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💙About Me💙

Hey there everyone! I am LavenderFlower, but you can call me Lavender or Lav. I'm a final year Psychology student. I like video games, writing, acting, music, and art. I’m super interested in Forensics as well. I listen to those with Personality Disorders and Dissociative Disorders on top of the categories I have listed. I also take chats about attention-seeking and lying. I am an empathetic listener who will do my best to support you.

 

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Personality Disorders Community Check-in: July 1st - July 7th
Personality Disorders Support / by LavenderFlower
Last post
July 6th, 2022
...See more Hello PD Community! I hope you all are doing well, and I hope this week has been kind to you. If things are tough, keep going! You can do this! All your efforts will be worth it. Just give it time~ 🎋What is one thing you will do for self-care this week? 🎋How are you feeling this week? If you would rather keep it short or are not comfortable answering, feel free to talk about whatever is on your mind or just ask for a hug~ Feel free to check out all our posts for DBTuesday [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/DBTuesday_2147/DBTuesdayMasterpost_274756/] (Exploring skills and concepts from dialectical behavior therapy) Thoughtful Thursday [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/ThoughtfulThursday_2294/ThoughtfulThursdayMasterpost_277323/] (Reflection and discussion of various issues associated with personality disorders) If you would like to know more about upcoming group support discussions and other events, click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/PersonalityDisorderSupportCommunityTeamEvents_432/NavigatingPersonalityDisordersCommunityandEventsMasterThread_254844/] If you have some time, please share your feedback on our subcommunity here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/PersonalityDisorderSupportCommunityTeamEvents_432/ForaThrivingandSupportiveSubcommunity_225340/] If you would like to read the sub-community guidelines, click here [https://www.7cups.com/home/personalitydisorders/?cr=dash#guidelines] If you would like to be added or removed from the taglist, click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/IntroductionsIcebreakers_1356/PersonalityDisordersCommunityTaglist_219585/] @Adeline12345 @ahhhhelpimalive @AlfAndthemachine @alleywood13 @Alwaysinpyjamas @ambitiousVase1322 @amicableDime9946 @AndreaDawn @arbanon @ARC80 @AutumnLauren6 @autumnthemoth @Avocado22 @azuladragon34 @b4Damion @berrymimi @bestcase @caringPerspective41 @CheerySandi @ChristmasGift @crang17 @cyanPlatypus6370 @dagaz13th @DamagedOne13 @dberryy @diamondintheROUGH2022 @DIDisaythat @DoggoMom @ebonyyyblondie89 @EddaLayla @emerijourney @EmotionalNerd @Everythingisbetterinyourpyjamas @fireyseastar97 @FloweringBunny @forcefulFriend4768 @Glue @Goldcherry2113 @GrahZeymahzin @GRAPSPRO2033 @GreenScarab @Hadeel96 @HashiramaNinja @healingHeart1111 @heartycitrus @HopeandFaith @Hyacinth22 @ImaginativePenny152 @imclover @indigoCup1959 @intelligentWheel627 @Irishrose78 @itsmeow @Jasminerice @Jish07541 @JoniGirl @K87 @kindTurtle3738 @LadyNikita @LavenderFlower @learningtolovemyself @Lemino @LightsFromDark @LiliTwolsky @limeRaspberries2286 @lovelyWords13 @LoveTracker @maple23 @MeeshyRB @MelG919 @missg @Mkmultra @munchiegoosie @nervoussmiles @NightshadeVenom @Nubia87 @OneErased @optimisticMagic0014 @OrangePeel24 @Oxymoron6demon @passionateJackfruit5095 @Piggy @placidShade4261 @Pointlesswords @QueenBee03 @QuietMagic @racqueldawn @raininglillies13 @Red789 @RelaxedPanda @RemorseCode2 @Rex0911 @selfdisciplinedBunny232 @ShyCat1678201 @SilverSeastar @spectacularCandy9984 @Stardew3 @Starilus @StrangeKat @sunflower2480 @Tamy4210 @Tatianaalize @toucans @Triscups @uniqueRose1689 @versatilePomegranate60 @WalkingCrow @Xe @YourCaringConfidant
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Personality Disorders Community Check-in: May 27th - June 2nd
