Weekly sharing of Goals! Week #51 2024 (Monday 12/16/24 - Sunday 12/22/24)
I welcome anyone to commit to a goal here today.ย
But importantly, talk about getting it done..... or why it didn't happen yet.
To praise each other for our efforts and wins.
While supporting each other through trials and setbacks.
And to continue trying and not give up.
Remember:ย
Every Goal should be considered "Worthy".
Never belittle your achievements and be proud of yourself for your daily accomplishments!
Whether they be Complex or Simple.
Getting out of bed is a good day..... Good job I say!
Share your goals today, for support and encouragement.
@Apeatrice @decisiveBranch2794 @IchooseLife79 @cloudySummer @mytwistedsoul @KristenHR @Tinywhisper11ย @CyclingThroughLife @Psalm139 @Enthenia @anonyTortoise3336 @spicyavocado3788 @neatBlueberry5213 @AmyK1234 @ivoryLakeuk @MusokeHere @seashell145
And Any Others. If you want to be added to the tag list, let me know. ๐
@IsayUncle It's cold out. I'm ready for spring.
Hope everyone has a good week ๐
@mytwistedsoul stay warmย
@BlueDarkAurora Aww so cute! It looks so little warming it's little hams ๐ย
@BlueDarkAurora awwww that pork is roasting himself๐
@Tinywhisper11 :O :O :O xD
@mytwistedsoul here you go...
@Tinywhisper11 Would you believe it took me a minute to figure this out? ๐ ๐ I swear I'm brain dead some times
@mytwistedsoul
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good thing she didn't show it in a pile of snow, that woulda messed u up good!ย ๐คฃ
@IsayUncle Omg I'd be sitting here scratching my head like a monkey trying to do a math problem ๐
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@mytwistedsoul ๐๐๐๐๐๐
@IsayUncle Hope you're doing well ^-^ย
@BlueDarkAurora
Thanks. evrything's ok... sorry for the ghosting.... just pointedly/focused busy.ย
You all were too funny ๐คฃ๐๐คฃ with your gift giving w/ @tinywhisper11 ! Gif shopping is now on my to-do list. LOL.ย ๐
@IsayUncle haha yeah that was funny all thanks to tiny ^-^ and ghosting is necessary sometimes @_@
@IsayUncle hi uncle John โค hi everyone โค
Guess what!!! Guess what!!!! It's 8 days till xmas ๐๐๐๐๐ my goal for this week is to not open my presents early๐ but they are just sitting there in the table... Looking at me! No no I must be good ๐ค๐ค but then again I'm good at being naughty, so I'm good๐ค๐คnope! I decided I won't open them
@Tinywhisper11 you can always wrap them again? :)))))ย
@BlueDarkAurora don't tempt me!! Unnncccleee johnnn?!? Aurora is tempting me
@Tinywhisper11 xD don't tell on meย
@BlueDarkAurora ๐๐๐๐๐ ok! Uncle John, it wasn't aurora, it was mytwistedsoul๐
@Tinywhisper11
Hi Tiny.... "finger wagging"..... better not.๐
@IsayUncle yes uncle John๐
@IsayUncle gooooood morning uncle John โค good morning everyone โคโค please help me, I'm trying to get into the xmas spirit, but the cork is stuck ๐ 7 dayyyss to go
@Tinywhisper11 that gif is mytwistedsoul. He gets so excited๐
@Tinywhisper11 so excited ๐๐
@mytwistedsoul alright mister. Calm down! Or I'll have to take you in
@Tinywhisper11
@mytwistedsoul well if you can't beat them join them! I'm in ๐ let's go cause some trouble
@Tinywhisper11
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@IsayUncle yaaaay! We can all go around stealing presents๐๐ thanks uncle John๐๐๐๐๐
@Tinywhisper11ย let's do this ๐
@mytwistedsoul ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
Add me to the taglist, please? :)ย
My goal this week is to call the DMV. I've been avoiding this task due to anxiety so I am hoping that by posting my goal here & having accountability, I will cross this off my to-do list soon!ย
@Kaitย
@IsayUncle good merry morning uncle John โค good merry morning everyone โค I thought it would be rudolph me to not stop by and wish you all a merry Christmas๐ so merry Christmas everyone โค I'm just looking for my ice cream, I left it around here somewhere
@Tinywhisper11
@IsayUncle ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฎ but!?!? My!?????๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฎ
@Tinywhisper11 he got you good! ๐๐
@mytwistedsoul heyyyyy! Your supposed to be on my side!!!!!
