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Elise849
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Number of ratings74 Number of reviews63 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Cantonese, Chinese, German, Malay, Mandarin, Taiwanese Listener sinceSep 16, 2020 Last activein last month GenderFemale PathStep 325 People helped270 Chats2,191 Group support chats1 Listener group chats32 Forum posts71 Forum upvotes25
Bio

**not taking casual chats** Hey there! I will do my best to provide support and/or insight, whichever is wanted or needed! Just drop me a message if you want to talk :) 


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policies:

1. due to reasons, i will only be accepting members who are ready and open to help themselves. this doesn't mean that you have to agree with me 100% of the time, only that you have to be open to thinking deeply about your situation.

2. i am not taking any new offline chats (aka if you leave me a text when i'm offline and we have no previous record of chatting.)

3. full respect, I do not accept requests to talk about (as main themes):

- politics

lgbtq+

- sexual health

- alcohol and smoking issues

- incest, friends with benefits and taboo relationships

- infidelity, relationships involving infidelity or suspicions of infidelity



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✨no the cat in my profile pic is not mine✨

✨judgement free zone ;D 

✨if you try to be sexual i can and will block you immediately :D cheers!✨


You're very welcome to leave a review or simply let me know how you felt the chat went. Teamwork makes the dream work! ;)

 

pronouns: she/her

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Quotes: (cuz i can, so i will :D)

 

"Everything you ever wanted is on the other side of fear." - George Addair

 

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"Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear." - Nelson Mandela

 

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"And ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation." - Khalil Gibran

 

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"How lucky we are to be loved, even for a moment." - Barbara Hamby

 

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"This is my last message to you: in sorrow, choose happiness." - Fyodor Dostoevsky, adapted

 

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"Facing it--always facing it-- that's the way to get through." - Jospeh Conrad, Typhoon

 

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"When you are on your way looking for a life, don't forget to live." - Mahmoud Darwish

 

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"People at war with themselves will always cause collateral damage to the lives of those around them." - John Green

 

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"In the struggle you end up learning." - Jean Luc Godard, Masculin-Feminin

 

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"For a star to be born, there is one thing that must happen: a gaseous nebula must collapse. So collapse. Crumble. This is not your destruction. This is your birth." - Zoe Skylar

 

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"Your now is not your forever." - John Green, Turtles All The Way Down

 

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"Mostly it is loss that teaches us the worth of things." - Arthur Schopenhauer, The Wisdom of Life

 

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"You are trying to close that door because you're scared. But you won't always be scared." - I Origins

 

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"We can't change the past. What we can do is choose how we move forward." - The Way Back


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"Everything you love is very likely to be lost, but in the end, love will return in a different way." - Franz Kafka


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"We are all of us alone to be sure. What can we do but hold our hand out in the dark?" - Ursula K. Le Guin

 

✨Keep going guys! Cheering for you! Airdropping you lots of love and light! :D ✨

Feedback & Reviews
Kind, insightful, supportive, willing to listen and give time and space for you to share. Beyond grateful!
Absolutely fantastic listener. Favorite listener so far, clearly points out a third party perspective and very insightful.
Very insightful, great advice! Elise is very nice and very empathic!
great listener really helpful
You're a great communicator. You think about things in such a creative way. You help me think about problem-solving in a new way
Good. Patient listener . Helps
Very understanding of psychology and takes her sweet time to listen, ask questions and provide good feedback. Great experience.
The best person I met lately.
Very insightful and a really good listener. I feel comfortable opening up my thoughts. ❤️
you've got a great spirit ,it's nice to get to talk to you
The nicest listener I've ever spoken to, made me feel so loved and cared about
very helpful and expressed much kindness and caring
Amazing person to talk to
intelligent. she made me feel so much better about my situation and helped me to see that there are always multiple povs to a situation
Very easy to talk to, very understanding and listens well and is quick to reply to messages
Good listener ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
She helped me to understand better about my situation and I loved listening to her stories as I could relate very well to them. Patient and understanding, definitely deserve a 5-star for being a great listener.
They listened to me and made me feel heard, They are also very patient and understanding!
opened my eyes and helped to give me another viewpoint, very helpful
Dear Elise, I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart. For listening and being here with me. For asking all these thoughtful questions. For emphasizing with me and making me feel heard. For this, I cannot thank you enough.
Absolutely amazing listener. Helped me realize a lot about myself & was very understanding and supportive. Listeners like Elise make 7Cups feel like a comfortable place to be yourself.
Certainly helping me!
She is a very good listener!!! One of the BEST!!!
Very sweet and kind
amazing listener
She is an Awesome Listener.
One of — if not the best — listeners I’ve ever had!
she is awesome
Elise is such a kind and friendly person (:
They were nice.
seems live a verry nice person and deffinetly not judgemental
Great listener so far. Really helping me out tonight, thank you
She was really nice to talk to. Gave me some good advise and showed empathy to what I was going through.
she is good and a kind person
She's one of the best listeners that I had the pleassure to meet in this site. Super kind and she takes her time to try to help you.
She was a really good listener and never once judged me or made me feel uncomfortable. Because of her, I will definitely use 7 cups more often
she is so smart and goes all out to help!
Great listening. Very engaging and honest person
Helped me calm down really quickly. Never had such an awesome chat! This is the listener who will listen to you judgement free, and help you.
A good listener, very kind ☺️
They helped me so much. It was actually crazy, talking really helped me work out everything I needed to. Thank you agai, that was amazing!
I found it very helpful to talk with this individual about my issues.
Smart, Helpful, Easy to talk to, Understanding. Glad I could get help from someone that seems to care about others.
You are a good listener.Thank you for listening and understanding me Elise.
You are a good listener.Thank you for listening and understanding me Elise.
Great listener. Very insightful and caring
Great listner and helped a lot made me feel a lot better. Recommended :))
empathetic, provided a lot of space to clarify my thoughts and feelings. 5/5 experience.
Amazing helped me soo much thank u
A really patient and a friendly listener! Definitely made me feel a lot better afterwards. No regrets, very grateful ^^ I've learned a lot of lessons from our conversation today, thank you ♡
Lovely, insightful, thoughtful and open minded. Elise is a wonderful listener and I would suggest her to anyone. ❤️❤️❤️
She was an awesome listener and I'd recocmend her for others!!!
It was really amazing to listening as a listener and as a friend. She has an intense zeal and fascination for life, and that is what ought to be contagious!
Thank you for helping me.
Amazing listener! Clear thoughts shared and always listening. Thank you very much!
Elise is not only willing to help but also have the capability of figuring out my problems and giving me constructive suggestions.So nice talking with her!
They are wonderful and very attentive. Very kind and knowledgeable as well!
This was one of the best Conversation I had on my baddest days of life...:)
Awesome chat, i felt really heard. Great listener :)
Very patient and comforting.
I would just say AMAZING!
She said something very ensightful that stopped me in my tracks. She is a great listener.
Gosh, it's going to be a long one. This lovely human being pulled me out of somewhere, where I had put myself a long ago. This somewhere is where I hope no one has to ever go. Being a listener on this very same platform, I had withdrawn myself from my position when I found myself breaking. But getting connected to her was the best thing that happened in a while. Not only did I stop underestimating myself, but also realized how important it is for someone to be heard. Just talk to her if you're not feeling it. I'm going back with a smile of realization on my face and a thankful heart.
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