Hi... Well, I know I'm no one to tell you that you are wrong or anything like that. It's just that at a certain point I do agree with you but then again it all depends on the person whether he or she wants to move on or not. Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that you don't want to move on from what you are going through. I'm just saying maybe you aren't getting the person with whom you can talk more freely and if you are getting then that's only for a few days or weeks.
But let me suggest you something. I'm not a listener or anything like that. I'm just a depressed person. Well, I was actually. I came here it's been 4-5days. When I came here I was depressed like hell. After staying here I realized one thing. If I want to be happy in my life then I need to swallow my depression, and my sadness and forget them and move on with my life.
I know it is easy to say and hard to do. But nothing is impossible in this world. If you want people to help you out then first you help yourself by getting out of that sad or whatever emotional cage you are having inside you.
Be more like yourself, do all the stuff which you like ( obviously legal ones though) but then again try to be happy and try to love yourself. And trust me only by that way you will be out of your trouble. Like now I'm starting to feel.
A few days back when I was searching for people's help today I'm motivating others to live a happy life and move on. So, love yourself first and move on to create beautiful memories.
And I'm sorry if any of my words have hurt you. All the best for your upcoming life events.