Personality Disorders Support / by LavenderFlower
Last post
June 5th, 2022
...See more Happy Friday PD Community! We are about to enter June. How has spring been treating you? I hope well. I really hope all the flowers that are starting to creep out give you a sense of new beginnings. Spring is beautiful and so are you! 🌸What is a moment where you felt proud of yourself? 🌸How are you feeling this week? If you would rather keep it short or are not comfortable answering, feel free to talk about whatever is on your mind or just ask for a hug~ Feel free to check out all our posts for DBTuesday [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/DBTuesday_2147/DBTuesdayMasterpost_274756/] (Exploring skills and concepts from dialectical behavior therapy) Thoughtful Thursday [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/ThoughtfulThursday_2294/ThoughtfulThursdayMasterpost_277323/] (Reflection and discussion of various issues associated with personality disorders) If you would like to know more about upcoming group support discussions and other events, click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/PersonalityDisorderSupportCommunityTeamEvents_432/NavigatingPersonalityDisordersCommunityandEventsMasterThread_254844/] If you have some time, please share your feedback on our subcommunity here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/PersonalityDisorderSupportCommunityTeamEvents_432/ForaThrivingandSupportiveSubcommunity_225340/] If you would like to read the sub-community guidelines, click here [https://www.7cups.com/home/personalitydisorders/?cr=dash#guidelines] If you would like to be added or removed from the taglist, click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/IntroductionsIcebreakers_1356/PersonalityDisordersCommunityTaglist_219585/] @Adeline12345 @ahhhhelpimalive @AlfAndthemachine @alleywood13 @Alwaysinpyjamas @ambitiousVase1322 @amicableDime9946 @AndreaDawn @arbanon @ARC80 @AutumnLauren6 @autumnthemoth @Avocado22 @azuladragon34 @b4Damion @berrymimi @bestcase @caringPerspective41 @CheerySandi @ChristmasGift @crang17 @cyanPlatypus6370 @dagaz13th @DamagedOne13 @dberryy @diamondintheROUGH2022 @DIDisaythat @DoggoMom @ebonyyyblondie89 @EddaLayla @emerijourney @EmotionalNerd @Everythingisbetterinyourpyjamas @fireyseastar97 @FloweringBunny @forcefulFriend4768 @Goldcherry2113 @GrahZeymahzin @GRAPSPRO2033 @GreenScarab @Hadeel96 @HashiramaNinja @healingHeart1111 @heartycitrus @HopeandFaith @Hyacinth22 @ImaginativePenny152 @imclover @indigoCup1959 @intelligentWheel627 @Irishrose78 @itsmeow @Jasminerice @Jish07541 @JoniGirl @K87 @kindTurtle3738 @LadyNikita @LavenderFlower @learningtolovemyself @Lemino @LightsFromDark @LiliTwolsky @limeRaspberries2286 @lovelyWords13 @LoveTracker @maple23 @MeeshyRB @MelG919 @missg @Mkmultra @munchiegoosie @nervoussmiles @NightshadeVenom @Nubia87 @OneErased @optimisticMagic0014 @OrangePeel24 @Oxymoron6demon @passionateJackfruit5095 @Piggy @placidShade4261 @Pointlesswords @QueenBee03 @QuietMagic @racqueldawn @raininglillies13 @Red789 @RelaxedPanda @RemorseCode2 @Rex0911 @selfdisciplinedBunny232 @ShyCat1678201 @SilverSeastar @spectacularCandy9984 @Stardew3 @Starilus @StrangeKat @sunflower2480 @Tamy4210 @Tatianaalize @toucans @Triscups @uniqueRose1689 @versatilePomegranate60 @WalkingCrow @Xe @YourCaringConfidant
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Personality Disorders Community Check-in: May 13th - May 19th
Personality Disorders Support / by LavenderFlower
Last post
May 25th, 2022
