What do I do if I love 2 people at once?

I have been in the exact same position just recently. What I did was I took a break from both of them and then I thought of which one I missed more and reconnected with him and now we are happily in a relationship! Sometimes it just takes time and space and a clear head. Also, remember there is a difference between love and lust. I loved this person but it was more lust for the other person. Hope this helps xx

Is there really enough room in your heart to love 2 people at once? Perhaps if you ponder long enough you might find that there is one you love more.

That's one of the toughest decisions. How do I choose between two people that I love ? Try imagining your life without them . Imagine how your life would be of you have never met them . Some of you may wont find it helpful as they love both equally but I think the most important trait tou have to look in your partner is who makes you feel okay do be yourself no matter how weird you can be . If you still cant choose you can let go of both because in the end you will all get hurt . Explain to them how things are and if someone still wants you and is willing to fight for you that's the one for you

Choose the one you can't really live without! The one that helps you become a better person and the one you could see a future with.

There is no limit to how much love a person can carry in himself, only how to express it appropriately. That's up to you. Being honest with your various loved ones about their mutual involvement in your life if critical. If you are hiding or lying to one or more, that isn't love.

Breaking one heart is enough for breaking two hearts at once. Personally I do not believe that a person can love two people at once. A relationship should be between two people not between two people one day and then two people another day. You should sort out your feelings and realize that being greedy in a relationship does not take you far

Follow your heart. That is the most helpful thing. You may even be polyamorous, and that is completely okay as long as everyone involved knows of the situation c:

You can love 2 or more than 2 people at once. It is absolutely okay. Love is not something that can be divided. Imagine a mother having 2 kids and a husband- don't you think she loves 3 people at the same time as well? But yes, if you are talking in terms of a romantic relationship, then yes- it often happens that we can miss two people at once. To be honest, I don't know what it means even though I have felt the same sometimes. It can be confusion, it can be unresolved conflicts or emotions, it could be lack of closure or anything. But what I do know is that it is very important to sort out our own feelings and understand what we really want and who we really wish to be with, because we alone know ourselves the best. But the most important thing of them all is to know ourselves and learn to love ourselves first :)

I make a toss. Person A is head and person B is tails. When I toss the coin, I'll either hope for heads or tails, and that way I'll know.

A quick answer is, who do you love more? That is also a hard thing to know. You may love either person a lot and can't tell who you love more. Give it some time. Time is a great way of seeing if your love for that person grows or stays the same. And even just trying to get to know that person better or being with that person more can also grow or decrease your love for that person. Sometimes moving in, or being with that person for so many days or seeing that person constantly will show you if you truly love that person or not. You can do that for both people, and you'll see who you truly love

If both are drowning and don't know how to swim, whom you will save? It can reflect whom you love more over other. Secondly, if you would love one at first place, then you wouldn't be falling for second. You can't love two people with same intensity simultaneously.

Well, when a person finds themselves in a dilemma such as this one I believe you must make a choice. I don't think anyone can truly love two people the exact same amount. It may seem like it, but in most cases that's not true. If you truly loved either of them, you wouldn't have enough room left in your heart to love them at the same time. If I was in this situation I would most likely choose the second person I fell in love with. I would choose the second one, because if I truly loved the first person I wouldn't have even pursued anything that could threaten the relationship.

well i would forget about the one you fell in love with first because if you honestly loved him/her then you would not have fallen for the second person.

As Johnny Depp said, the 2nd person you fell in love with is the person you most love because if you really love the first person, you wouldn't have fallen for the other. It maybe hard to let go Either of the 2 but It is better not to be selfish and to have just one than lose both person you love.

I feel there is some truth to the statement "if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second." But when you're in the situation, it can still feel like a huge life decision. I think you should evaluate what it is about each person that makes you love them, and what flaws you dislike about them. Then weigh out which of those lists are better suited for your lifestyle, personal goals and future plans. It's not always about the butterflies, we must also think practically when it comes to choosing a partner.

Ask yourself who you think is most important to you, who is the one you can't live without, who is the one who make you feel better, laugh louder, the one you can trust. Try to make a list of each one flaws, you'll find that one has a particular flow: "not being the other". Give you some time to think and you'll figure out who you miss the most

Try to be honest in your communication and see who you can get to know the best and who truly deserves your trust love and affection. By being honest with yourself and others an issue becomes clear, but a lot of this relies on direct and clear communication. Instead of hiding your feelings and taking on too many dates at once, ask the other person how they feel and what they are looking for and be honest about where you are. You will be surprised by how many times people may be open to what you are saying, if they are not, or they try and it doesn't feel right to them, then you have an answer. Indecision while it can feel safe and rewarding to enjoy liking two people it actually adds a lot of stress and anxiety for everyone involved. Sometimes people may get hurt, but often times they respect you if you communicate and don't lead them on.

