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Personality Disorders Community Check-in: May 13th - May 19th

LavenderFlower May 16th, 2022

Happy Friday PD Community!

I wish you all the best this month. Don’t worry if things get hard. I know you can do it. Self-care. Self-love. Self-worth. Know your power~

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🧡If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?
🧡How are you feeling this week?

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ChildGoddessFlute May 16th, 2022

@LavenderFlower

Where wouldn't I travel! I'd love to be a world traveler. I am doing well thanks!

Have a magical day!

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LavenderFlower OP May 16th, 2022

I feel the same way about travelling! I think it would be lovely to travel everywhere. Every country has their own charm, experiences, and foods. I’m glad you’re doing well, Flute! 🌼

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purpleTree4652 May 16th, 2022

@LavenderFlower

Hi, Flower,

1. If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go? Hawaii, which is where I would like to live.

2. How are you feeling this week? I'm not off to a great week. I called off today, and I'm expecting the firing squad at work tomorrow. It will probably be fine. But I'm struggling. I'm doing my best.

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LavenderFlower OP May 16th, 2022

Hey there again Purple! Hawaii is a great pick! Beautiful beaches, and I absolutely adore luaus. It seems like so much fun and wonder. I’m sorry to hear the stuff with your work is still going roughly 😕 I hope they can make something work in regards to those stressful people at work and you. Hopefully, you can find ways to destress in the meantime before tomorrow. Let us know how it goes! I’m praying for you 🌸 Good luck tomorrow

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PoliteOcean May 16th, 2022

@LavenderFlower


❤️If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?......Most anywhere TROPICAL~ (Blue ,sunny skies, palm trees, and some waves~) ☀️🌊🌴

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LavenderFlower OP May 16th, 2022

That sounds absolutely lovely! Nice, warm, and sweet ocean breeze. It must be refreshing 🏖 I wish you a good week, Ocean! It’s nice to hear from you again.

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OneErased May 16th, 2022

@LavenderFlower

If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?

I'd go to the States, visit some friends. See some familiar places.

How are you feeling this week?

Not great, but happens.

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mytwistedsoul May 16th, 2022

@OneErased Hey One :) How are you? I hope you don't mind - I saw you here and thought I'd say hey. Idk - you might not remember me either - which is ok too. I just remember your pfp - avatar - picture - what ever you want to call it. We talked a few times in the chat room - anyway - you've been in my thoughts and Idk if you have a journal or anything here to pop onto - so here I am :) I'm sorry things aren't great right now - I hope they get better for you
*sending you strength* take care of yourself ok? Maybe we can chat again soon :)

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OneErased May 17th, 2022

@mytwistedsoul

I don't really remember but thanks. Maybe.

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LavenderFlower OP May 16th, 2022

Hey there erased! Good to hear from you again 💜 Going to the states to visit some friends sounds great! Sometimes it’s the experience we spend with others that makes the experience worthwhile. I think not feeling great does happen sometimes. I’m glad you’re very nonchalant about that. I hope things get better though.

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EmbracingChaos May 18th, 2022

@LavenderFlower I’m not doing well today. I feel pressured to do things I’m not comfortable with constantly. The thing is, they’re not abnormal things. I should be able to do them. I should want to do them to be a decent person. But I don’t. I am not a great person. I used to think I was decent, but I’m really not. I sort of care, and I sort of don’t. I just want a quiet simple life to heal. I can’t seem to deal with a lot going on.

learningtolovemyself May 21st, 2022

If I could travel anywhere in the world, I’d go to a children’s home overseas where I could love on children. I loved that when I went to Jamaica and Guatemala. I also want to be able to explore wherever I’m at and barter and learn the culture.


I am feeling good for the most part. Just trying to change a few things about how I interact and take it one day at a time.

cl0wnb0y May 25th, 2022

If I could travel anywhere, I would go to the moon. I’d want to look up at the galaxy and every single star. I would be able to look at the earth and every other planet. Floating around and stuff. If I couldn’t go to the moon I’d go to Japan. I’d try every single dish and sleep under the cherry blossom trees.


This week has been one of major highs and lows. Currently the lows are outweighing the highs but hopefully it’ll get a bit better. Hopefully.