It can be scary to confront people because....
Cause I get very angry
@Laura
You don't know how they will react or their perspective on the matter.
They my be heartless and tear you down
I just dont like confronting people
you dont know how they will react and if what you say will may illicit judgements and arguments that I or we may not be ready for. things can be said and taken out of context and feelings maybe hurt
@Keola
Yes indeed. So challenging. Especially if already feeling vulnerable.
@OPinyon .. exactly. that's why I try avoid it as best as I can. if I need to 'confront' someone, I try use a lil humor or ask to speak with them at their convenience unless it needs to be done asap.
@Keola
I hear you. And good for you!
...they could get mad at me, and then stop liking me. 😞
@BunnyFaerie11
Let them be mad. If they are truly worth your time, they won't stay mad. They will see they miss you too.
I always end up over empathising with bad people and end up feeling bad, even though they're in the wrong😐
I may not be able to deal with their anger.
I am extremely introverted and talking to people in general is difficult for me. Trying to confront someone would be basically impossible.