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Adult Mix and Match discussions are here!

July 29th, 2019

Hi everyone!

As you may know we have been trialing the Mix and Match discussion format on the teen side. We are now ready to bring this across to the adult side too!

Please read the announcements here and here for more information about this opportunity.

What do we hope to achieve through this?

- Allow more people to get involved and lead discussions.

- Provide better support to teams with no current leaders and ensure members still receive support.

- Raise the quality of the discussions being led.

- Allow discussion leaders the opportunity to lead discussions on the topics of their choice with less limitations.

- Alleviate the pressure on team leaders.

How do I sign up?

Go to the sign up sheet here and follow the instructions!

What do I do if I currently lead weekly sessions?

Look at the lists below and find out if the room you lead sessions in is participating in mix and match.
If so: You will no longer be leading in that room and you should sign up through the mix and match sheet above!
If not: Continue doing what you are doing!

If you would like to continue to be a part of a subcommunity team you are more than welcome to lead open chats and fun events in the room! Mix and match is run independently of subcommunity teams and anyone can join! If you have any questions about your role you are more than welcome to reach out to me or Fluffyunicorns84

Teams participating in mix and match

If you lead discussions for these team you will now be leading in the support sessions room. Only open chats and fun events will be led in these rooms.

Relationship Support

Anxiety Support

Depression Support

Disability

Parenting and Pregnancy

Family and Caregivers

General Support

Autism

Trauma

LGBTQ+

Personality Disorder

Positivity Corner

Student Support

Self Harm Recovery

Eating Disorders Support

Bipolar Support

Teams NOT participating in mix and match

If you lead discussions for these teams please continue to do so. Nothing is changing here.

50+

35+

Events Team / Member Hangout

If you have any questions, feedback or suggestions please dont hesitate to reach out to me. I will be happy to discuss this further. Nothing is set in stone and ideas are welcome!

@fluffyunicorns84 @MrJacob @brilliantTurtle89

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AffyAvo July 30th, 2019

@Lorraine234 What does this mean for the SCs that aren't listed?

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July 30th, 2019

@AffyAvo for now they will contniue to do what they are doing. We have not finialised all teams yet so this list will update as that happens.

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fluffyUnicorns84 July 31st, 2019

All Adult & ATL Chatroom moderators and Room Supporters are now listed for thier badges / mod abilities to be active in the support session room.

Mods: @Ele @DylanxYuzu @WeGotThis211001 @Freedomtochoose @Charmingtime @Twitch98 @Itskara @VinylFly @TooManyFruits @Nothingisforever91 @Ayla @Smileypower @amiablePeace77 @Brilliantturtle89 @SpringWaltz @InternalAcceptance @younity @Midnightraven999 @caringPanda45 @Amy @Suranta @PamHarley003 @RicochetJaguar @Duckswithmoose @Nenz @LavendarFlower @PenguinPower31 @ToxicUnicorn @VickyP @crystalclearnow @SilverWaterfall @sweetnutella @WeedyGarden @Emsworld @BlindGrapefruit @vivespatates @Oceanchild @AnyaS @HereComesTheSun7 @Hoxenos @saranova @SpectrumforHope @Isentropic @rebecca947 @brilliantturtle89 @RumpleSteeleSkin @DanaMH @smileypower @bear228 @LilyBlossom21 @onedirection1213 Rs: @KindBean2002 @MieraCurie @KatRebane @Nada @Sibafo @gentleSun78 @Angelshealtranquilityprevails @sereneSunshine50 @peacefulBubbles40 @junkiesuperstarislistening @Lostsoul0241 @TortueDesBois @lovethelittlethings @snowneonblues4355 @Mamamel @littleAardwolf @Alia3475 @enlightenedTree32 @Babycakes112 @Peter1447 @RandomAccessMemory @Shivam501 @Softhearted975 @delightfulUnicorn38 @Blaise23Vixiana @Kritikaaa @Mountainmystic777 @SoulfullyAButterfly @energeticSail @hofimon @fantasticWatermelon83 @politeUnicorns47

delightfulUnicorn38 July 31st, 2019

@Lorraine234

room supporters allowed to lead discussion with mod but i know it is hard to find one free for 1 hour

so how can we solve that ?

