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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

LotusFury
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...❗Bio Construction In Progress❗... If u see 🟢 It means that I'm online and I accept chats :)  This 🟡 It means I'm a little busy, I can still take chats, I'll just will take me more than usual to respond  Red 🔴 means that I'm offline, If you have something important to say, feel free to write it in the chat, I will answer as soon as possible Areas Where I Can Offer Support: Anxiety ADHD/Autism Spectrum Depression Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) Eating Disorders Exercise Motivation Family Stress General Mental Health  Obsessive compulsive disorder(OCD) Self-harm Social Anxiety  Areas Outside My Expertise -Adoption/forest care -Alcohol/Drug abuse -Bipolar  -Borderline (BPD) -Chronic pain -Diabetes  -Grief -Personality disorder  -PTSD -Schizophrenia  I Don't feel comfortable talking about:  ×Breakups ×Domestic Violence  ×Men's issues ×Panic attacks ×Relationship stress ×Sexual Health  ×Weight management  ×Women's issues ------------------------- >I oscillate between obsession and disinterest<
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JustSophia
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I'm an older woman (she/her) with lots of compassion, and I'm comfortable talking about a variety of mental health issues.  I've been through a lot with my own bipolar disorder so I can offer real empathy.  Please note: I will not tolerate explicit or inappropriate sex talk. Green status indicator = Available to chat.  Orange status indicator = Online but busy. I will respond as soon as I can.  Red status indicator = I am unavailable but you are welcome to leave me a message.  "I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work."  - Thomas Edison
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RarelyCharlie
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Not taking new chats. ------------------------- Coming, going, the waterbirds don't leave a trace, don't follow a path. I'm Charlie and I'm trained, verified and experienced as an active listener for both adults and teens. I like to support people who are struggling with something. Also people who aren't struggling with anything. And people who aren't sure whether they're struggling with anything or not. Please do not message me hoping to start a chat. I am not taking new chats. The poem is said to be by Eihei Dōgen, a Japanese poet who wrote it around eight hundred years ago. I don't know why I like it. I just do. My photo is the moon shining on the sea. There's some darkness and some clouds there but the light of the moon shines on everything. I like this too. Thank you for reading my profile. I'm glad you are here! ------------------------- In an emergency or a crisis: If you are in an emergency or a crisis—for example, if you are at immediate risk of suicide or other serious harm—7 Cups is not the right place, because we cannot deal with emergencies or provide crisis counselling. Click here for information about getting help: Get emergency or crisis support [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/howto/crisis] Listener support: I'm happy to support other listeners with issues related to listening, although I don't have any official role. Please do not message me from a listener account to chat about personal issues. Use a member account for that. To understand why, see: Listener and Member Roles [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/GlensThoughts_143/ListenerandMemberRoles_210/1/] Schedule: I don't have a fixed schedule. I'm online some weekdays between about 4:30 a.m. and 8:30 a.m. US Eastern Time. In the UK this is 9:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. On other days and at weekends I'm often online too, but at times that are not predictable. If you message me or tag me in a forum I'm usually able to respond within a day or two. Miscellaneous resources: For some other resources, mainly for listeners, see my unofficial companion site: The 8th Cup [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/]
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Antonio7Cups
