Member Oath - All Encouraged to Participate
Our member community is thriving! Now that we have our group support chat rooms, our members are able to interact and support each other in new and dynamic ways. You all have done a wonderful job adjusting to these chat rooms and supporting one another.
As a member of the 7 Cups community, you are all here for a variety of specific reasons. But one thing we all have in common is our love of the 7 Cups community. Our community is a safe haven, a place to find connection, compassion, love, and support.
Our community is only as strong as it's members. We ask each member to agree to these community guidelines and interact in ways that reflect these guidelines and the 7 Cups values.
Today, I would like all members of 7 Cups of Tea to take ownership of their home here. To show your commitment, we ask that you take the 7 Cups member oath. By completing this oath, you are promising to show kindness and support to all those you interact with here. It could be in the forums, with a listener in a 1-1 chat or in the group support chat rooms.
Below this post, type out your member oath. You could cut and paste it, but I feel like this takes away from it. Typing it helps you really think through what you are committing to. Next, at the bottom, sign in with your username like this:
I, ___________________, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.
I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.
I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.
I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.
I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.
I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.
I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.
I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.
I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.
Signed: //LauraS//
Date: 11/9/2014
NOTE: Eventually, we will be able to give a badge to all those who take this pledge. The badge will come, as long as you post in this thread, you will earn it!
FH:49
(Edit; ASilentObserver, 01/10/2020)
I, NotE467J, pledge a moral oath before the entire community, making the communitywitnessthat I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking.
I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with.
I will work towardsbettering my health every time I log on.
I will show respect and neverviolate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners.
I will take ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships which encourage this endeavor.
I will respect the time, love and commitment my volunteer listenersbring to 7 Cups of Tea every day.
I will use the resources provided to me to continue to learn and grow.
I willbelieve in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique.
I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunity to grow and learn.
I will honor the challenges presented to me in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter, how challenging, I can overcome.
I will lean on the community in my time of need and I will let others lean on me in their time of need.
I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me. I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions.
I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself and the community that I am dedicated to my personal health and the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.
Signed:
NotE467J
I, heartishurting,pledge a moral oath before the entire community, making the communitywitnessthat I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking.
I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with.
I will work towardsbettering my health every time I log on.
I will show respect and neverviolate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners.
I will take ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships which encourage this endeavor.
I will respect the time, love and commitment my volunteer listeners bring to 7 Cups of Tea every day.
I will use the resources provided to me to continue to learn and grow.
I willbelieve in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique.
I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunity to grow and learn.
I will honor the challenges presented to me in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter, how challenging, I can overcome.
I will lean on the community in my time of need and I will let others lean on me in their time of need.
I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me. I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions.
I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself and the community that I am dedicated to my personal health and the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.
Signed:
heartishurting
06/05/2015
I, SurroundedAlone, pledge a moral oath before the entire community, making the communitywitnessthat I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking.
I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with.
I will work towardsbettering my health every time I log on.
I will show respect and neverviolate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners.
I will take ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships which encourage this endeavor.
I will respect the time, love and commitment my volunteer listenersbring to 7 Cups of Tea every day.
I will use the resources provided to me to continue to learn and grow.
I willbelieve in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique.
I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunity to grow and learn.
I will honor the challenges presented to me in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter, how challenging, I can overcome.
I will lean on the community in my time of need and I will let others lean on me in their time of need.
I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me. I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions.
I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself and the community that I am dedicated to my personal health and the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.
Signed:
SurroundedAlone
~~I, Reececup1986T, pledge a moral oath before the entire community, making the community witness that I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking.
I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with.
I will work towards bettering my health every time I log on.
I will show respect and never violate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners.
I will take ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships which encourage this endeavor.
I will respect the time, love and commitment my volunteer listeners bring to 7 Cups of Tea every day.
I will use the resources provided to me to continue to learn and grow.
I will believe in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique.
I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunity to grow and learn.
I will honor the challenges presented to me in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter, how challenging, I can overcome.
I will lean on the community in my time of need and I will let others lean on me in their time of need.
I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me. I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions.
I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself and the community that I am dedicated to my personal health and the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.
Signed:
Reececup1986T
~~I, Reececup1986T, pledge a moral oath before the entire community, making the community witness that I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking.
I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with.
I will work towards bettering my health every time I log on.
I will show respect and never violate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners.
I will take ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships which encourage this endeavor.
I will respect the time, love and commitment my volunteer listeners bring to 7 Cups of Tea every day.
I will use the resources provided to me to continue to learn and grow.
I will believe in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique.
I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunity to grow and learn.
I will honor the challenges presented to me in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter, how challenging, I can overcome.
I will lean on the community in my time of need and I will let others lean on me in their time of need.
I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me. I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions.
I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself and the community that I am dedicated to my personal health and the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.
Signed:
Reececup1986T
I am sorry, but this is so much no for me.
I will no longer get bogged down when people I value don't reciprocate; I will learn to move on and accept that some things aren't meant to be or that some things will eventually fall into place without me compulsively trying to solve them.
But I will also learn to express my deep emotions with patience and courage. I will not blame myself if I sometimes don't succeed in doing so but I will try. I will try not to keep myself all bottled up. And I will recognize that this is the way humans ought to interact; not only with glances or insinuations but with words - kind, powerful or emotive... Whatever may be.
I will appreciate time and space.
I will remember and honor the ones I've lost; I will recognize that I wasn't there for them enough when they needed me, and will try to gradually forgive myself.
I will no longer get bogged down when people I value don't reciprocate; I will learn to move on and accept that some things aren't meant to be or that some things will eventually fall into place without me compulsively trying to solve them.
But I will also learn to express my deep emotions with patience and courage. I will not blame myself if I sometimes don't succeed in doing so but I will try. I will try not to keep myself all bottled up. And I will recognize that this is the way humans ought to interact; not only with glances or insinuations but with words - kind, powerful or emotive... Whatever may be.
I will appreciate time and space.
I will remember and honor the ones I've lost; I will recognize that I wasn't there for them enough when they needed me, and will try to gradually forgive myself.
Oh wait this was about site regulations? hahaha sorry thought it was about formulating our own personal oaths - as in promises to ourselves.
I shall not answer questions without reading them :P
I, heartishurting,pledge a moral oath before the entire community, making the communitywitnessthat I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking.
I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with.
I will work towardsbettering my health every time I log on.
I will show respect and neverviolate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners.
I will take ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships which encourage this endeavor.
I will respect the time, love and commitment my volunteer listeners bring to 7 Cups of Tea every day.
I will use the resources provided to me to continue to learn and grow.
I willbelieve in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique.
I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunity to grow and learn.
I will honor the challenges presented to me in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter, how challenging, I can overcome.
I will lean on the community in my time of need and I will let others lean on me in their time of need.
I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me. I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions.
I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself and the community that I am dedicated to my personal health and the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.
Signed:
WJB
