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What are your mental health resolutions for 2021?

hopedreamlove December 29th, 2020

Hello hello hello lovely community! I hope you are all doing well, and I hope everyone who celebrated had a good holiday. Red heart

Often at the end of the year, we begin discussing resolutions for the upcoming new year, a change, decision, habit, or promise we hope to incorporate into our lives. For many people, New Year's Resolutions can be very helpful and can help them get one step closer to their best self.

Today, I wanted to discuss mental health resolutions. 2020 no doubt has been a challenging year for so many, and it has been so important that we take care of ourselves, and make mental health a priority. Although the difficulties we faced this year will not magically disappear immediately in the new and we may not know what is in store for us in 2021, I hope we all can put our wellbeing first, and continue to make mental health a priority. As 2020 wraps up, I want to know, what are some of your mental health resolutions for the new year? These resolutions can be absolutely anything that helps improve your overall mental wellbeing, such as practicing more self-care, setting boundaries, taking up a hobby, etc. There is no "bad" resolution, your mental health resolution might look different from mine, and that is okay.

I am looking forward to hearing about your mental health resolutions! Thank you so much for participating in this post, and thank you for being a part of our 7 cups community. I hope that for each and every one of you, this upcoming new year is filled with joy, laughter, adventures, and happiness. Red heart

“You are perfectly cast in your life. I can't imagine anyone but you in the role. Go play.” - Lin Manuel Miranda ⭐

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ClassicAnonymous17 December 30th, 2020

I don't wanna set a resolution

For 365 days.

Most of our minds can't picture 365 days as they would play out but as pinpointed moments. I do NOT mean that⬆️ in a hateful or snarky way.

But what I will do for myself is be better than I am now !!

Recently I've been hard on myself falling back in to old mindsets.

i am not okay with that. That's why I am here 7cups!

7cups helps me so much

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hopedreamlove OP January 7th, 2021

@ClassicAnonymous17

Hi there! I hear your point, when we don't know how the entire year will play out it can be hard to commit to a promise/change that we could follow every day. (If I misunderstood what you were saying please do feel free to let me know Red heart) Being/doing better than you are now is a great wish and very reasonable. When we fall back onto old mindsets it can be really difficult and affect our daily lives. I am glad you are here on 7 cups seeking support and doing your best, we are here for you! Thank you for sharing, happy new year!

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BurdensDown December 31st, 2020

My mental health resolution is to not weigh myself down with goals and to dos. Istarted 2020 hoping to do more than I did last year, but Covid has lasted all year and I've had to keep it simple. Covid will still be here in 2021, so I plan to continue keeping it simple, but make the progress in reading my bible that I didn't accomplish in 2020.

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hopedreamlove OP January 7th, 2021

@BurdensDown

It can be easy to get caught up in goals and a huge to do list, I love that you are planning to keep things simple this year. It can be really helpful and help us accomplish a lot just by taking things one at a time and day by day. Good luck with making progress in reading the Bible! Thank you for sharing, happy new year!

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ShikiBabyBat December 31st, 2020

I guess be kinder to myself and stop fighting my emotions? It is gonna be hard tho cuz it's instinct for me to fight my emotions and be self critical. Also wanna draw more, I haven't really had the passion for that all year but DnD brought it back for a little bit cuz I wanted to draw my character.

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hopedreamlove OP January 7th, 2021

@ShikiBabyBat

Being kinder towards ourselves and stop fighting emotions can be really powerful and beneficial. I can understand the first instinct to be fighting emotions because sometimes that can feel safer; criticizing ourselves can be much easier than being kind to ourselves. Ooo, drawing sounds awesome! I wish that that is something I could do haha. It can feel really good when after a long time we start to enjoy hobbies or things we used to be fond of in the past, it can sort of be like reuniting with a new friend. (I don't even know if the analogy(?) makes sense lol) Thank you so much for sharing! Wishing you the absolute best with your resolutions, happy new year!