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Unfortunality, I am not available to assist 1-1 member support chats. 🌟 About Me 🌟  😄 Hello! I am Antonio, a dedicated 7 Cups teen listener who cares about the mental health and psychological well-being of our society. 🌼 As someone deeply committed to lending a listening ear and a caring heart, I believe in the power of empathetic conversations to create a safe and non-judgmental space for you. 💖 Throughout my journey on 7 Cups, I've gained insights into resilience, positivity, and the strength of the human spirit. Excited to be a significant part of your support network and share in your experiences. 👨👧 My wonderful listener twin is the amazing @, adding another layer of support and understanding to my journey.  🎧 What to Expect 🎧 ✨ In our conversations, experience a warm and welcoming atmosphere where you can freely express yourself. I'm here to listen, provide emotional support, and offer a caring presence. Together, we can navigate challenges and celebrate successes. 💪 My goal is to help you find inner strength and resources to face life's ups and downs. Remember, you're not alone, and there's always hope for a brighter tomorrow. 🍵 My roles at 7 Cups 🍵 Current roles: Founder and Leader of the Kahoot Sessions TeamChatroom Moderator of the Newbie Hub Community (Teen Community Room 24/7, Support Room 24/7 and Sharing Circle Room)Doorkeeper. Group Support Mentor. Global Moderator. Past roles: Project Agent of the Outreach AL Team.Peer Supporter.Member of the Safety Patrol Team.Community Mentor of the TV & Movies Community. 📅 Availability 🕰️ - Days: Monday to Friday. -Time: 8:30 AM to 9:30 AM Eastern Time (ET) That is the time when I am normally available, but it does not mean that I cannot connect at other times, and you can see me, for example, in the chat rooms. ⏰ Response Time ⏰ You can expect my response within: 24 to 72 hours. 🤗 Let's Connect 🤗 Feel free to reach out anytime you'd like to chat or share your thoughts. I'm here to support you in your journey, making each day a little brighter. Remember, you matter, and your feelings are valid. 💕 Thank you for considering me as your listener on 7 Cups. Looking forward to getting to know you and being a source of encouragement and understanding in your life. Take care and be kind to yourself! 🌻 Updated on December 9, 2024.
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SariannaMoon
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abuse survivor, addiction survivor, depression survivor, college grad, anti-diva, peer supporter, voice of the voiceless, and no I don't need to smile more. :)   Not taking chats atm.                                                                                        Hi there :)  My name is Sari. Its nice to meet you on 7 cups of tea. I consider myself a good listener.  I never would have ever expected I would become a Listener or someone that could help others but I have struggled and fought throughout my life that I feel I can give encouragement to those in need. Here at 7Cups im learning a lot about being selfless and compassionate. Because i wasn't always the person I am now and I still have a long ways to go. I used to be a selfish, conceited, arrogant and a uncaring person who walked around with an attitude thinking I was too cute and was just lazy and unmotivated. I picked up a lot of bad habits, hung around with the wrong type of people, gave my heart to and trusted the wrong type of men, and made a lot of mistakes and regrets. Then life gave me a reality check. And since I have fought to change my life. I've become somewhat of an anti diva. Now I want to help those struggling with depression, anxiety, abuse, addiction, relationship issues, break ups, and loneliness. Im passionate about these issues because I too suffer from them and know all too well how insidious it is to live with. I was diagnosed with bipolar and anxiety disorder when I was 17. I also suffer from a stomach disorder. A severe, painful and untreatable abdominal condition. None of these issues have taken away from my quality of life. Nor has deterred me from all of my dreams and desires. I know I dont smile a lot but I am generally a very happy and positive person but I have been there, been through it and have overcome a lot. I am a better, stronger, and a more responsible person because of my struggles. I understand that nothing in life will ever come easy. Nothing in life that is easy is worth having. Life owes us nothing. We cannot sit idle wishing things were different. We must fight for the things we desire each and every day. You only lose when you quit. You only fail when you refuse to get up and keep going. And that is all ive ever done in my life. Sometimes something terrible happens and splits your life in two. Theres a before, and a after. For some, like me, there are many splits. A scar on your body. Scars in your mind. These splits are meant for only two purposes. To destroy you, or to make you stronger. And if you use it right.. take all that hurt and pain, and use it constructively, it makes you better. Gives you a new power, a sharper vision, a thicker skin, and a resilient mind. That is what having your heart ripped out does. It shows you what is on this inside. What you and I are made of. And if you use it, you become unbreakable. Please feel free to connect with me if im online. Always stay strong and never give up. We are all greater than what ails us.                                                                                ***Note: I am bi-sexual but I do not engage in any sexually related conversations or issues legitimate or otherwise. And please do not ask me for personal contact information. Thank you.   *** Important: Also my LISTENER TWIN is @Letmehelpyou210. She is as important to me as some of you members feel I am to you. Shes a wonderful and amazing listener and if ever I am on break I would definitely recommend ther. Just think of her as a better version of me. ;) She is like a sister to me, great friend, and awesome person.   "Only when my eyes have adjusted to the dark I can witness the splendor of the moon. Only when I have sat in the hopeless dark lost, the moon is my light and my guide. Even through the darkest days, the moon shines...... always."                                                                                       MOON BABY; a delicate and sacred being, sometimes furry. Moon babies are rumored to speak with high pitched hispanic accents when called upon properly. ;P    
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Rose644
L Specialist 359
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Hello, hiya! And welcome 💕 I’m Rose. My pronouns are she/her. I love reading books, drawing and a bit of writing. My nicknames are :  Roseey, Roseeee, Rice, Roae, Royal Rose, Fose, Rise, Pose, vampire, Professor Rose, Rosen, Knight Rose and Ruby. If you just want to have a chat or require peer support or have questions about aging up on cups, feel free to message.🤍 I try to respond as soon as I can. □■□■□■□■□■□■□■□ My Roles  I used to be a Room supporter. I'm a verified listener and host Sharing Circles I'm a peer supporter. I'm also a Teen Transitioning Mentor □■□■□■□■□■□■□■□ I do not take sexual chats. □■□■□■□■□■□■□■□ You are awesome, don't let anyone convince you otherwise 💕 *Have some comfortcookies* "The comfort cookie queen" 🍪 •°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°• I might take time to reply, but that is because I'm finding the right words. I talk to only one member at a time so I can give my undivided attention to you. ♧♧♧♧♧♧♧♧♧♧♧♧♧♧ Jessrabbit7 💕, Jess you are my best friend. You are everything best in the whole universe. You are always there for me, and are a source of support. Words cannot do justice to how much you mean to me. Thanks for being here for me.  ❤ The helper seeks to help because they know what it is to be helpless. ☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆ My twinnie: NovaGalaxy, hope our game goes long. Thank you for being the awesome person you are. *found you*, that's one point for me. XD --••--••-- My Almost listener triplets: ♡LavenderHere and ♡ Hope2103. They are the best and my kind-of-besties. They are kind and compassionate. Thank you both for being here. 💛💜🖤 ☆☆☆☆☆☆ You are awesome and you matter ❤ ◇◇◇◇◇◇◇◇◇◇◇◇◇◇◇◇ Some quotes for my friends here: "The Sun needs to set before it can rise again.", for jessrabbit7 my awesome Sharing Circle co-host. "If everyone was same, the world would rather be a very boring place to live.", for MollyT  my fellow lurker. "Stars are always there, the difference is at night you can see them while during day you can't." , for SofiaStardust, my vampire best friend. " Silence is a weapon and a shield, ", for precious Pebble7447. "With great responsibilities and powers .....comes the great need to nap.", for ConsiderateOrange2567, a person who listened to me rant about corset and hairpins. "Have a great day, may the odds be ever in your favour", for Christine my booklover and Fandom sharing sis. "Roseey are red so is the danger sign", for Ezee the Ezoodle, who gave me the name Roseey. "Sunshine is the warmest and most precious thing to me",  for Allie sunshinegiraffe123, a great friend. " Stares at all night awake Rose", by FallenStars, a truly kind soul and a great friend. "Not every conversation has an aim", for iamsidhere. "Life is a mystery, learn from history", for BlueRiver5968.  
