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Group Support Member Oath
Hey everyone!
As our Group Support rooms continue to grow, it is becoming increasingly important that we work together to ensure these remain a safe and supportive place.
With this in mind, I have created a special oath especially for members who participate in the Group Support rooms.
Today, I would like all of our 7 Cups to chat room users to show their support and commitment to keeping these rooms a wonderful, caring and compassionate space.
Below this post, type out your member oath. You could copy and paste it, but I feel like this takes away from it. Typing it helps you really think through what you are committing to. Next, at the bottom, sign it with your username like this:
Signed: //Heather//
Date: 7/27/2015
NOTE: Eventually, we will be able to give a badge to all those who take this oath. As a special honour, it will show beside your name in the chat rooms to show your commitment to ensuring these rooms are a safe environment. All you need to do is post the oath to ensure you earn it!
I, Holly29, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed Holly29
30/07/2015
I, Dani, pledge,
To be patient with those that I disagree, but to remain civil and assertive in all discussions.
To be straightforward in my interactions -I'll show respect and hope it is returned.
To have read the rules and do to my the best of my ability to abide by them.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are considered safe spaces even it it's not truly always a safe space for everyone -because it only strives to do its best.
To restrain myself from contributing to triggers and making matters worse for others
To follow protocol on self-harm and if others are in danger
To be kind, compassionate, and generous in my interactions
To be accountable to my actions and behavior
To strive to be my best
Signed Dani
7/30/15
I, Star, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed StarFlower
7/30/15
Long live 7 Cups of Tea.
I, lea ann, pledge:
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
I, Shannon, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
I pledge to abide by all rules and be positive not only for myself but for others! Inaivylove
I, SagittarianPanda, pledge...
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
I, Lorena, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behavior, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed Lorena
7/30/15
I, carefulTiger1351, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed carefulTiger1351
7/30/15
http://www.7cups.com/24558125I pledge
to be the best listener I can be.
To help those that seek for me.
To follow all rules while to being a good/helpful citizen.
I pledge to be helpful, respectful, encouraging, and supportive. I pledge to try to step outside of my box and see things from other perspectives. I pledge to bring something valuable to a discussion each time, even if it's just a listening ear. I pledge to be friendly and caring of ALL people. This is my pledge.