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Eastcoastanxious December 31st, 2020

Try to walk away from toxic people

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hopedreamlove OP January 7th, 2021

@Eastcoastanxious

Although it can be difficult, getting away from toxic people or people that negatively impact our mental health can be so powerful and relieving. I am wishing you the best with this resolution, and as always, 7 cups will be here for you. Red heart Thank you for sharing, happy new year!

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PurpleHair17 December 31st, 2020

To become comfortable with my body and to see myself as beautiful

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understandingWest8097 December 31st, 2020

@PurpleHair17 i am pretty sure you are beautiful

hopedreamlove OP January 7th, 2021

@PurpleHair17

Hello! Your resolution is one that I would like for myself as well. It can be so so difficult to become comfortable in our own bodies and view ourselves as beautiful. Self-love can be a long process, and it's more than okay if it doesn't happen in one day. Doing your best is enough. Red heart Wishing you the very best with your resolution and self-love journey, you are not alone. Thank you for sharing with us, happy new year!

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youarenotalone00 December 31st, 2020

to feel okay and actually happy...to feel beautiful and to not be on an edge every minute of the dayblush

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hopedreamlove OP January 7th, 2021

@youarenotalone00

Feeling unhappy and on edge all the time can be really uncomfortable, tense, and so challenging to cope with. It is really understandable to want to feel okay and happy. Feeling beautiful can be really difficult as well, and it is valid if you don't feel that way. Self-love is a journey, and it may take time, but it is possible. Thank you so much for sharing, happy new year!

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lovelyJewel88 December 31st, 2020

i want to accept myself and be more confient, and learn how to handle hard situations better

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hopedreamlove OP January 7th, 2021

@lovelyJewel88

Hi hi! Self-acceptance and self-confidence can be difficult incorporating into our lives, but once it is done it can feel really wonderful. I hope that this year you can begin to accept yourself and feel more comfortable with your wonderful self, as well as learn how to handle difficult situations a bit better. Thank you for sharing, happy new year!

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draftiness December 31st, 2020

Be true to myself.

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hopedreamlove OP January 7th, 2021

@draftiness

Being true to yourself is a fantabulous resolution! When we are true to ourselves, it can make a huge difference in how we feel and the way we see things. Thank you for sharing, happy new year!

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bubbleSky5248 December 31st, 2020

@hopedreamlove

My mental resolutions will be to understand myself better, love myself, move away from toxic people, do what I love, and maybe also finally hope that my parents finally see what mess I am, and care for me,, the way I have always wanted <3

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tallPenny9196 December 31st, 2020

@bubbleSky5248

my resolution is to start to take care of myself completely health wise and my mind

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bubbleSky5248 January 1st, 2021

@tallPenny9196

Yes! Way to go Buddy! I hope you achieve it! <3
Happy 2021!❤

hopedreamlove OP January 8th, 2021

@tallPenny9196

Taking care of both your physical and mental health is such a great resolution! Feel free to share his you plan on doing this if you want! I wish you the very best with your resolution, thank you for sharing! Happy new year!

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hopedreamlove OP January 8th, 2021

@bubbleSky5248

I love all these! Understanding yourself better, practicing self-love, distancing yourself from toxic people, doing what you love, and hoping your parents offer you the care and support you deserve sound like wonderful resolutions. I hope that all of these resolutions work out for you! Red heart Thank you so much for sharing, happy new year!

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bubbleSky5248 January 8th, 2021

@hopedreamlove

Yup, these all mean a lot to me this year, and I hope too,🤞 that I can achieve it. Thank you so much! I hope you too get to accomplish all your resolutions. Happy new year!❤

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lovingGrace3297 December 31st, 2020

More self care.

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hopedreamlove OP January 8th, 2021

@lovingGrace3297

Yesssss, we love self-care! What are some forms of self-care that you enjoy? Thank you for sharing, happy new year!

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