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Saifelhak74
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I'm a simple and nice person, all my friend like my personality, and like talk to me, because they found me the right person who keeps their secrets and listen to them, and sometimes my advises helped them. I wish I success and help other persons. My logo in the life is: YES I CAN, if you want, so you can get or do it. believe in yourself, never give up...   Those who defeat their desires are more courageous than those who defeat their enemies, because the most difficult victory is victory over self.   I'm a verified listener @Feelicity08 my Twin.. @calmPomegranate2721 my Best friend.     Red: I am most likely online, so shoot me a message! I'll answer when come online ! Orange: I am definitely online, just busy with members, and am answering PMs! Please send me a message, and I will try answer! Green: I am taking chats and doing support sessions! Listener and Members, feel free to send me a message for support, and listeners, feel free to contact me as well! Immediate responses!     I'm Saif... I'm here for you...Just stay safe, Feel Free and fly, PM me.......................      
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cal1860
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@cal1860   [https://www.7cups.com/13383367]I'm in my 60s and my main area of experience is Autism Spectrum, living with & managing disabilities.  I'm happy to chat about most topics.  I prefer to limit chats to about an hour.  I'm a Christian.  
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RainbowRosie
L Proficient 4 1904
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Hi there and welcome, 😀 I’m Rosie, a verified listener and I’ve been here on 7 Cups for four years. As I’ve gone through some difficult times myself, I know just how good it is to have someone you can talk to.  As I’m passionate about mental health I’m here to listen and be there for you. Please be reassured I'm non judgemental and want to help make you feel supported and heard. LGBTQ+ friendly 🌈  If I’m not online then please feel free to leave me a message and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can. My only ask is that you please share a little about what it is you’d like to chat about in your message, thank you.     PLEASE NOTE:  I’m here to listen and chat…NO sex chat.  I do accept casual chats. I'm not comfortable with sexual health related topics. As I follow the community guidelines, I do expect you to as well. If you need immediate support, please browse for a listener who is online. Thanks Rosie 🌹 Graduate from the; Quality Listening Program Leadership Development Programme Inner Development Goals Course 🌹 7 Things about me; I’m an animal lover, especially dogs and have two myself  I love dark chocolate I prefer baking to cooking  I’m a proud LGBT+ ally I work and am also a pt carer for my lovely mum who’s in her 80s I’m a coffee lover and could just drink one now  I like to laugh…so do it as much as I can 😀 ******* 🌹 One of my favourite quotes; When you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot in it and hold on. 🌹 A few things I remind myself of; ‘Staying positive doesn’t mean you have to be happy all the time. It means that even on hard days, you know that there are better days coming’. ’Everyone you meet is going through something that you have no idea of. If you can’t help then at least be kind’. ‘To get a rainbow you have to first deal with the rain’ 🌈 ******* 🌹 When away from 7 Cups I find the following helpful to relax;  Reading, swimming, walking my dogs or sitting out in the garden with a nice cuppa. Crisis Resources Please note that 7cups is not equipped to support crisis situations. If you are in crisis, it's important to reach out to a crisis line for appropriate support. Here are some sourced crisis lines and resources to help you:  Remember, it's okay to ask for help. Your well-being is important, and there are people and resources available to support you. Don't hesitate to reach out if you need someone to talk to. (U.S.) The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline [https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/] at 1-800-273-8255 [tel:18002738255] Crisis Text Line [https://www.crisistextline.org/texting-in] (U.S.) Text HOME to 741741 (Canada) Text HOME to 686868  International Association for Suicide Prevention  [https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/] Canada call 1-833-456-4566or text 45645 Crisis Services Canada [http://www.crisisservicescanada.ca/]  UK  Call Samaritans [https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/talk-us-phone/] 116 123  Call Hopeline [https://papyrus-uk.org/hopelineuk/] 080020068204141 [tel:080020068204141] or text 0778620209697 [tel:0778620209697] Australia Lifeline Crisis Support  [https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/topics/lifeline-services] call  13 11 14 India click the link to find a local crisis line with Befrienders Ind [http://befriendersindia.net/helpline-details.php]ia 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 🌹🌹🌹 🌹    
