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I really like this guy whom I've known for about a month, we both admitted we liked each other but no commitment have ever made, like I don't even know what are we right now. I've tried to ask although he answered but now it's still not official... He was really sweet and nice to me, saying things like 'ahh I couldn't stop thinking about you' 'you're beautiful' 'I'm so lucky to know you'....but now he's being so different, very cold and indifferent, text me much less and is not asking me out anymore. I think he's losing interest in me and I don't know what to do because I'm really attached to him....what should I do? Please help...I can't stop crying....
@Nessasing
i know that feeling and I have been there too.. It sucks and it hurts so much but it will only get better with time. Try to keep your self busy, like really busy... Watch stuffs, travel, cook, work over time or anything that will take your mind off him, talk to your friends and go out there and meet new people, you never know how perfect something can turn out.. Give it a chance
I don't know what to do, one minute my partner is the most loving wonderful man who makes me feel as if I'm the most special person in the world and then he gets into one of his moods and it's like I don't exist. He's constantly on his phone and if I try and talk to him he snaps, if I cry he shouts at me telling me why I shouldn't be upset. On Christmas day he left at midnight for a few hours with no warning. I know my problems are tiny compared to some and I feel guilty getting upset about it but I can't stop crying which only upsets him more.
@Crashingwaves2403 I don't think you should feel guilty or compare your issues as less important. It's affecting you and how you feel so it's definitely relevant xx
Sounds really rough what you're going through with him, the inconsistency of it all. They can be very switched off and give off different vibes. Going through a similar thing with my boyfriend and it seems impossible to get through to them sometimes. Do you feel a bit underestimated?
@Lalalexus thank you so much for your reply xxx I don't feel underestimated but I do feel isolated and lonely at times and feel like I always have to be the happy go lucky person but it's so hard sometimes. I'm sorry you're going through something similar xxx
@Crashingwaves2403
it went through something similar sometime back with my ( ex ) boyfriend, one minute everything was great and the next, he was completely avoiding me, not replying to my texts and calls for weeks at a time.. Things went on like that for a while and then I decided to confront him. I told him to be honest with me and that it was okay if things didn't workout. Shit happens. If your confronting him, try not to cry because most men can't handle extreme emotions. So in their defense they try to show emotions like indifference, anger and coldness etc . Give it sometime, if things don't workout for you with him, you can always make a new start
I stopped taking my anti depressants for anxiety 3 days ago and am feeling surprisingly good. Although I have this dark cloud over my shoulder just waiting to be riddled by anxiety and need to go back on them. I really don't want to, the side effects were awful. Feeling very "damned if you do, damned if you don't" but somewhat optimistic.
I could use one right now, thanks. 
@Pandas4ever
Lots of HUGS, all welcome x
I need several hugs...
I hit my lowest point last night. I started having more and more suicidal thoughts recently. I don't know if I can really call him the recital because I don't have any desire to kill myself I just don't want to be alive anymore. Is there a difference? I'm not sure what to do. I probably made a mistake because I lost it last night, with my boyfriend, and I actually told him that I've been a lot worse off than I really thought that I was. I know I've been going through some severe depression for the past 3 or 4 months probably. I try and hold it together and sometimes I can, but I've been getting increasingly more and more emotional, I know I also have low self-esteem, anxiety, and probably a plethora of other things that are going on. I haven't known how to talk to anybody about it, because I don't think people take me seriously. I know they don't know what to say. I know they don't know what to do. I'm not asking anyone to give me help or answers. I know no one can help me, and I've been told that I just have to work on myself. I've been working on myself my entire life. I never quit. And I'm told that, "I'm crazy" and being overly sensitive, and "annoying", and that I'm always sad.
Well, yeah. I am. I'm depressed. I need help. I can't do this alone anymore. I don't have the strength. I have been trying, but I can't do this alone.
I consider myself a failure for finally admitting that I've been having suicidal thoughts and thoughts of just "giving up".
@raspberryShade68 *hugs*
@raspberryShade68 Also you're not a failure. I'm not saying that just to make you feel better, but you're strong enough to say what you've been feeling :)
I would like a hug. Must have only had 5 hugs or so in the past 2 months.
@calmHemlock64 big hugs being sent, in need of hugs too xx
@Crashingwaves2403 Thank you! *hugs back tightly*
@calmHemlock64 I know I'm a little slow, but
@SunshineCat Aww thanks Cat :) *hugs back*
I haven't been received a hug this past few months.
@Pdcm you're awesome *huggs you*
May I have a hug? I like them, but don't get them often...
@blackangel2113 *hugs*. Have a nice day :)
I'm fighting a losing battle here and not sure whether to keep fighting. (this is not regarding my life) A hug and advice is appreciated :)
@bestrong123 hugs :)
