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DayDreamWithYou
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Number of ratings18 Number of reviews15 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceMay 20, 2020 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 997 People helped56 Chats358 Group support chats128 Listener group chats383 Forum posts597 Forum upvotes1,177
Bio

Restarting!

Notice: I am sorry, but I am not currently able to listen to any members at the moment. In the meantime, here are some amazing listeners, and I hope you will be able to find a listener that can support you best :)

  

To Members
If anyone asks me who I am, to be honest, I would not know what to say. I am a cis female that questions her sexuality. I am someone who cares about school, yet there's a part of me that does not. I am someone who loves interacting with people, yet I am not exactly social. My interests are ever-changing, and everything is sort of all over the place. However, despite all the unanswered questions in my head about who I am, there is one thing I am sure about: it is my story. 
Every story is special in its own ways, but sometimes our stories are not heard, and stepping outside our comfort zone to share is quite hard. I am very proud to see that every one of you took the first step and made a member account whether it is for support or just for the sake of having one. I may never be able to fully understand what you are going through because I have not been in your shoes and neither have I experienced what you had, no matter how similar our stories may be. I cannot promise you will feel better and that everything will get better because we really do not know. However, from the bottom of my heart, I still hope that I can support you the best that I can with a listening ear.

Some topics that I have dealt with are anxiety, LGBTQ+, sleeping well, self-esteem, and many more in varying degrees. I would love to talk about these issues; however, please note that I will not be sharing my personal experiences because I would love to focus on listening to your story. My listening space is a safe place for those who would like to talk about any issues without any judgment (unfortunately, I may not be the best person to talk about alcohol/drug use, men's issues, and perinatal mood disorder due to my limited knowledge on those topics, but feel free to message me if you wish!). My listening style incorporates longer messages, usually 2-4 sentences per message, so my response time ranges around 1-2 minutes. On one last note, each person is different, and my style may not exactly match up with your preferences, which is perfectly alright! There are also some other wonderful listeners that you may want to check out here!
Welcome to my profile. I am Day or Dream, and I am very excited to get to know all of you :)


To Listeners
from my mentor profile but with some additional information!


I still remember the first day I signed up as a listener, where I scrambled to figure out how this site worked with listening, the chatrooms, the forums, the notifications, and just everything. It was a lot to process, and listening wasn't quite what I imagined it would be. These first few days are often days when we are amazed by the site yet unsure where to start, yet even as days and months go by, there are days where we don't feel very confident in listening, days where we feel like we should do more, and days where we have questions but do not know who to ask. 
Every listener's journey here on 7 cups is different and special in its own way; some focus on listening to our wonderful members, some focus on chatting in the chatrooms, and others focus on supporting everyone through a variety of projects. No matter where we stand, I would like to take this chance to thank every single one of you for signing up as a listener and even checking out this mentor page! That being said, I am very excited to get to know everyone, so feel free to reach out to me if you have any questions, would like a familiar face around here, or anything else!
My journey is focused around two tracks: quality and forums ~

Forum Track: Edit, delete, or move forum posts (global community teen star), Questions about forum guidelines (forum flag team), Want to join the Teen Only Zone! (community mentor leader)

Quality Track/Project: Mock chats and listening resources (teen quality star), How to respond to certain chats (chat support), How to become a verified listener (verifier's team project agent), Join the safety patrol team (safety patrol and outreach team), Active Listening 3 Test feedback and updates (AL3 grading and feedback team)

Please also do note that I may not be the most knowledgable about the academies, but feel free to message me, and I would love to direct you to the corresponding leaders ~


That's about it from me! Hope to see everyone around whether through messages, forums, or chatrooms ~

My Availability:

Green - I am online for both member and listener-related chats.
Orange - I am only online for listener-related chats but may be in-and-out (response time: 30 minutes).
Red
- I am most likely roaming the forum area, working on another project, or logged out! Feel free to leave a message, and I'll get back to you soon!
To everyone: 

My private message response time is now N/A days! If I do not respond within a week, please send me another message, and I apologize in advance. My account is also prone to several 7 cups bugs, so there will be times where I am unable to send messages, and I usually update in my bio when that happens. Additionally, please note that if I am around in a particular area (chatrooms, forums, or private messages), it does not mean that I will be active in another area. Thank you for understanding!



⭐︎ About Me ⭐︎ 
Pronouns are she/her/hers
Personality type is INFJ-T (advocate)
Interests are music (cello, R&B), swim, bullet-journaling, google sheets :), daydreaming, tv shows/dramas


Time Zone: GMT-5 (EST). Feel free to convert your times here!

