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Hey I'm not sure where to ask, but I was wondering how to help maybe physical discomforts during s'ual triggers?

ScaredLongNeckedFrend June 9th, 2022

I'm male and I don't mean arousal, I'll end up cutting those organs off if it keeps doing that. I really can't compare the type of discomfort with anything, and libido already feels uncomfortable when things feel too intensely triggering. I don't know how to cope.

I'm still working on a lot of things to get to professionals, doctors or clinical people, and I haven't for an array of reasons. And apart from intense fear and panic over clinical settings/people, disclosing personal information and these types of subjects, I somehow just noticed that I might also need to work on intimacy (on a friendship or clinical level). I've never had anything safe for it. So if you've any readings or videos regarding intimacy in those settings I would really appreciate it. Idk what to do for that either

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ScaredLongNeckedFrend OP June 9th, 2022

@ScaredLongNeckedFrend

Can someone please please reply or something, sorry for feeling this way

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ScaredLongNeckedFrend OP June 17th, 2022

@ScaredLongNeckedFrend

I just felt like bumping the post

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ScaredLongNeckedFrend OP June 19th, 2022

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ScaredLongNeckedFrend OP February 13th, 2023

@ScaredLongNeckedFrend

bump

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MsIncognito June 9th, 2022

Hey are you okay?

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ScaredLongNeckedFrend OP June 9th, 2022

@MsIncognito

Really sorry, is that a snarky question(?), because it just feels gratuitous if so. It feels extremely lonely to answer otherwise, since I'd need more genuine support and can't have it right now, and haven't had any for these things. I really don't get what you mean or how you mean that right now I'm sorry

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MsIncognito June 9th, 2022

Don't be sorry. I don't mean it in a snarky way. Im genuinely concerned. If you aren't feeling well I recommend coming to the group chat rooms! Its very supportive and it help you not feel alone overall.

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ScaredLongNeckedFrend OP June 9th, 2022

@MsIncognito

oh I don't think I could manage, it might not be something for me, but thank you

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ScaredLongNeckedFrend OP June 9th, 2022

Or maybe ways to cope or process better those aspects

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ScaredLongNeckedFrend OP June 10th, 2022

or maybe if anyone relates at all please?

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mytwistedsoul June 11th, 2022

@ScaredLongNeckedFrend Hey

I have a link - Idk if it will be any help. It's something I'm trying to work on

https://www.rainn.org

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ScaredLongNeckedFrend OP June 12th, 2022

@mytwistedsoul

Hey thanks so much for answering, and I'll check it out a bit^

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ScaredLongNeckedFrend OP February 2nd, 2023

@ScaredLongNeckedFrend bump, can't describe the discomfort from the sort of panic. Can't feel ok with m' while alone all too much. Not sure how to restart working on it, one thing felt safe for awhile so it's confusing right now.

ScaredLongNeckedFrend OP February 8th, 2023

@ScaredLongNeckedFrend

idc I'm not rereading my post or updating, just a bump