Breathe, love. If two people love you, then you will be put in the mindset that you have to choose one or the other, bu you don't. I suggest that you think this through, see if you love either of them, or if you don't love them the way that they love you. You do not have to love someone just because they love you.

This is a hard one, but I've been through this situation. I'm basically polyamorous, so it's been a problem for me. Either way here goes. You need to evaluate what you think of both people. Flesh your feelings out, in detail. Try to imagine a relationship with both of them, and try to see which one makes you happier, but if I'm being honest. Just take a break, man. Such complications lead to everyone getting hurt. So, it really depends on the condition and situation. You also need to know your stand about relationships and the like. That's all I have to say. Hope this was helpful.

be honest about my feelings, and make sure to choose one of them, instead of playing with thier feelings

I’d say, weigh in who you love most. People would say pick to pick the second one, but since you also love the first one, you’re gonna have to think carefully who to choose and who you think you’d be with together better.

This s a complicated question and it hugely depends on your situation. If you are currently with someone you love but also feel love for someone else many people would consider polyamory (the relationship including multiple people), an open relationship, or just telling your partner about your feelings for someone else and see how they react and have you both figure out this problem. But if you're feeling love for two people who are both not in a relationship with you it's good to explore both options. Get to know them both closer and see who you connect with better.

When it comes to love, love is a challenge. And to quote Pat Benatar, "love is a battlefield" That said, the feelings you carry for two people at once are perfectly valid. Do you love them both in the same way? Or is one just a friend and the other a potential partner? Or are they both in the same boat with regards to how you feel? I think it's important to go ahead and sit down and perhaps write out how you feel about both people and why. To help yourself clarify further what it is that you think or perhaps feel about these people in question. And then, the other piece of the puzzle is how do they feel about you? Having this convo with yourself and these folks will help you get a course of decision

There is nothing wrong with having love for two people. It is how you express that love that becomes an issue, especially if you've promised yourself to one. Keeping one's promises, one's priorities, and being loyal are important, but these things do not have to be mutually exclusive to love. In honesty, there are only a few differences between the loving relationships and promised-loving relationships: 1) physical propriety, 2) respectful emotional sharing boundaries, 3) respectful recognition and allowance of receipt of love and affection from others. It is hard to know that you love another person, perhaps even moreso than the one to whom you are pair-bonded, but it just as important to show that person that you are loyal, respectful, and honorable of your commitments.

Well then it's time to take a step back and try to think through everything. Sometimes it could be different types of affection~

I will sort out my feelings and find out who I really love because if I really love someone I will choose someone I really love.

When you love two people at once, it is a difficult situation. Someone told me that if you love two people at the same time, choose the second one. Because if you loved the first one, you would not have fallen for the second one.

Many, many people have been in this position (both men and women) - and it's a hard one! Through my own personal experience, I know exactly how tough it can be to love 2 different people. Some relationship experts argue that it's impossible to love 2 separate people; I disagree. It isn't a proven fact yet! While I'm not a relationship coach (it could be a good idea to see one, though!), I can tell you that having 2 (or more than 1, respectively) love interests is completely normal and valid. There is a difference between true love and romantic love, but it's really difficult to differentiate between them, and that's totally okay. There's no immediate need to make a choice (though there is a chance that you'll need to make one at some point, so it may be a good idea to prepare yourself for that). There are many different ways to assess this. Try to ask yourself if there's someone you love more than the other. Imagine yourself in a fully committed relationship with both of them - which looks better, feels better? You could even ask your family members for their opinion or support (though please be wary, they may be biased). Try to think, with both your heart and with your brain. Spend a relatively long time really thinking in-depth about who you love the most and who would offer you the most amount of happiness. Maybe you could chat with both of them to see who you connect with more. Don't spend too much time worrying about it, though, as it may be bad for your health! If you're in a current relationship with one of the two you're in love with, it may be a good idea to let the person know. If you're not in a relationship with one of them but are dating someone else, it may be a good idea to talk with them about your feelings, too. There is no best thing to do in this situation - all we can do is try our best! There's someone out in the world for everyone - maybe one of the people you're in love with them is that someone, or maybe a new person will come along at some point. We cannot tell the future, and don't know what it has in store for us.

Oh! That one i know too well! You love people in different ways, but almost always: "If you fall in love with 2 persons at the same time - choose the 2nd one. If you truly loved him/her you would not fall for the other" (P.s. It mostly happens in abusive/exploitative relationships, so be warned)

I personally have never been in this position before but I would imagine that I would figure out which one I was more compatible with and individually date them to see who is more suitable for me. Although love is defined in many other ways and if I had to choose between two people I loved, I wouldn't. I would find ways for both of them to be in my life. That's only if one was a best friend and the other one was my boyfriend.