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Smrtbibliophile
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Number of ratings136 Number of reviews50 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceApr 8, 2015 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 1,412 People helped434 Chats1,952 Group support chats26 Listener group chats22 Forum posts170 Forum upvotes151
Bio

Hey there! You can call me Lo!

I'm a mom to two: one almost teen and one teen. I have 3 dogs and 2 cats, I enjoy helping people and have personal experience with a lot of different tough topics, off the top of my head break ups, difficult family situations, abuse, addiction, and parenting struggles. I'm sure there's more and I'm always willing to listen even if it's something I don't have personal experience - sometimes you just need to vent and get things off your chest. If I don't have any persosnal experience I will let you know and then it's up to you if you'd like to continue chatting or find another listener, the most important thing to me is you find a safe space and connect with someone. I enjoy reading, playing with my dogs, being near the water - especially the ocean (except I'm afraid of waves, lol) and like I said before - helping people. If I'm online, feel free to chat, or leave me a message! 

If the circle on my profile picture is red I am either offline, busy, or  possibly on a break, but breaks I will update here. Feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you when I can. If I respond expect responses to be delayed.

If the circle is orange, I'm working on something, or I am in a chatroom. Again, feel free to try me as I likely will be able to respond, but responses will be delayed.

If it's green I am here and I can take chats. If I have a time limit I will let you know. If for some reason your first message the response isn't quick, I am probably away from the computer for a moment (though I usually try to switch to yellow) or your chat got buried which sometimes happens randomly. Please wait five minutes and try again.


*********** I take sexual health issues on a case by case basis and will let you know if you should connect with another listener.**********

For the time being I am focusing on some coursework/trainings I have on Mondays and Tuesdays and checking in with repeat users. You can try but responses are likely to be delayed. If you see the green circle then I am good to take chats :)


🙊Just a note that I am in the EST time zone, but I am usually on later in the evenings/overnight as I am a night owl. (There's not an owl emoji so enjoy these late night monkeys!)🙈

I can now take teen chats! 



Recent forum posts
Favorite Childhood movie(s)?
Hobby Zone / by Smrtbibliophile
Last post
 April 24th, 2023
...See more Lately I've been on a kick watching favorite movies from my childhood - specifically kids movies that are animated mostly. I thought it would be fun to hear from others what their's are as it may remind me of something I forgot, and it might be fun to see how they vary based on different ages. A few of mine are: -Ferngully - Land Before Time (my favorite. Now my dog reminds me so much of Spike 😂) - Rock A Doodle - All Dogs Go To Heaven (I feel us 80's babies had some dark themes in a lot of our movies, lol) -Wild Hearts Can't Be Broken (not animated but I also love this movie) -The Princess Bride (obviously also not animated) I also love pretty much all Disney/Pixar Movies but to save time here are my top three from childhood: -Little Mermaid (my Dad died when I was young but I remember sitting in his lap seeing this movie and singing Kiss The Girl with him after it was over so it's got a sentimental value as well) -Beauty and the Beast (I am Belle) -Toy Story (I remember how amazed I was with it's detail). What about you? (I know all the top I listed are available in the US on Netflix, Tubi or Disney Plus if you're interested in where to stream check out those platforms. Tubi is free!) I'm guessing the last three are on Disney Plus but haven't looked.)
Book vs. Movie
Hobby Zone / by Smrtbibliophile
Last post
 April 21st, 2023
...See more Hi All! Piggy backing off @sirenAngel post about what do you like to read I am wondering what movie based on a book did you find that was equal to or better than the book? Or, on the flip side what movie as a book lover do you really feel they messed up? For me, I think the Notebook movie was better than the book. I also think Netflix has done a pretty decent job with some YA adaptations (Along For The Ride by Sarah Dessen comes to mind). I've seen a lot of disappointing movies but what really let me down was Memoirs of a Geisha. One of my favorite books and the movie while beautiful didn't do the story justice imo.
Random stranger
Newbie Hub / by Smrtbibliophile
Last post
 April 20th, 2015
...See more I'm an incurable insomniac and it gets a little lonely/boring at night. I usually read or watch tv, but sometimes that's boring (also with TV, I don't watch a ton, so when I go through what's on my DVR I'm stuck. I also watch a lot of true crime stuff and have a tendency to spook myself which isn't good when it's night and you're alone.) Anyway, I had started this weird project of posting ads in random towns on Craigslist so I could talk to people across the country/world - I like learning about people and cultures and it kept me busy. One of the people I talked to mentioned 7 cups. I had never heard of it, so I googled it. I wasn't comfortable talking to someone, so I decided to sign up as a listener instead as it's a lot like what I'm going to school for.
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 I had a wonderful experience and I would highly recommend this listener to others. I had a great time talking to this beautiful and intelligent woman.
Listener was Amazing and Very Nice
Such a good listener!
Smart, compassionate, friendly and understanding. No need to say more.
She's understanding and very helpful and kind
very kind and compassionate
Very likeable and empathetic.
A very kind, patient, and understanding person. I felt able to tackle my emotions and thoughts after we finished up, which is a feat. Thank you so much!
Kind and is interested in the conversation
Felt like talking to a friend
She’s kind and warm
helps so much and is a great listener!
Very Understandble
Lo was amazing and helped me work out a few things I was having trouble with.
She has a naturally friendly, affable manner that was heartwarming to me while I was feeling stressed. It made me feel truly welcomed and comfortable. ✨
Very good listener to have.
Very polite, kind and understanding person! Made me feel so much better to share feelings and thoughts with and to be understood! Thank you very much for your kindness!
Shs always works so passionately to make sure me and others members get the help we need and get the best experience possible.
This listener is excellent, absolutely amazing, the best listener and she is so friendly. It was a really awesome chat!
Great listener. Helped me by telling me the truth in a sympathetic way and not just saying what I wanted to hear.
The absolute most sweet and kind person
Very nice listener.
Such a great person, very understanding and very kind!
A great listener really helpful over the passing days
Good listener, kind and caring
I love talking to you. It is very helpful
She seems good.
Sweet lady
So sweet!
Laura is really nice. I honestly thought this app could be a waste of time, but she actually understands what it's like to go through family issues. It helped a lot that she shared some of her story with me. Makes me feel like I'm not alone. Thank you, Laura.
She was very easy to talk to, and seemed to honestly care what I was saying. Great listener, I'd recommend.
This was like the best thing ever. At first I was really hesitant to use this kind of online chat service. But it really helped and I feel loads better. :)
Very comforting to talk to, understood my circumstances and is just such a nice person.
I really enjoyed her insight and wisdom and ability to allow me to express myself while empathizing with me. Very pleased indeed.
She's just AMAZING. Very helpful.. I couldn't have had a better first experience.
Intelligent and understanding
She's wonderful!
kind and insightful
Sweet, very sweet
Lovely person! jins123
Very nice person, smart, empathic and helpful.
Would recommend as a listener.
Love. Her. Help. Thru. Panic. So. Patient tt..,,$)))
10/10
good listener
Thank you.
You're awesome :) and thanks for contributing to 7cups !
She was just amazing. Understanding, kind, good listener for sure.
A wonderful listener. She was so calming and very easy to talk with. It was like talking to an old friend. Before I knew it I was feeling better and so much time had passed. She was ok with talking for so long. I would most definitely recommend her to anyone needing help. Thank you so much . ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
she is nice person and nice friend
Great listener.
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