should I expect during the interview? What are the keys to responding to these questions? In addition to expectations, and behavioral and situational questions, the most common questions you might expect are your vision, how would you support a teen with X situation? How do your listening skills help the teen member? Etc. The key to responding to the interview questions is to acknowledge and identify what encouraged you to apply to be ATL in the first place and how your presence may bring support to the teen community. ☑️I am scared to attend the interview. Any tips? * I hear you and I can relate to how anxiety-inducing interviews can be. Here are some tips that may help reduce anxiety. * Deep breathing: Take slow, deep breaths from your diaphragm to help calm your body and mind. Breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth. * Mindfulness meditation: Focus your attention on the present moment, your breathing, or your body. This can help you relax and reduce worrying thoughts. * Challenging negative thoughts: Identify negative thoughts that are anxiety-provoking and challenge them with more balanced thoughts. This can help reduce anxiety and worry ☑️After becoming an ATL, what I can do? Once you are an ATL, you will have complete access to the Teen Community and you can do the following: * Take a 1-1 Teen Support Chat * Communicate with a Teen Listener 1-1 * Participate in the Teen Member Group Chats to support teen members * Participate in in the Teen Listener Group chats to learn and share your experiences and tips with fellow teen listeners. * Can apply for Leadership Roles like Teen Transitioning Mentor, Teen Chatroom Mentor, Moderator, etc. ☑️If I have a question or any concerns, who should I contact? For anything and everything related to Adult-Teen Listener Program, you can reach out to anyone of us @Bookworm4, @Jenna, @Heather225, and @ASilentObserver If your questions or concerns are not covered here, please add your question to this thread. To apply to become an Adult-Teen Listener, submit your application here! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe1KvaFVN_eab9iF6jfAUJN6Nz3tuq9-umbQrtxAsmLl-vXLQ/viewform] | Read more about the role [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/]
I need a long term listener to help cope with my bullying trauma issue
by Eitas
Last post
July 21st
...See more Hi, i had posted in this group about my trauma before and i honestly need someone to talk to and on my side because i desperately need it.  An ATP listener please, if possible because i am about to become a young adult soon and i prefer adults' wisdom. I had a toxic listener before so i hope i won't meet that kind of listener. To the ATP listeners, please look at my previous post on my profile to see whether you can help or not if you decide to help me. Many thanks!
Aging Up Support Thread
by Hope
Last post
June 25th
...See more Hi everyone! In the past few weeks, the Teen Leadership Team has been brainstorming ways to better support our transitioning teens. In an attempt to provide you with a space where you can get support on transitioning into the adult side we are launching this Teen Transitioning Support Thread. Here is it how it will go: â This is a safe space for all teens who are soon aging up or have recently aged up to share anything that concerns them about the transitioning process, ask questions and get support. â The thread will be monitored by our Teen Transitioning Mentors. Most of our Teen Transitioning Mentors have gone through the aging up process themself and are passionate about supporting our transitioning teens. They will respond to the members posting in this thread. Important! â This is not a place to get support on matters other than aging up as a teen. This is so we can focus our resources on supporting the teens who are going through the transitioning process. If you are looking for support on a personal matter/in need of a listener, please check our browse listener page. [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] *Aging Up: A period when a member/listener who joined 7 Cups as a teenager turns 18 and is moved to the adult side. It is also referred to as the transitioning period. ------------------------- This post is brought to you by the Teen Transitioning Program. Please read about it here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/AgingUpSupportRequestWearehereforyou_216566/].
Here's To Our Aging-Up Sagittarius'♐ And Capricorns♑! 🎊
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February 21st
...See more Hello Hello! This is Dys, and I'm a Teen Transitioning Mentor. I want to take this chance to celebrate and wish a belated happy birthday to those who aged up in December and January * throwing petals and giving cookies*. The adult side is greeting and welcoming you with wide open arms! I wish the best for you in life and living in happiness, health, and wealth. Happy birthday!! (Now, make a wish😃) Please, feel free to share with us: 1) How did your birthday go for you? 2) Anything special happened or was done that made your day even more? 3) Since it's your 18th birthday, how do you feel about it? Is it any different? * * * Thanks for participating. If you're a teen about to age up or have recently aged up, or a recently badged ATL, don't hesitate to fill out this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] for any queries or concerns you've got in mind, and you'll be paired up with a TTM asap.
Here's To Our Aging-Up Scorpios♏ and Sagittarius♐!🎊
by
Last post
January 3rd
...See more Hello Hello! This is Dys, and I'm a Teen Transitioning Mentor. I want to take this chance to celebrate and wish a happy birthday to those who have aged up (or are going to) in November and December * throwing petals and giving cookies*. The adult side is greeting and welcoming you with wide open arms! I wish the best for you in life and living in happiness, health, and wealth. Happy birthday!! (Now, make a wish😃) Please, feel free to share with us: 1) How did your birthday go for you? 2) Anything special happened or was done that made your day even more? 3) Since it's your 18th birthday, how do you feel about it? Is it any different? * * * Thanks for participating. If you're a teen about to age up or have recently aged up, or a recently badged ATL, don't hesitate to fill out this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] for any queries or concerns you've got in mind, and you'll be paired up with a TTM asap.
