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Member Oath - All Encouraged to Participate

Laura November 9th, 2014

Our member community is thriving! Now that we have our group support chat rooms, our members are able to interact and support each other in new and dynamic ways. You all have done a wonderful job adjusting to these chat rooms and supporting one another.

As a member of the 7 Cups community, you are all here for a variety of specific reasons. But one thing we all have in common is our love of the 7 Cups community. Our community is a safe haven, a place to find connection, compassion, love, and support.

Our community is only as strong as it's members. We ask each member to agree to these community guidelines and interact in ways that reflect these guidelines and the 7 Cups values.

Today, I would like all members of 7 Cups of Tea to take ownership of their home here. To show your commitment, we ask that you take the 7 Cups member oath. By completing this oath, you are promising to show kindness and support to all those you interact with here. It could be in the forums, with a listener in a 1-1 chat or in the group support chat rooms.

Below this post, type out your member oath. You could cut and paste it, but I feel like this takes away from it. Typing it helps you really think through what you are committing to. Next, at the bottom, sign in with your username like this:

I, ___________________, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //LauraS//
Date: 11/9/2014

NOTE: Eventually, we will be able to give a badge to all those who take this pledge. The badge will come, as long as you post in this thread, you will earn it!

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ABlankSpace July 5th, 2015

I, ABlankSpace,pledge a moral oath before the entire community, making the communitywitnessthat I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking.

~I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with.

~I will work towardsbettering my health every time I log on.

~I will show respect and neverviolate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners.

~I will take ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships which encourage this endeavor.

~I will respect the time, love and commitment my volunteer listeners bring to 7 Cups of Tea every day.

~I will use the resources provided to me to continue to learn and grow.

~I willbelieve in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique.

~I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunity to grow and learn.

~I will honor the challenges presented to me in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter, how challenging, I can overcome.

~I will lean on the community in my time of need and I will let others lean on me in their time of need.

~I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me. I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions.

~I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself and the community that I am dedicated to my personal health and the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.

Signed:

ABlankSpace

Date: 7-5-2015

SamWise70 July 5th, 2015

I, SamWise70,pledge a moral oath before the entire community, making the communitywitnessthat I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking.

I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with.

I will work towardsbettering my health every time I log on.

I will show respect and neverviolate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners.

I will take ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships which encourage this endeavor.

I will respect the time, love and commitment my volunteer listeners bring to 7 Cups of Tea every day.

I will use the resources provided to me to continue to learn and grow.

I willbelieve in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique.

I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunity to grow and learn.

I will honor the challenges presented to me in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter, how challenging, I can overcome.

I will lean on the community in my time of need and I will let others lean on me in their time of need.

I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me. I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions.

I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself and the community that I am dedicated to my personal health and the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.

Signed:

SamWise70

Date: 7-5-2015

Wombofearth July 6th, 2015

I, Wombofearth,pledge a moral oath before the entire community, making the community witness that I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking. I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with. I will work towards bettering my health every time I log on. I will show respect and never violate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners. I will take ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships which encourage this endeavor. I will respect the time, love and commitment my volunteer listeners bring to 7 Cups of Tea every day. I will use the resources provided to me to continue to learn and grow. I will believe in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique. I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunity to grow and learn. I will honor the challenges presented to me in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter, how challenging, I can overcome. I will lean on the community in my time of need and I will let others lean on me in their time of need. I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me. I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions. I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself and the community that I am dedicated to my personal health and the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community. Signed: Wombofearth

Br33zyS3tz July 7th, 2015

I am soverypleased tobe a (new) member, anactivelistener, a part of, 7 Cups of Tea; I aim to provide all with love, compassion, sincerity, and support; I aim to makedifferences in those that I touch,that I interact with, and wish them the best of wishes now, and in(to) the future.

My Member(ship)Oath:

I, Briana S, pledge a moral oath before the entire 7 Cups of Tea community, making the community witness that I will fulfill, to the best of my ability, this covenant and undertaking; I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with, I will work towards bettering my health ever time I log on, I will show respect and never violate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners, I will take ownership of my mental healthy and be forthcoming to buildsupportive relationships which encourage this endeavor, I will respect the time, love, and commitment my volunteer listeners bring to 7 Cups of Tea every day, I will use the resources provided to my to continue to learn and grow, I will believe in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique, I will take every interactionI have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunityto grow and learn, I will honor the challenges presented to my in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter how challenging, I can (and will) overcome, I will lean on the community in my time of need, and I will let others lean on me, in their time of need,

Essentially, I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me;I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions;I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself, and the community,that I am dedicated to my personal health, as well asthe betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.

Signed:

Briana S.

Date:

July 7, 2015.

TEMI4LIVE July 9th, 2015

I, Temi,pledge a moral oath before the entire community, making the communitywitnessthat I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking.

I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with.

I will work towardsbettering my health every time I log on.

I will show respect and neverviolate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners.

