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don't worry you are cared about and I hope you find the strength to get through it @yellowGlobe303
Could use a hug, feeling worthless. My fiancee broke up with me because i lied about telling a friend she was pregnant. She is pregnant but asked me not to tell, after i already did. The person i told was less than supportive so i lied so i could spare her knowing we didn't have my friends support. It was still a lie and i am not trying to make excuses, just why i did it. She has major trust issues with men and i blew it. I screwed up. She say says she still loves me, but that love is not always enough. I just want to curl into a ball and never come out again. How can i be so stupid.
if she loved you then she wouldn't leave you like that. you deserve so much more and no one is perfect. if you spilled before you knew she didn't want you to then that was an accident. you weren't trying to do harm. @Erebus214
@mlw887
The problem isn't that i did, it is that i lied about it. I see her point. If i had just told her i did, this wouldnt have happened, but i told her i didn't. I love her the same amount as i love my child. We have a fairy tale romance, we can draw lines back to decisions made 20 years ago that caused us to meet, and we met each other at the exact moment that we were open to love. Then the only things she ever asked of me was never lie, i could cheat, i could do whatever, just never lie, and i did. I feel very worthless as a human for that and i wish i could do anything to get her back in my life.
of course you feel worthless. you hurt someone you love so so much. you feel like you don't deserve anything right now because of it. but you do. at the time, you thought it was the best choice. you made a mistake. @Erebus214
Feeling lonely and sad and having feelings of jealousy that I hate that I have that make me feel like sort of a bad person . Stressed about finding jobs and finances. Just want someone to cuddle w me and hug me tightly for a long time
@LivelyEmptiness *virtual hug* I'm here for you x
@itsnotyouitsme
-hugs-
I'm so sorry. Have you talked with a listener? They are really helpful in these moments. Sending strength!
@Meloncholicgirl
-hugs-
I'm sorry you are hurting. Sending strength!
I have the feeling of really deep fear about my future. What if I'd never get to have a peacefull life?
@Gretammar i feel the same way! this gives me anxiety attacks just dwelling in tge subject:(
@Gretammar everything will be alright, it's beautiful life, live now. I feel the same way all the time. This will only disturb you present that's what I have learnt from it.
My Grandma's health is failing fast and I've never felt so stressed and depressed
@K333 you'll make it though and it's ok that you feel that way because who doesn't feel that way when you love someone? I hope both of you get better
I think everyone really wants an actual hug from a very caring person, if not their partner (I wish).
So, is a virtual a hug helpful, not really but I guess it may be the start of something helpful.
I'm having a really bad day, I've had a really bad week. I just need some love and a hug. I'm drowning financially and the relationship I thought was working is not. I'm really down in the dumps and I don't have anyone to go to
@jshe4941 hey sweetie... in the moment I've got a similar problem. I really wish I could give you a big hug right now!
Life is hard, but we are all in it together, we are a team! I promise, you'll get through this! Sending you a hug
@BiPrideKitten411
*hugs* :-D
Hope you have a good day!
i@BiPrideKitten411 I can understand you and " hugs you" my friend