"there is no greater agony than an untold story inside you" ~ Maya Angelou


Recent forum posts
Help Wanted - Teen Only Zone 2022
7 Cups Leadership / by DayDreamWithYou
Last post
January 28th, 2022
...See more Hello! Do you want to join a sub-community team and love (or will love) exploring the teen only zone sub-community [https://www.7cups.com/home/teens/]? Here are some roles you could join! Please note that these roles are not available for adult members. For adult listeners, prior to joining, it is required to become an adult-teen listener. ------------------------- Forum Roles Community Mentor / Teen Community Star | Member + Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/SubcommunitiesLeadership_686/AnnouncementCommunityMentorTeenCommunityStarRolerelaunch_244943/1/] As a community mentor, you will oversee the forum side of the Teen Only Zone. Your responsibilities will include: working closely with forum supporters + forum projects on forum-related projects (ex. bi-weekly checkins, discussions, welcoming new subscribers, etc), signing up and planning monthly events (and communicating with the TOZ group support team for chatroom events), boosting forum engagement and participation, and effectively communicating with the community mentor leaders. Forum Supporter | Member + Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/SubcommunitiesLeadership_686/ApplytobeaForumSupporter_226739/] As a forum supporter, you will focus on interacting with others in the forums! In a community with fellow teens or the heart of a teen for adult-teen listeners, we hope that you will enjoy your time here posting posts about topics you enjoy discussing about! Please note that the quota is 10+ forums in the Teen Only Zone per month. Responsibilities -- you can choose to be a part of at least one of three projects: * posting bi-weekly check-ins and replying to all replies under the check-in thread * posting icebreakers and/or discussion in a timely manner and replying to all replies under the thread * participating in the needs reply team (answer any posts that have not been responded to) Project Agent (Forum-Based) | Member + Listener [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNnSpr8UzivPRoJRrTgADNuqHmIhnzSk-Gd2mudKoUI6Fjzg/viewform] As a project agent that is forum-based, you will focus on boosting forum engagement! This role is a chance for you to check out different projects (as you may be switching around different projects) and see if one particular project best fits you and best supports the sub-community :) Responsibilities -- you can choose to be a part of at least one of three projects: * working with the community mentor on events * posting welcome new subscriber posts * working with the community mentor leader on overall forum engagement Already a forum supporter or project agent? Please submit an application HERE [https://forms.gle/zkPFzmB2w9VBanbRA]! Thank you! ------------------------- Group Support Roles Discussion Host | Member + Listener [https://forms.gle/zkPFzmB2w9VBanbRA] As a discussion host, you will lead at least 3 discussions per month in a group chat room. This role is offered to both members and listeners and is great for those who are interested in interacting with the community. Session topics include things like Icebreaker Hour and Getting to Know You as well as support based topics likes Anxiety, Depression, and much more! Your responsibilities will include: * checking in with the support team leader * staying on top of signing up for sessions * creating a fun/welcoming environment for your sessions! Support Team Leader | Listener Only [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfa0IBmQUo4ksm1LxH0womdh_XnwYh7fmqpKsXg6yAkdJcWvg/viewform] As a support team leader, you will be working with our wonderful support team leader @sophiasanae on overall group support. While Sophia is focused on working with discussion leaders and script writers, this role involves overseeing room supporters and chatroom moderators. Your responsibilities will include: * checking in with room supporters and chatroom moderators * making sure all RS and mod sessions are tockified and updated on the dashboard * outreaching to potential people who would be interested in joining the team * working well and communicating effectively with co-STLs and CMLs Already a support team leader? Please submit an application HERE [https://forms.gle/zkPFzmB2w9VBanbRA]! Thank you! ------------------------- Interested but not sure if you would like to join? or Have unanswered questions? Feel free to contact @DayDreamWithYou [http://7cups.com/@DayDreamWithYou]. Thank you, and we hope to see you around! Last updated 4/7/2022 @DayDreamWithYou
App: Monthly Requirements?
Site Updates / by DayDreamWithYou
Last post
December 8th, 2021
...See more Hello hello! I have a suggestion for the app. Recently, some leaders have contacted me on how to keep track of monthly requirements (ex. 10+ forum posts for forum supporters) on the app. After checking out the app myself, I realized that the app does not have the same addition as the browser version; there is no way to know how far along you are with monthly requirements via the app. My suggestion: Add monthly requirement tracker onto the app (similar to the one in the browser version) This is definitely not a super high priority, but it is something to consider in the near future ~
Feedback & Reviews
She is amazing. She is very caring and understanding.
Seriously one of the best chats I've ever had, I would recommend in a heartbeat. super supportive, compassionate and just overall a fantastic listener!
Really helpful and understanding, tries to find a peaceful solution and takes small steps! A calm listener, loved it alot
Very sweet, funny listener.
they really helped me understand many things
He is really helpful with people who are stressed
Very kind talked with me over sillier less important things and didn't invalidate me
Very kind and patient
Really great problem solver and overall person to talk to, feels like I have years of trouble off my back
AMAZING PERSON!!! I came to her feeling extremely angry, anxious and about to have a panic attack and she stood there for almost 2 hours talking to me until I felt 100% better. She made me feel protected in a way, and that people in the world most certainly cares. I recommend her for ANY problem you have!
She is an excellent listener. So friendly and helpful
Amazing time and really helped me
Awesome, they were so understanding, and great at listening and responding fast!
She is helping so much and talking me through everything!!!
Great chat, they helped me a lot.
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