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@Tinywhisper11
And you have no ice cream ๐ง ๐๐
@mytwistedsoul it's cool, I managed to find some๐๐
@Tinywhisper11 ๐๐ self sufficient for the win!ย
@mytwistedsoul ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ yep! I learnt all my skills from you๐ thankyou โค๐๐๐๐๐๐
@Tinywhisper11 Well done grasshopper! I can teach you no more. You are the sensei now ๐
@mytwistedsoul Thank you master โค๐
@Tinywhisper11 ๐ I could totally see this happening ๐
@mytwistedsoul ๐๐๐๐๐
@IsayUncle good merry morning uncle John โค good merry morning everyone โคย
I justย got a motorbike for my uncle John this xmas ๐๐ I thought it was a good trade๐๐๐๐๐๐
@Tinywhisper11 Hey I wasn't gonna say anything but um idk if that was a good deal. Did you notice he kind of looked like Santa in his picture ๐ณ
@IsayUncle please know I mean absolutely no disrespect when I say that. I'mma be quiet now yeah ๐ฌ ๐
@mytwistedsoul ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ nah! I know who santa is I'm dating him, yep! I know I pulled a cracker there๐
@Tinywhisper11 You're spilling precious resources ๐ณย
So you're like the next best thing to Mrs Claus right? Wait a minute.... Does she know? She's gonna have the elves turn you into a hulahoop. ๐ณ She knows thingsย
@mytwistedsoul it's fine Mrs Claus is bi-polar, i'm South polar, so I'm far away from her๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
@Tinywhisper11 For some reason I have that song Strangers in the night going through my head ๐๐
@mytwistedsoul ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ย
@Tinywhisper11 I hope you have fun with your new playmate.ย ๐๐คฃ๐
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@IsayUncle ๐๐๐๐๐ thanks, I will๐๐๐
@Tinywhisper11
Good morning Tiny, you guys just cheer up my day.๐
@IsayUncle I want to not self-harm. I want to go to my drawing meetup. I want to call my friend.
@determinedSea4370 wait, I thought this thread was about goals. I see, like, no goals?? did I post the wrong thing?
@determinedSea4370 no no, this post is about goals โคโค you posted right โค
@Tinywhisper11 Thank for the clarification. I think I was just a little overwhelmed with all the GIFs lol
@determinedSea4370 Hey Sea :) it's nice to meet you! (points at Tiny) She started it ๐ we're just - idk what are we doing Tiny? Just having some pre- christmas laughs. Holidays can be kind of stressful and depressing for a lot of us
Do you have some coping methods or distractions to help with sh urges?ย
@mytwistedsoul Hi there! Usually, it's just a good idea for me to spend as much time away from my house as possible- I'll make sure to hang out in cafes, libraries, the woods, parks, and neighborhood walking paths. My family is doing nothing for the holidays, so thankfully they don't need me to stay in the house for any reason. Also, at least tonight I am finding obsessively responding to everything on this website is helping me feel like I have a purpose for once lol so that's good too.