I will take ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships which encourage this endeavor.

I will respect the time, love and commitment my volunteer listeners bring to 7 Cups of Tea every day.

I will use the resources provided to me to continue to learn and grow.

I willbelieve in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique.

I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunity to grow and learn.

I will honor the challenges presented to me in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter, how challenging, I can overcome.

I will lean on the community in my time of need and I will let others lean on me in their time of need.

I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me. I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions.

I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself and the community that I am dedicated to my personal health and the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.

Signed:

Temi4live

Date: 11-9-2015

mellotune July 9th, 2015

My Member Oath:

I, Rinn,pledge a moral oath before the entire community, making the communitywitnessthat I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking.

I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with.

I will work towardsbettering my health every time I log on.

I will show respect and neverviolate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners.

I will take ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships which encourage this endeavor.

I will respect the time, love and commitment my volunteer listeners bring to 7 Cups of Tea every day.

I will use the resources provided to me to continue to learn and grow.

I willbelieve in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique.

I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunity to grow and learn.

I will honor the challenges presented to me in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter, how challenging, I can overcome.

I will lean on the community in my time of need and I will let others lean on me in their time of need.

I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me. I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions.

I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself and the community that I am dedicated to my personal health and the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.

Signed:

Rinn (aka mellotune)

Date: 07/09/2015

Jessica797 July 10th, 2015

My 7COT pledge

I, Jessica797, do so pledge a moral oath before the this entire community, making all members bare witnessthat I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking that I am taking this day.

I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with. That we are all here on our own personal journeys and I will show respect to all.

I will also work hard towardsbettering my health every time I log on, and I will do my upmost to let my past remain my past and move on to a brighter future.

I will never violate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners, and be fully understandable towards those in their time in need. I shall aid those to the best of my ability and entrust my faith into them as they do onto me.I shall take full ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships in which shall encourage this endeavor.

I promise that I shall respect the time, love and commitment dedicated bymy volunteer listeners bring to 7 Cups of Tea every day and will do so through each session I undertake.

I will use the resources that I am provided with so that I may continue to learn and grow, that each step I take, even in its smallest measure, is towards a better place.

I will believe in myself more and stop my self criticism, I will also learn that I must love myself before anything else and cease my self ridicule.I will not squander this opportunity I've been given and I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea to its full advantage so that I may grow and learn into a better person.

I will honor the challenges presented to me throughout my life, believing in my soul, that no matter how challenging they maybe, that God tests us all, and that in strength, I can overcome them all.

I will lean on this community if needs be to help me through the storm, and will not hesitate to return the favour.I fully understand that my behavior is a reflection of me, and in that I take full responsibility of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions.

I swear that I shall keep to all these promises that I make this day as a means of showing not only to myself, but to this whole community that I am dedicated to my personal health, my goals, to restore my lost faith within myself and know I do so wholly for the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.

Signed:

Jessica797

Date: 10/07/2015

Jessica797 July 10th, 2015

For some reason I didn't get the badge, I posted my pledge through here but I didn't get anything. Itdoesn't really matter about that, I didso because I wanted to make my oath,but I just thought I would make this aware in case it happens to anyone else. 😊

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UnderTheSilverMoon July 10th, 2015

@Jessica797 I didn't get it either. But I'm curious to find out if they eventually madeone for the member oath, because I haven't seen it yet. I did see some of the Listeners have a 'listeners oath' badge, though.
@Laura Could you help us out?

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UnderTheSilverMoon July 10th, 2015

I, UnderTheSilverMoon, pledge a moral oath before the entire community, making the community witness that I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking.

I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with.
I will work towards bettering my health every time I log on.
I will show respect and never violate the boundaries of my fellow Members or Listeners.
I will take ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships which encourage this endeavor.
I will respect the time, love and commitment my volunteer Listeners bring to 7 Cups of Tea every day.
I will use the resources provided to me to continue to learn and grow.
I will believe in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique.
I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunity to grow and learn.
I will honor the challenges presented to me in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter, how challenging, I can overcome.
I will lean on the community in my time of need and I will let others lean on me in their time of need.
I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me. I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions.
I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself and the community that I am dedicated to my personal health and the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.

Signed: UnderTheSilverMoon
Date: 10th of July 2015

casscub July 12th, 2015

I, casscub, pledge a moral oath before the entire community, making the community witness that I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking.

I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with.

I will work towards bettering my health every time I log on.

I will show respect and never violate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners.

I will take ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships which encourage this endeavor.

I will respect the time, love and commitment my volunteer listeners bring to 7 Cups of Tea every day.

I will use the resources provided to me to continue to learn and grow.

I will believe in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique.

I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunity to grow and learn.

I will honor the challenges presented to me in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter, how challenging, I can overcome.

I will lean on the community in my time of need and I will let others lean on me in their time of need.

I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me. I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions.

I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself and the community that I am dedicated to my personal health and the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.

Signed:

casscub

Date: 12/07.2015