Here's To Our Aging-Up Librans♎ and Scorpios♏!🎊
by
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December 27th, 2023
...See more Hello Hello! This is Dys, and I'm a Teen Transitioning Mentor. I want to take this chance to celebrate and wish a belated happy birthday to those who aged up in October and November * throwing petals and giving cookies*. The adult side is greeting and welcoming you with wide open arms! I wish the best for you in life and living in happiness, health, and wealth. Happy birthday!! (Now, make a wish😃) Please, feel free to share with us: 1) How did your birthday go for you? 2) Anything special happened or was done that made your day even more? 3) Since it's your 18th birthday, how do you feel about it? Is it any different? * * * Thanks for participating. If you're a teen about to age up or have recently aged up, or a recently badged ATL, don't hesitate to fill out this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] for any queries or concerns you've got in mind, and you'll be paired up with a TTM asap.
Aging Up Support Request - We are here for you!
by Hope
Last post
December 1st, 2023
...See more Click here to visit Uptown [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/WelcometoUptown_254225/]! Hi Teen Land! I hope you all have been doing well. A few days ago we relaunched our teen transitioning mentor role to have a group dedicated mentors that will support our teens through the period of transition. A big part of the teen transitioning mentor role will be supporting the teens through the Aging Up Support Request system. Here is how it works! ☆ If you are a teen who is aging up within a year or less and you need support with the transition period, you can submit this form. The form takes less than 5 mins to fill and allows us to get the information we need to be of support to you. ☆ The form can also be used to request support on behalf of a fellow listener or member who you feel needs support. This is a way for us to work together and ensure all teens feel supported during this transition period. ☆ One the form is submitted, you/they will be contacted within 3 days by a teen transitioning mentor. The mentor will work with you to ensure you are ready for the transition along with answering any questions you may have. ☆The Transitioning Mentor Request form is used for the purpose of preparing for the transition and being supported through the transition that happens when a teen account moves to the adult side on a user's 18th birthday. If you wish to receive support in matters relating to turning 18 in regards to anything outside of 7 Cups, as well as support with any personal matters, please reach out to a listener from your member account. You deserve support through the transition ahead, and there are many listeners with experience here to support you during this transition. In order to ensure that we are focusing on those who are active and aging up soon we request you to follow the following guidelines when submitting a support request: ☆ You are eligible to request transitioning support when you are aging up within a year or less. Of course, you can reach out to the Transitioning Mentors even before via PM to ask any questions you may have but the form is for those who are aging up soon. ☆ If you do not respond to our mentor within 3 days your request will be closed. You can make another request when you are ready for support. Open form here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] ------------------------- Also, all are invited to visit group support chatrooms: www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php [http://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php] and Teen Only Zone Community: www.7cups.com/home/teens [http://www.7cups.com/home/teens] ------------------------- This post is brought to you by the Teen Transitioning Program. Please read about it here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/AgingUpSupportRequestWearehereforyou_216566/].
Here's To Our Aging-Up Virgos♍ and Libra♎!🎊
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October 26th, 2023
...See more Hello Hello! This is Dys, and I'm a Teen Transitioning Mentor. I want to take this chance to celebrate and wish a happy birthday to those who have aged up (or are going to) in September and October * throwing petals and giving cookies*. The adult side is greeting and welcoming you with wide open arms! I wish the best for you in life and living in happiness, health, and wealth. Happy birthday!! (Now, make a wish😃) Please, feel free to share with us: 1) How did your birthday go for you? 2) Anything special happened or was done that made your day even more? 3) Since it's your 18th birthday, how do you feel about it? Is it any different? * * * Thanks for participating. If you're a teen about to age up or have recently aged up, or a recently badged ATL, don't hesitate to fill out this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] for any queries or concerns you've got in mind, and you'll be paired up with a TTM asap.
Here's To Our Aging-Up Leos♌ and Virgos♍!🎊
by
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October 17th, 2023
...See more Hello Hello! This is Dys, and I'm a Teen Transitioning Mentor. I want to take this chance to celebrate and wish a belated happy birthday to those who aged up in August and September * throwing petals and giving cookies*. The adult side is greeting and welcoming you with wide open arms! Wish the best for you in life and living in happiness, health, and wealth. Happy birthday!! (Now, make a wish😃) Please, feel free to share with us: 1) How did your birthday go for you? 2) Anything special happened or was done that made your day even more? 3) Since it's your 18th birthday, how do you feel about it? Is it any different? * * * Thanks for participating. If you're a teen about to age up or have recently aged up, or a recently badged ATL, don't hesitate to fill out this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] for any queries or concerns you've got in mind, and you'll be paired up with a TTM asap.