...See more Happy Friday PD Community! I wish you all the best this month. Don’t worry if things get hard. I know you can do it. Self-care. Self-love. Self-worth. Know your power~ 🧡If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go? 🧡How are you feeling this week? If you would rather keep it short or are not comfortable answering, feel free to talk about whatever is on your mind or just ask for a hug~ Feel free to check out our posts for DBTuesday [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/DBTuesday_2147/DBTuesdayMasterpost_274756/] (Exploring skills and concepts from dialectical behavior therapy) Thoughtful Thursday [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/ThoughtfulThursday_2294/ThoughtfulThursdayMasterpost_277323/] (Reflection and discussion of various issues associated with personality disorders) If you would like to know more about upcoming group support discussions and other events, click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/PersonalityDisorderSupportCommunityTeamEvents_432/NavigatingPersonalityDisordersCommunityandEventsMasterThread_254844/] If you have some time, please share your feedback on our subcommunity here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/PersonalityDisorderSupportCommunityTeamEvents_432/ForaThrivingandSupportiveSubcommunity_225340/] If you would like to read the sub-community guidelines, click here [https://www.7cups.com/home/personalitydisorders/?cr=dash#guidelines] If you would like to be added or removed from the taglist, click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/IntroductionsIcebreakers_1356/PersonalityDisordersCommunityTaglist_219585/] @Adeline12345 @ahhhhelpimalive @AlfAndthemachine @alleywood13 @Alwaysinpyjamas @ambitiousVase1322 @amicableDime9946 @AndreaDawn @arbanon @ARC80 @AutumnLauren6 @autumnthemoth @Avocado22 @azuladragon34 @b4Damion @berrymimi @bestcase @caringPerspective41 @CheerySandi @ChristmasGift @crang17 @cyanPlatypus6370 @dagaz13th @DamagedOne13 @dberryy @diamondintheROUGH2022 @DIDisaythat @DoggoMom @ebonyyyblondie89 @EddaLayla @emerijourney @EmotionalNerd @Everythingisbetterinyourpyjamas @fireyseastar97 @FloweringBunny @forcefulFriend4768 @Goldcherry2113 @GrahZeymahzin @GRAPSPRO2033 @GreenScarab @Hadeel96 @HashiramaNinja @healingHeart1111 @heartycitrus @HopeandFaith @Hyacinth22 @ImaginativePenny152 @imclover @indigoCup1959 @intelligentWheel627 @Irishrose78 @itsmeow @Jasminerice @Jish07541 @JoniGirl @K87 @kindTurtle3738 @LadyNikita @LavenderFlower @Lemino @LightsFromDark @LiliTwolsky @limeRaspberries2286 @lovelyWords13 @LoveTracker @maple23 @MeeshyRB @MelG919 @missg @Mkmultra @munchiegoosie @nervoussmiles @NightshadeVenom @Nubia87 @OneErased @optimisticMagic0014 @OrangePeel24 @Oxymoron6demon @passionateJackfruit5095 @Piggy @placidShade4261 @Pointlesswords @QueenBee03 @QuietMagic @racqueldawn @raininglillies13 @Red789 @RelaxedPanda @RemorseCode2 @Rex0911 @selfdisciplinedBunny232 @ShyCat1678201 @SilverSeastar @spectacularCandy9984 @Stardew3 @Starilus @StrangeKat @sunflower2480 @Tamy4210 @Tatianaalize @toucans @Triscups @uniqueRose1689 @versatilePomegranate60 @WalkingCrow @Xe @YourCaringConfidant
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Personality Disorders Community Check-in: April 29th - May 5th
Personality Disorders Support / by LavenderFlower
Last post
May 7th, 2022
...See more Happy Friday PD Community! I hope everything has been well. May is here, and so is the warm weather that is just starting to creep in! Are you a fan of the warmer months? 🍓What are your plans for this month? 🍓How are you feeling this week? If you would rather keep it short or are not comfortable answering, feel free to talk about whatever is on your mind or just ask for a hug~ Feel free to check out this week's post for DBTuesday [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/DBTuesday_2147/Module4InterpersonalEffectivenessDiscussion2InterpersonalRights_276705/] (Topic: Interpersonal rights) If you would like to know more about upcoming group support discussions and other events, click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/PersonalityDisorderSupportCommunityTeamEvents_432/NavigatingPersonalityDisordersCommunityandEventsMasterThread_254844/] If you have some time, please share your feedback on our subcommunity here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/PersonalityDisorderSupportCommunityTeamEvents_432/ForaThrivingandSupportiveSubcommunity_225340/] If you would like to read the sub-community guidelines, click here [https://www.7cups.com/home/personalitydisorders/?cr=dash#guidelines] If you would like to be added or removed from the taglist, click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/IntroductionsIcebreakers_1356/PersonalityDisordersCommunityTaglist_219585/] @Adeline12345 @ahhhhelpimalive @AlfAndthemachine @alleywood13 @Alwaysinpyjamas @ambitiousVase1322 @amicableDime9946 @AndreaDawn @arbanon @ARC80 @AutumnLauren6 @autumnthemoth @Avocado22 @azuladragon34 @b4Damion @berrymimi @bestcase @caringPerspective41 @CheerySandi @ChristmasGift @crang17 @cyanPlatypus6370 @dagaz13th @DamagedOne13 @dberryy @diamondintheROUGH2022 @DoggoMom @ebonyyyblondie89 @EddaLayla @emerijourney @EmotionalNerd @Everythingisbetterinyourpyjamas @fireyseastar97 @FloweringBunny @forcefulFriend4768 @Goldcherry2113 @GrahZeymahzin @GRAPSPRO2033 @GreenScarab @Hadeel96 @HashiramaNinja @healingHeart1111 @heartycitrus @HopeandFaith @Hyacinth22 @ImaginativePenny152 @imclover @indigoCup1959 @intelligentWheel627 @Irishrose78 @itsmeow @Jasminerice @Jish07541 @JoniGirl @K87 @kindTurtle3738 @LadyNikita @LavenderFlower @Lemino @LightsFromDark @LiliTwolsky @limeRaspberries2286 @lovelyWords13 @LoveTracker @maple23 @MeeshyRB @MelG919 @missg @Mkmultra @munchiegoosie @nervoussmiles @Nubia87 @OneErased @optimisticMagic0014 @OrangePeel24 @Oxymoron6demon @passionateJackfruit5095 @Piggy @placidShade4261 @Pointlesswords @QueenBee03 @QuietMagic @racqueldawn @raininglillies13 @Red789 @RelaxedPanda @RemorseCode2 @Rex0911 @selfdisciplinedBunny232 @ShyCat1678201 @SilverSeastar @spectacularCandy9984 @Stardew3 @Starilus @StrangeKat @sunflower2480 @Tamy4210 @Tatianaalize @toucans @Triscups @uniqueRose1689 @versatilePomegranate60 @WalkingCrow @Xe @YourCaringConfidant
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Personality Disorders Community Check-in: April 15th - April 21st
Personality Disorders Support / by LavenderFlower
Last post
April 24th, 2022
...See more Happy Friday PD Community! Hello everyone, I hope all is well. Today is a new day, and with a new day comes new beginnings, new changes, and new people. It’s time for you to be reborn. Happy Easter! 🥚Which fictional character do you relate to the most and why? 🥚How are you feeling this week? If you would rather keep it short or are not comfortable answering, feel free to talk about whatever is on your mind or just ask for a hug~ Feel free to check out this week's post for DBTuesday [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/DBTuesday_2147/Module3EmotionRegulationDiscussion10CognitiveVulnerability_275705/] (Topic: Cognitive Vulnerability) If you would like to know more about upcoming group support discussions and other events, click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/PersonalityDisorderSupportCommunityTeamEvents_432/NavigatingPersonalityDisordersCommunityandEventsMasterThread_254844/] If you have some time, please share your feedback on our subcommunity here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/PersonalityDisorderSupportCommunityTeamEvents_432/ForaThrivingandSupportiveSubcommunity_225340/] If you would like to read the sub-community guidelines, click here [https://www.7cups.com/home/personalitydisorders/?cr=dash#guidelines] If you would like to be added or removed from the taglist, click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/IntroductionsIcebreakers_1356/PersonalityDisordersCommunityTaglist_219585/] @Adeline12345 @ahhhhelpimalive @AlfAndthemachine @alleywood13 @Alwaysinpyjamas @ambitiousVase1322 @amicableDime9946 @AndreaDawn @arbanon @ARC80 @AutumnLauren6 @autumnthemoth @Avocado22 @azuladragon34 @b4Damion @berrymimi @bestcase @caringPerspective41 @CheerySandi @ChristmasGift @crang17 @cyanPlatypus6370 @dagaz13th @DamagedOne13 @dberryy @diamondintheROUGH2022 @DoggoMom @ebonyyyblondie89 @EddaLayla @emerijourney @EmotionalNerd @Everythingisbetterinyourpyjamas @fireyseastar97 @FloweringBunny @forcefulFriend4768 @Goldcherry2113 @GrahZeymahzin @GRAPSPRO2033 @GreenScarab @Hadeel96 @HashiramaNinja @healingHeart1111 @heartycitrus @HopeandFaith @Hyacinth22 @ImaginativePenny152 @imclover @indigoCup1959 @intelligentWheel627 @Irishrose78 @itsmeow @Jasminerice @Jish07541 @JoniGirl @K87 @kindTurtle3738 @LadyNikita @LavenderFlower @Lemino @LightsFromDark @LiliTwolsky @limeRaspberries2286 @lovelyWords13 @LoveTracker @maple23 @MeeshyRB @MelG919 @missg @Mkmultra @munchiegoosie @nervoussmiles @Nubia87 @OneErased @optimisticMagic0014 @OrangePeel24 @Oxymoron6demon @passionateJackfruit5095 @Piggy @placidShade4261 @Pointlesswords @QueenBee03 @QuietMagic @racqueldawn @raininglillies13 @Red789 @RelaxedPanda @RemorseCode2 @Rex0911 @selfdisciplinedBunny232 @ShyCat1678201 @SilverSeastar @spectacularCandy9984 @Stardew3 @Starilus @StrangeKat @sunflower2480 @Tamy4210 @Tatianaalize @toucans @Triscups @uniqueRose1689 @versatilePomegranate60 @WalkingCrow @Xe @YourCaringConfidant
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Personality Disorders Community Check-in: March 25th - March 31st
Personality Disorders Support / by LavenderFlower
Last post
April 6th, 2022
...See more Happy Friday PD Community! Hello everyone! I hope you all are doing wonderful and that your day is filled with warmth and joy. If it doesn’t feel that way right now, I hope you recognise the strength within you to keep going as you have all these years. 🌻What’s your favourite animal and why? 🌻How are you feeling this week? If you would rather keep it short or are not comfortable answering, feel free to talk about whatever is on your mind or just ask for a hug~ Feel free to check out this week's posts for DBTuesday [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/DBTuesday_2147/Module3EmotionRegulationDiscussion7OppositeAction_274300/] (Topic: Emotion Regulation: Opposite Action) Thoughtful Thursday [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/ThoughtfulThursday_2294/ThoughtfulThursdaySelfCompassion_274442/] (Topic: Self Compassion) If you would like to know more about upcoming group support discussions and other events, click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/PersonalityDisorderSupportCommunityTeamEvents_432/NavigatingPersonalityDisordersCommunityandEventsMasterThread_254844/] If you have some time, please share your feedback on our subcommunity here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/PersonalityDisorderSupportCommunityTeamEvents_432/ForaThrivingandSupportiveSubcommunity_225340/] If you would like to read the sub-community guidelines, click here [https://www.7cups.com/home/personalitydisorders/?cr=dash#guidelines] If you would like to be added or removed from the taglist, click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/IntroductionsIcebreakers_1356/PersonalityDisordersCommunityTaglist_219585/] @Adeline12345 @ahhhhelpimalive @AlfAndthemachine @alleywood13 @Alwaysinpyjamas @ambitiousVase1322 @amicableDime9946 @AndreaDawn @arbanon @ARC80 @AutumnLauren6 @autumnthemoth @Avocado22 @azuladragon34 @b4Damion @berrymimi @bestcase @caringPerspective41 @CheerySandi @ChristmasGift @crang17 @cyanPlatypus6370 @dagaz13th @DamagedOne13 @dberryy @diamondintheROUGH2022 @DoggoMom @ebonyyyblondie89 @EddaLayla @emerijourney @EmotionalNerd @Everythingisbetterinyourpyjamas @fireyseastar97 @FloweringBunny @forcefulFriend4768 @Goldcherry2113 @GrahZeymahzin @GRAPSPRO2033 @GreenScarab @Hadeel96 @HashiramaNinja @healingHeart1111 @heartycitrus @HopeandFaith @Hyacinth22 @ImaginativePenny152 @imclover @indigoCup1959 @intelligentWheel627 @Irishrose78 @itsmeow @Jasminerice @Jish07541 @JoniGirl @K87 @kindTurtle3738 @LadyNikita @LavenderFlower @Lemino @LightsFromDark @LiliTwolsky @limeRaspberries2286 @lovelyWords13 @LoveTracker @maple23 @MeeshyRB @MelG919 @missg @Mkmultra @munchiegoosie @nervoussmiles @Nubia87 @OneErased @optimisticMagic0014 @OrangePeel24 @Oxymoron6demon @passionateJackfruit5095 @Piggy @placidShade4261 @Pointlesswords @QueenBee03 @QuietMagic @racqueldawn @raininglillies13 @Red789 @RelaxedPanda @RemorseCode2 @Rex0911 @selfdisciplinedBunny232 @ShyCat1678201 @spectacularCandy9984 @Stardew3 @Starilus @StrangeKat @sunflower2480 @Tamy4210 @Tatianaalize @toucans @Triscups @uniqueRose1689 @versatilePomegranate60 @WalkingCrow @Xe @YourCaringConfidant
