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Coping with Trauma and Harassment: Addressing Women's Issues

Mya000 July 8th, 2023

In today's society, women continue to face numerous challenges, including trauma and harassment. This forum post aims to shed light on the current situation, define relevant terms, explore the reasons behind such issues, and discuss their consequences. By fostering understanding and empathy, we can work towards creating a safer and more inclusive world for everyone.

Defining Terms:

  1. Trauma: Trauma refers to a deeply distressing or disturbing experience that can have a lasting impact on an individual's emotional, psychological, and physical well-being. Traumatic events can include sexual assault, domestic violence, emotional abuse, and other forms of violence.


  2. Harassment: Harassment involves unwanted and persistent behaviours, comments, or actions that are offensive, intimidating, or threatening. It can manifest in various forms such as sexual harassment, cyberbullying, street harassment, or workplace harassment.

Current Situation:

Despite progress in gender equality, women still face high rates of trauma and harassment. Shocking statistics indicate that about one in three women globally has endured physical or sexual violence in their lifetime, as reported by the World Health Organization. The Me Too movement, gaining traction in 2017, brought attention to the extensive prevalence of sexual harassment and assault across industries, underscoring the gravity of the issue. Furthermore, the digital realm has become an additional avenue for harassment, with a study by the Pew Research Center revealing that 41% of women in the United States have encountered online harassment, including stalking, sexual harassment, and threats.

Behind the Issues:

  1. Gender Inequality: Deep-rooted gender inequality perpetuates and reinforces the occurrence of trauma and harassment. Societal norms and expectations disempower women, leading to their marginalization and vulnerability.


  2. Power Imbalance: The unequal distribution of power between genders fosters an environment where some individuals feel entitled to exert control over others. This power imbalance is often exploited to commit acts of harassment and trauma.


  3. Social Stigma: Stigmatization surrounding issues related to trauma and harassment can discourage victims from speaking out. Fear of judgment, victim-blaming, and the potential for retaliation create barriers that prevent many women from seeking help or justice.

Consequences:

The consequences of trauma and harassment on women are far-reaching and impactful, affecting various aspects of their lives:

  1. Emotional and Psychological Impact: Women who have experienced trauma and harassment may suffer from anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and other mental health conditions. These experiences can erode self-esteem, self-worth, and overall emotional well-being.


  2. Physical Health Effects: The stress associated with trauma and harassment can manifest in physical symptoms such as headaches, chronic pain, sleep disorders, and other psychosomatic ailments. The long-term physical consequences can have a significant toll on women's overall health.


  3. Social Isolation: Women who have experienced trauma or harassment may withdraw from social interactions due to fear, shame, or a lack of support. This isolation can further exacerbate their emotional distress and limit their opportunities for healing and recovery.


  4. Professional and Educational Impact: Trauma and harassment can impact women's professional and educational pursuits. Women may experience career setbacks, decreased job satisfaction, and educational disruptions, limiting their potential and perpetuating economic disparities.


Addressing women's issues surrounding trauma and harassment requires a collective effort from society. By fostering empathy, promoting gender equality, and providing support systems, we can create an environment where women feel safe, valued, and empowered. It is essential to raise awareness, challenge harmful norms, and advocate for policy changes to ensure a future where women can thrive free from the burden of trauma and harassment. Together, we can contribute to a more equitable and inclusive world for all.

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Mya000 OP July 9th, 2023
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PFord79 July 9th, 2023

Thank you for the tag, I am happy to be part of this.

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Mya000 OP July 9th, 2023

@PFord79 You are welcome!

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trueconfidant123 July 9th, 2023

@Mya000

Thank you for tagging me.

I hope the world provides women a stage, just and fair to their counterparts. No one should go through such traumatic phases in this life of theirs. We all deserve an egalitarian society.

More power to all the females out there! ✊

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Mya000 OP July 9th, 2023

@trueconfidant123 You're welcome, and I wholeheartedly agree with your sentiments.

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Jaeteuk July 9th, 2023

I was traumatized by an incident back when I was in Grade 5. Something that lasted for a month, and had scarred me for life. Back then, it never occurred to my family that we could've called the Police, I didn't address it until I brought it up with a Psychologist when I was in my mid-20s. The Psychologist actually reported to the Crime Victim Assistance Program, and I received 10 free sessions covered by them. In my mid-30s now, it still affects me to this day, there is always that fear and hesitation hovering around me.. and I remember it like it was yesterday.

@Mya000

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Mya000 OP July 10th, 2023

@Jaeteuk I'm really sorry to hear that you went through such a traumatic incident during your time in Grade 5. It must have been incredibly difficult for you to carry that burden for so long without the support you needed. It's good to know that you eventually reached out to a psychologist who was able to provide you with assistance and connect you with the Crime Victim Assistance Program. It's understandable that the impact of such an event can continue to affect you even years later. Trauma has a way of staying with us, and it's important to acknowledge and process those emotions. If you ever feel overwhelmed or need someone to talk to, don't hesitate to reach out.

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Jaeteuk July 10th, 2023

Thank you for your support. I joined the Trauma Support Group's Open Chat yesterday and shared about my experience there. To be honest, my hands still tremble whenever I talk about it. There's really nothing I can do about it now. Just need to work around it and hope for the best.

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ItzCam33 July 10th, 2023

A few years ago in 6th grade(right before COVID) I started dating my first girl. It was great! Until Thanksgiving Break. I was supposed to spend a few nights at her house, and I was super excited too! But when we were ready to go to bed, she did something I never expected. You might be able into guess what I saying, and I sorry if you don't, seeing as I am being very vague. I don't know why, but I felt like I had don't type this. I hope this helps anyone for any reason.

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Mya000 OP August 6th, 2023

@ItzCam33 Thank you for sharing your experience with us. It takes courage to open up about personal matters, and your willingness to share might indeed help others who have been through similar situations. If you ever feel like talking more or need support, know that you're welcome to reach out to an ATL listener. Take care.

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WinterRose9 August 7th, 2023

Thank you for this, because when I was traumatized I was always scared of talking to people due to the lack of trust or people being plain out mean with the way they talk/treat you for dealing with such things.

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Mya000 OP August 7th, 2023

@PhoenixButterfly97 You are welcome. It is completely understandable to feel apprehensive about opening up after going through trauma. Feel free to reach out whenever you need it, I am here to listen without judgment.

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WinterRose9 August 7th, 2023

Thank you ❤️ and i will keep that in mind❤️

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ApurvaSingh123 August 7th, 2023

Idk why but I want to tell you that boys can also be assaulted. Example: me. I was sexually assaulted by my soccer coach. I feel anger when I hear that only women can be harrassed. Only women can feel trauma or things like that

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WinterRose9 August 7th, 2023

@ApurvaSingh123 im sorry you were treated that way, everyone goes through things that traumatize them. I am also a survivor s.a from different people. An my heart goes out to you, it is never easy at all no matter the gender. Trauma is genderless, I hope you are to find your healing, please be gracious with yourself. I can empathize with your pain...

Mya000 OP August 8th, 2023

@ApurvaSingh123 I never said that boys couldn't be assaulted or experience trauma.

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