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BeautifulSoulHannah2277
L Beginner 4 21
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Hi, I'm Hannah but I go by Anne. However, please just call me Hannah. I will be your compassionate and active listener on 7 cups.  If you have any stressors going on with school, work, or your mental health, I can help. I can teach you excellent coping strategies and ways to deal with your emotions. In addition, I can help you with your disability and ways you can cope with chronic illnesses or mental health issues. While it is important to talk to me to vent, I’d like to say that my boundaries as a listener are just as important as your boundaries. As a member, you can expect me to respect you and value you both as a person and your time. You can also expect courteous and prompt responses from me. If I’m offline, just send me a message and I’ll reply. As for my boundaries, please avoid foul language like swear words and heart emojies ( ❤️ ). I’d like you to respect me as a person and avoid inappropriate conversations. Please feel free to reach out to me if you'd like to talk to someone.  Good luck on your journey to recovery! :)  ~ Hannah
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Asher
L Virtuoso 4 986
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Hello, my name is Asher. I'm currently a student working on my Master of Business Administration. Looking forward to working with you. I have also provided 5,000 hours of Peer Support for those in need, while focusing on a holistic approach for each member. I do take all issues and will support you on them to the best of my ability (except issues of suicide or active self-harm).  Interests: Narrative Psychology, Mythology, Children Literature, Public Health, Mental Health, becoming a Doctoral student in Public Health or Healthcare Administration, Leadership, and Sociology of Health.  7 Cups Leadership Roles Project Lead, Being Asher Former Roles Community Ambassador  Executive Editor, 7 Cups Newsletter Community Admin Support, Group Support in Community Engagement Community Mentor Leader of 7 Cups Leadership Quality Mentor, Safety Patrol Outreach Team  Project Lead of International Resource Database Chatroom Support/ Teen Chatroom Support Safety Patrol Outreach Team  Peer Support / Teen Peer Support Forum Supporter, Need Replies "Cause I'll be there when you can finally make it home"                                                                 - Missing Piece, Vance Joy "We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly"                                             - Up, Disney            "Go big, get loud, or go home. You gotta check that bucket list before going to the crypt"                                                                                        - Chaz Cardigom                                                 
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Phoenixthepoised
L Explorer 6 107
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Hi, I’m Phoenix! I’m deeply passionate about exploring the intersections of psychology, philosophy, and spirituality. These fields help me navigate the complexities of human experience, making sense of our shared journey. I believe in nurturing a strong inner world as it builds resilience and self-awareness while also fostering a compassionate outlook on life. I love connecting with others and sharing stories that inspire growth and understanding, making each day a little more meaningful. ------------------------- Why the name 'Phoenixthepoised'? Phoenixthepoised embodies a powerful blend of transformation and tranquility. The phoenix represents rebirth and resilience, illustrating the strength to rise anew after setbacks. "The poised" signifies a graceful, balanced presence, reflecting the importance of staying centered amid life's chaos. Together, this name conveys a journey of inner growth, empowerment and a dedication to navigating challenges with both strength and compassion. It’s a reminder to embrace change while remaining anchored in self-awareness. ------------------------- What can you expect? Welcome to a space where vulnerability meets warmth! Our conversations will feel like a stroll through a peaceful garden, where you can express yourself freely without any rush or pressure. I’m here to listen with an open heart, validating your feelings and offering support without any judgment. My goal is to make sure you feel truly heard and appreciated because every story is worth sharing. I take 1-on-1 chats for a maximum of 45 minutes, allowing me to fully focus and delve into your concerns without distractions. Also, I'm not available to take any 1-on-1 chats on Saturdays and Sundays ------------------------- Life can feel like a lot sometimes but you don’t have to carry it alone. Whether you’re in search of a friendly chat, a little laughter or just someone who truly understands, I’m here to walk alongside you on this journey. Looking forward to connecting with you and being a part of your journey! https://www.7cups.com/113948727
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