Here's To Our Aging-Up Cancers♋ And Leos♌!🎊
by
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October 17th, 2023
...See more Hello Hello! This is Dys, and I'm a Teen Transitioning Mentor. I want to take this chance to celebrate and wish a belated happy birthday to those who aged up in June and August * throwing petals and giving cookies*. The adult side is greeting and welcoming you with wide open arms! Wish the best for you in life and living in happiness, health, and wealth. Happy birthday!! (Now, make a wish😃) Please, feel free to share with us: 1) How did your birthday go for you? 2) Anything special happened or was done that made your day even more? 3) Since it's your 18th birthday, how do you feel about it? Is it any different? * * * Thanks for participating. If you're a teen about to age up or have recently aged up, or a recently badged ATL, don't hesitate to fill out this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] for any queries or concerns you've got in mind, and you'll be paired up with a TTM asap.
Manage Anxiety of Aging Up from Teen to Adult
by ASilentObserver
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September 6th, 2023
...See more Hello everyone, Last week we discussed in the weekly prompt: What kind of person do you want to become as you enter adulthood? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/WelcomeIcebreakersCheckins_2544/TransitionSupportPrompt3Whatkindofpersondoyouwanttobecomeasyouenteradulthood_312071/] Thank you to all who participated and shared their thoughts for discussion. I enjoyed discussing them with you. I hope you all did too. If you didn't share yours, please share them here and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/WelcomeIcebreakersCheckins_2544/TransitionSupportPrompt3Whatkindofpersondoyouwanttobecomeasyouenteradulthood_312071/] Aging up can be scary and a lot of emotions would be involved in it. It can make one feel overwhelmed, anxious, and clueless about what next to do. I wanted to start a discussion on how to manage those thoughts and anxiety that can come with the process of aging up from a teenager to an adult. It's a time of significant change and can be overwhelming for many teens. I have been there and can relate to how difficult the process can be. So, I am sharing some tips that helped me and others I know. 1. Embrace uncertainty and change Transitioning from a teen to an adult means stepping into the unknown. Accepting that change is inevitable and embracing uncertainty can help ease anxiety. Remind yourself that it's normal to feel anxious during this phase of life. Focus on the opportunities and growth that come with adulthood. 2. Seek support Don't hesitate to reach out for support from friends, family, or here with us on 7cups. Talking to someone who understands what you're going through can provide comfort. You can join us in the Group Chats here [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php] or in the forums, Aging up Community here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/]! You can also fill support request and connect with a Teen Transitioning Mentor here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform]. Please know you are not alone in this challenge. You have all of us here with you. 3. Set realistic expectations It's common to have expectations about what adulthood should look like. But, it's essential to set realistic expectations for yourself. Please know that everyone's journey is different, and there is no right way to be an adult. Be kind to yourself and acknowledge that it's okay to make mistakes and learn along the way. We are all learning as we grow and try. 4. Practice self-compassion Transitioning to adulthood can sometimes feel overwhelming, and it's easy to be hard on yourself. Practice self-compassion by treating yourself with kindness and understanding. Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small, and remind yourself that you're doing the best you can. Every step, small wins count and matter. 5. Plan and set goals Having a sense of direction can alleviate anxiety. Set short-term and long-term goals that align with your values and interests. Break them down into smaller, manageable steps, and celebrate your progress along the way. Planning can provide a sense of control and purpose. This transition is a journey, and it's okay to feel anxious. You're not alone, and there are resources available to help you navigate this phase of life. Take it one step at a time, be patient with yourself, and trust that you have the strength to overcome any challenges that come your way.
HELP! IM ADULTING...
by lavenderLemon6808
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May 20th, 2023
...See more IM TURNING 18 ON APRIL 7TH IM SCAREEDD... help??
Aging-Up: Rose, Thorn, and Bud ..💭
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May 15th, 2023
...See more Hello Hello! This is Dys, and I'm a Teen Transitioning Mentor. Before we start with our icebreaker, I'd like to briefly illustrate what this icebreaker is all about: Rose, thorn, and bud is a mindful way to reflect, especially at the time of transitional phases. Here is what each term means: Rose🌹= Positive event/ Highlight Thorn🪵= Negative event/ Challenge Bud🌱 = Potential/ New ideas And that brings us to today's icebreaker: " Share your rose, thorn, and bud, in the light of your aging-up experience. " Looking forward to what you've all got! * * * Thanks for participating. If you're a teen about to age up or have recently aged up, or a recently badged ATL, don't hesitate to fill out this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] for any queries or concerns you've got in mind, and you'll be paired up with a TTM asap.
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