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Am I the only one who doesnt seem to like Christmas?

User Profile: ladyofborders
ladyofborders December 22nd, 2023

Title pretty much speaks for itself.

If anybody wants me to vent more about this then id be more than delighted to.

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 22nd, 2023

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User Profile: ellie626
ellie626 December 22nd, 2023

@ladyofborders hey!! i for myself think christmas is wonderful, but i'm curious to hear more about why it might not be so great. would you mind sharing why you don't like christmas? 

User Profile: Themaninblackxxx
Themaninblackxxx December 22nd, 2023

@ladyofborders

No you're not the only one

Vent away 😆

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User Profile: ladyofborders
ladyofborders OP December 25th, 2023

@Themaninblackxxx Oh sorry

Im just a little bothered w how people celebrate it in general (doesnt include gift giving, family gatherings or going to church)


I dont like christmas music, christmas cards or christmas decorations

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User Profile: Themaninblackxxx
Themaninblackxxx December 26th, 2023

@ladyofborders

Well..

I was looking forward to a good rant

I had pizza for xmas lunch

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User Profile: ladyofborders
ladyofborders OP December 26th, 2023

@Themaninblackxxx Oh nice

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User Profile: delicateSnow226
delicateSnow226 December 26th, 2023

@ladyofborders I understand. you can do what you love that is the way of celebrating christmas as well. Have a good new year ahead.

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User Profile: yourfavoritebestie
yourfavoritebestie December 22nd, 2023

@ladyofborders yes me too, I feel like i'm more of a summer person because I just need a cold ice cream and a tan at the beach than sitting in a heated room all day🥲

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User Profile: ladyofborders
ladyofborders OP December 25th, 2023

@yourfavoritebestie I can tell this is sarcastic

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User Profile: eternallyworthless
eternallyworthless December 23rd, 2023

i hate it too. there is nothing to like about it for me.

i don't have people to spend it with. it's just a reminder for how alone i am.

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User Profile: kenjiiii
kenjiiii December 24th, 2023

This is all painfully true for me :(

User Profile: ladyofborders
ladyofborders OP December 25th, 2023

@eternallyworthless I have my family but I just shrug it off as if its any other occasion while trying to hide the fact I dont like anything around me

User Profile: ladyofborders
ladyofborders OP December 25th, 2023

@eternallyworthless Sorry you dont have anybody tho, im here whenever you need to talk 🖤

User Profile: Vikrant007
Vikrant007 January 19th

Please don't feel like that we are all with you.

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December 23rd, 2023

@ladyofborders I don’t mind the birthday party. The invite said all are welcome. But many of the guests aren’t so inviting. 


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User Profile: ladyofborders
ladyofborders OP December 25th, 2023

@FlatenedByLife Yeah

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User Profile: adventurousBranch3786
adventurousBranch3786 December 25th, 2023

@ladyofborders. It’s almost 😅 over!

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User Profile: ladyofborders
ladyofborders OP December 25th, 2023

@adventurousBranch3786 Thank god

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User Profile: PoliteOcean
PoliteOcean December 31st, 2023

God actually loves Christmas. As it’s the Birthday of Christ 🤷🏻‍♀️

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User Profile: Goldenhufflepuffs12
Goldenhufflepuffs12 December 26th, 2023

It’s ok for you to not like Christmas 😊 we all have different interests in celebration / holidays. Me like the others in the reply are interested why you don’t like Christmas ! Ur welcome to express that

User Profile: goodSpruce3041
goodSpruce3041 December 29th, 2023

I used to love Christmas. But with the deaths of my mother and sister, it just seems bleak now. I miss traveling to see them. I miss my mom's oatmeal raisin Christmas cookies. I miss my sister and I driving around to look at decorated houses. All of that is gone forever, and nothing has taken their place. Christmas is a painful bitter time for me now.

User Profile: philosophicalBunny9283
philosophicalBunny9283 December 30th, 2023

I call it Satan worshiping unnecessary murder day if that helps lol