Choosing animals over humans
I read something last year, or maybe earlier, that said: 'We never push away pets or animals but only humans when we are very low. The reason is that we feel they won’t judge us or maybe because they feel like a safe place.' To some extent, I feel this reflects the reality of our time.
I don’t personally feel this way, but I understand it. The world may not always seem like a good place—it’s a place where many people appear "bad." Still, I truly believe that nobody is inherently bad. Often, it’s just that people are selfish, or maybe overly selfish, as they try to protect themselves, their interests, or those they care about.
But then, there are people who genuinely care—people who offer their help with good intentions. Isn’t it a bit strange that, in our vulnerability, we often choose animals over humans? I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with that—animals are incredible companions, and I feel that too. But from the perspective of someone who genuinely wants to help, it might sting. They may wonder:Is that animal better than me?
This isn’t about saying one choice is right or wrong; it’s just something I’ve been reflecting on.
@searchingSoul01 I think for a lot of people animals bring comfort. I often prefer the company of animals over people. Animals accept you as you are. With people I feel like I have to pretend that I'm alright. People seem to get tired of dealing with other people who have mental health issues. They just want you to act happy and normal. They don't like if you're depressed or grieving or anxious. Just my experience
@mytwistedsoul Awww, I'm sorry that's been your experience. The people you're around and closest to you should be accepting of you and non-judgemental. You shouldn't have to fake and pretend to be ok or happy. That's got to be exhausting, Twisted. Regardless, I hope you do know there are good people in life who genuinely care. I hope you get more of that in your life, so you feel loved, cared about, valued, and heard. ♡
@YourCaringConfidant Aww thank you so much for your reply! 💜 I hope to find all that too some day.
@searchingSoul01
Thank you for sharing this insight. It was good to read.
@searchingSoul01, this got me thinking, haha. I will be more mindful about this when going through a tough time. The last thing I would want is for someone I love to feel unworthy of my attention.