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Personality Disorders Community Check-in: March 11th - March 17th
Personality Disorders Support / by LavenderFlower
Last post
March 22nd, 2022
...See more Happy Friday PD Community! Hey everyone~ I hope you are doing well, but if you aren’t, I just want you to know that this storm will pass. It will pass because of you, your strength, and your determination. You are an amazing human being who has survived through something that was much bigger than you had prepared for, but whether it’s now or in the future, your time will come to reclaim the valleys of your soul once again. Stay strong~ 🌸What is a positive experience you had that had a big impact on your life? 🌸How are you feeling this week? If you would rather keep it short or are not comfortable answering, feel free to talk about whatever is on your mind or just ask for a hug~ Feel free to check out this week's posts for DBTuesday [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/DBTuesday_2147/Module3EmotionRegulationDiscussion5ABCPLEASECopeAheadC_273256/] (Topic: Emotion Regulation: ABC PLEASE - Cope Ahead "C") Thoughtful Thursday [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/ThoughtfulThursday_2294/ThoughtfulThursdayPanicAttacks_273375/] (Topic: Panic attacks) If you would like to know more about upcoming group support discussions and other events, click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/PersonalityDisorderSupportCommunityTeamEvents_432/NavigatingPersonalityDisordersCommunityandEventsMasterThread_254844/] If you have some time, please share your feedback on our subcommunity here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/PersonalityDisorderSupportCommunityTeamEvents_432/ForaThrivingandSupportiveSubcommunity_225340/] If you would like to read the sub-community guidelines, click here [https://www.7cups.com/home/personalitydisorders/?cr=dash#guidelines] If you would like to be added or removed from the taglist, click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/IntroductionsIcebreakers_1356/PersonalityDisordersCommunityTaglist_219585/] @Adeline12345 @ahhhhelpimalive @AlfAndthemachine @alleywood13 @Alwaysinpyjamas @ambitiousVase1322 @amicableDime9946 @AndreaDawn @arbanon @ARC80 @AutumnLauren6 @autumnthemoth @Avocado22 @azuladragon34 @b4Damion @berrymimi @bestcase @caringPerspective41 @CheerySandi @ChristmasGift @crang17 @cyanPlatypus6370 @dagaz13th @DamagedOne13 @dberryy @diamondintheROUGH2022 @DoggoMom @ebonyyyblondie89 @EddaLayla @emerijourney @EmotionalNerd @Everythingisbetterinyourpyjamas @fireyseastar97 @FloweringBunny @forcefulFriend4768 @Goldcherry2113 @GrahZeymahzin @GRAPSPRO2033 @GreenScarab @Hadeel96 @HashiramaNinja @healingHeart1111 @heartycitrus @HopeandFaith @Hyacinth22 @ImaginativePenny152 @imclover @indigoCup1959 @intelligentWheel627 @Irishrose78 @itsmeow @Jasminerice @Jish07541 @JoniGirl @K87 @kindTurtle3738 @LadyNikita @LavenderFlower @Lemino @LightsFromDark @LiliTwolsky @limeRaspberries2286 @lovelyWords13 @LoveTracker @maple23 @MeeshyRB @MelG919 @missg @Mkmultra @munchiegoosie @nervoussmiles @Nubia87 @OneErased @optimisticMagic0014 @OrangePeel24 @Oxymoron6demon @passionateJackfruit5095 @Piggy @placidShade4261 @Pointlesswords @QueenBee03 @QuietMagic @racqueldawn @raininglillies13 @Red789 @RelaxedPanda @RemorseCode2 @Rex0911 @selfdisciplinedBunny232 @ShyCat1678201 @spectacularCandy9984 @Stardew3 @Starilus @StrangeKat @sunflower2480 @Tamy4210 @Tatianaalize @toucans @Triscups @uniqueRose1689 @versatilePomegranate60 @WalkingCrow @Xe @YourCaringConfidant
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Personality Disorders Community Check-in: February 18th - February 24th
Personality Disorders Support / by LavenderFlower
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February 25th, 2022
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