@determinedSea4370 You've got some really cool spots to hang out! Libraries are awesome! There's so much to look through :) I love being out in nature. Just taking in the sights and sounds can be so amazing and calming. Do you see wildlife where you go?ย
@mytwistedsoul There's not much wildlife other than the occasional squirrel or bird, but that's ok, because I just like the trees and water anyways. Thank you for filling me in on more of the stuff that is on this website- I haven't had much of a chance to explore yet.ย
@determinedSea4370 Squirrels are entertainment all on their own. They're a trip.ย
You're welcome! It's a lot bigger here than it seems. Tomorrow is the start ofย Cupsmas carnivalย (the blue is clickable) there will be different stuff going on for a few days. And it's a great way to meet people. I'll probably see you around
@determinedSea4370 great goals โค especially the drawing meet up๐ I love doing art and craft โค you can do all theese, we are all here rooting you on โคโค
@Tinywhisper11 Thank you.
@determinedSea4370 Hi Determinedโฆ. Welcome, a little belated for sure and Iโm sorry about that but Iโm really glad to see that the two goofiest gifferโs have been keeping you busy.
I started this thread a couple of years ago and it is absolutely about listing your goals and helping you make it through the day. It helps to have a place to commit for accountability or just list things. It helps to vent when youโre frustrated and get woo-whoโs when you win.
Iโve been missing in action for the past couple of weeks which is unusual but itโs wonderful to see some friends trying to cheer me up with all their goofy gifs. And keeping the thread going in my absence.... thank you, you 2 hero's!ย ๐๐
This thread is absolutely about trying to reach goals but reaching goals is part of living every day and so itโs also about sharing your story and making things happen. It has helped me out a lot in the past couple years, helping me stay focused, not give up, but most of all for being able to be heard when no one hears me.
You mentioned self-harm and your goal not to do it. Do you want to share how you been doing for the past couple of days? Itโs OK if now is not the right time.ย
Youโve already met 2 wonderful friends and amazing people, @mytwistedsoul @Tinywhisper11. There are several more that come and go and we all try to help each other on this thread. We talk to each other and we support each other and I am so happy that you found this thread and you shared your goal. As @mytwistedsoul stated earlier, there are a lot of resources here at 7 cups. Some may suit you and some may not but always remember โTake the best, Leave the restโ.
You might even have other goals that youโd like to talk about.ย ย
You sound like a bit of a wanderer and Iโm really glad you wandered here (big smile on my face) Stay in touch!ย
@IsayUncle Thank you! I do appreciate all this welcoming energy I am getting. I had a rough couple days this week, but I cried a lot instead of doing anything self-destructive and now I'm feeling like I've accepted things a little and moved on a little. I just needed to accept that the past is the past and that people change and now I'm doing a little better.ย
@determinedSea4370
You are very welcome. I'm glad I had a chance to catch up with you before you scurried off. I'm sorry to hear you had a rough couple of days. Crying does help a lot, even if it is filled with sadness.ย
Good job by not doing any self harm. I know you said you're not doing any family holidays at the house but I hope you can enjoy the next few days. Even if we don't celebrate the holidays, i think it's that time of year where we can just shut down and float through it and everything will be OK.
Accepting things a little and moving on a little are little things that have very big results. You be proud of yourself for working through whatever it is, a little bit at a time. (these things are goals too).ย
@IsayUncle good merry morning uncle John โค good merry morning everyone โคโคย
I've just been busy minding my own business ๐ whistling and walking/rolling quietly๐ buttttt! @mytwistedsoul took his lawnmower for a walk earlier๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฎ I saw him๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฎ
gets the hug me jacket ready
@Tinywhisper11
Good morning tiny, glad to hear you're strolling around some. I don't know whyย @mytwistedsoul is still dating the lawn mower. I can imagine the snow blower is getting very jealous.๐คฃ๐๐.
Be careful with those about those jackets that want to hug you. It might hug you too hard and keep you straight.ย ๐คฃ๐
Happy Christmas eve eve eve eve day!ย ๐ ๐๐
@mytwistedsoulย
Good Morning, what are you doing running around the planet with a lawn mower?ย ๐๐คฃ๐๐คฃ
@IsayUncle he's a bit specialย
@Tinywhisper11 A bit? Just a bit? ๐คช
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@IsayUncle well it was bouncing around and I thought a nice walk might calm it down a little
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