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SafeHarbour
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Beyond right and wrong, there's a field.  Meet me there.   - Rumi
Number of ratings70 Number of reviews49 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceJan 4, 2022 Last activein last 6 months GenderFemale PathStep 272 People helped472 Chats2,324 Group support chats4 Listener group chats8 Forum posts39 Forum upvotes40
Bio

**I may have delayed responses, however if you leave a message I will respond when I am next on 7 Cups**.  I have knowledge and experience in mental health, counselling, crisis support and psychology, and I am here to listen and provide emotional support, not to judge.  I cannot provide advice or opinions, however I can share experiences where that might be helpful, and work with you to identify next steps that work for you.  Casual social chats, men's issues and sexual health issues are not for me.  I am open to listening for following topics (alphabetically listed):

  • Abuse
  • Alcohol / Drug / Substance abuse
  • ADD
  • Addiction
  • ADHD
  • Adjustment issues
  • Adverse childhood experiences
  • Aggression / anger
  • Anxiety, stress, worry
  • Attachment issues and styles
  • Assault
  • BPD
  • Breakups
  • Cancer
  • Career
  • Change and uncertainty
  • Childhood / childhood trauma
  • Children
  • Communication issues
  • Complex PTSD / Complex trauma
  • Cultural & Racial Identity
  • Dark thoughts
  • Dating
  • Decision making
  • Depression
  • Development trauma 
  • DID
  • Disabilities
  • Discrimination
  • Difficult emotions
  • Divorce and Separation
  • Eating Disorders
  • Emotional Intelligence
  • Emotional Control / Regulation
  • Family issues
  • Fear of abandonment
  • Female sexuality
  • Finding yourself
  • Friendships
  • Grief and loss
  • Healing from trauma, grief and loss
  • Identity
  • Intimacy
  • Life changes
  • Loneliness
  • Marriage, separation, divorce
  • Motherhood
  • Negative thoughts
  • Neglect
  • OCD
  • Parenting
  • Parents
  • Personality disorders
  • PTSD
  • Racial & Cultural Identity
  • Recovery
  • Relationships
  • Retirement
  • Self awareness
  • Self Compassion
  • Self Esteem
  • Self Harm
  • Separation and Divorce
  • Sexual assault 
  • Single life
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Student life
  • Toxic / unhealthy behaviours and relationships
  • Violence
  • Women's issues
  • Work issues (Career, redundancies, work relationships, performance reviews, conflicts)
Feedback & Reviews
Was very engaged and genuinely tried to understand my situation and stay involved in the conversation
A really good caring listener. Kept the conversation flowing and I felt like I could trust them so fast.
Truly amazing person heart of gold helped me in my time of need
Very understanding and a great listener. I appreciate the time they took to talk with me and listen to me.
She's incredibly patient, very intuitive and perceptive, and she'll quietly take the time to listen carefully before providing insight and support which proves how closely she paid attention and how well she understands. She's wonderful and she absolutely calmed my very frantic mind tonight.
Truly amazing person heart of gold helped me in my time of need
Thank you for being a great listener and for the conversation.
They are very understanding and supportive
Very understanding
Listens with patience....thank you for the help :)
We chatted a while ago, but you were always so supportive and willing to hear me out, no matter how little of a thing I brought up. Thanks for being a good listener
Really liked their way of comforting and actually helping me out..
100% recommend.
The best listener I’ve met on this app. Got my vision clearer and made me feel better
What an amazing listener
She helped me feel better about myself than anyone else has in a long time, she's super sweet and caring, and fun to talk to
Caring and attentive listener
A lovely and kind listener who was very active and engaging. Thank you for being such a warm presence. God bless you.
helpful and upbeat
Very kind and thoughtful. I felt like I could rant without judgement.
The sweetest person on here, probably. Extremely easy to connect to
Safeharbour is a very good and intelligent listener.
Would recommend. She's a good person. Need more people like her.
Amazingly kind and supportive listener. Very intelligent and generous with their time.
Unbelievably awesome listener. Guardian angel status over here. Thank you!!!
What an amazing person!! Love talking to them so much! They made me look at the bright side of life and feel really cheerful!
one of the best listener on 7 cups
Wonderful listener.
You are very kind to help me and understand me. Thank you so much.
brought me back down to earth in my time of need. caring Listener
Very good listener!
Is it a human ? Is it an angel? Hope she stays human listening and not morph into an angel or is an angel and flys back to the angel realm. Words like gold dust, an aura so bright it reflects back with intense clarity .. your forever appreciated.
very helpful listener
Very helpful! Knew exactly what to say to help me.
Good communication
Good listening
She listened, she did what she came for!
Helped me. Thank you so much!
River is an amazing listener. Caring, wise and supportive. Made me feel comfortable from the start by helping me organize my thoughts that were all over the place because I was feeling nervous.
It was like out of this world terrific. Stay cool 😎
great great great!
Very attentive and supportive listener, which I highly recommend.
thank u for the talk...it was nice
River is very inspirational and motivates you , gives you a good head start . Very polite and gentle ,truly a good listener. She understands the situation very well rather I would say to the point. Conversation is really very smooth with her. Loved talking to her.
GentleRiverCrossing seems to be just an incredible human. Wise and kind and grounded and supportive. The most helpful chat I've had on this app, or with anyone in quite awhile.
Just like talking to an old friend! Thanks so much for the positive chat! Much appreciated!
She listened to every word I said, and responded.
She is insightful and keen.
Nice person with Humility
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