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July 31st, 2019

@delightfulUnicorn38 hey! If you open the sign up sheet linked above their are instructions. Room supporters are allowed to lead discussions without mods but only for mix and match and only in the support session room. they need to PM the Community Mod on duty and let them know a discussion is taking place and ask them to keep an eye. All sessions that are led outside of the support session room will still require a mod to be present. Does that answer your question okay?

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delightfulUnicorn38 August 1st, 2019

@Lorraine234

Nice , thank you

TortueDesBois August 4th, 2019

@Lorraine234
how know who is the mod in duty?
why do they not have access to answers to the form from the chatroom rule #24 *.
why they could not help members using the form wanting leading discussions. lets say priority on emergency form of course, but if there is no emergency, they could just check this form as well and help members wanting leading discussions when there is no emergency. The criterias could be either the badges as before the room supporter role, or better, being a room supporter in the room you want to lead which would make them feel as they are part of a team, have advatages to it, but the most important, complete their quotas on their focus room.
those are popup discussions, so can be 15 or 30 min, but not 1 hour long.

* 24. If youre a member and would like to lead a support room discussion, please submit this form to request help.

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AffyAvo August 5th, 2019

@TortueDesBois There's a link to the schedule in the description in the Safety & Knowledge SC. Maybe linking in the chatroom rules would be a good idea too.

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TortueDesBois August 5th, 2019

@AffyAvo okay, i was not looking in right place then,. but still if we have a form for discussions in the rules, it may be great to make better use of it

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RumpleSteeleSkin July 31st, 2019

@Lorraine234 Yay LoryesBut ummm you forgot mindfulness is not doing adult mix n matchsmiley

amiablePeace77 August 1st, 2019

@Lorraine234

Sounds very interesting, thanks for the information.

MonBon August 1st, 2019

@Lorraine234

Thanks for the update Lorraine!

cyanPlatypus6370 August 8th, 2019

This is confusing!

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August 8th, 2019

@cyanPlatypus6370 All this means for the members is that discussions will be hosted in the Support Session room. If you have any questions you are more than welcome to PM me and I'd be happy to explain

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MistyMagic August 12th, 2019

@Lorraine234

So in theory because the 'Support Session' room is a pop up, when there is a discussion taking place the main topic room could empty out and people have to transfer to the pop up room?

So for example the Anxiety chatroom which is open 24/7 - there is a discussion so the pop up Support Session room opens and everyone in the Anxiety 24/7 chatroom could leave meaning that room would be empty, and they all have to transfer to the Support Session room?

Listening .... One Step At A Time

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August 12th, 2019

@MistyMagic hey! Those that are interested in attending the support session will join the support session room, yes. Those that do not want to participate will stay in the topic based room and have the space to have a more open discussion

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cyanPlatypus6370 August 13th, 2019

@Lorraine234 - Thank you? I do not currently host any discussions but I am a (L) also. Personally, I do not really care *where* the discussion is held as long as all of us (M) and (L) can find it! ~ Platy

P.S. and it is VERY helpful if the Community Calendar is kept up to date! I've had some listeners say well i posted it in the sub-comm or I put it on my page ... one central - here are the announcements about discussions - would be extremely helpful. It is frustrating to carve out an hour or two in my schedule for the day and then get here and find the discussion has been canceled. (Yes, I get that there are emergencies. It would just be nice to know if the discussion is happening or not :\ )

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August 13th, 2019

@cyanPlatypus6370 thats the idea! the calendar has been cleaned up and each specific event will be added so hopefully that will help! Thats for your feedback! Appreciate it

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vivelespatates August 12th, 2019

@Lorraine234 does it mean I'm no longer supposed lead my regular disability support sessions on the disability support room, there where I have my mod privileges?

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vivelespatates August 12th, 2019

@Lorraine234
as i have the requierement to have 3 discussions a month on the disability room but have now to do those in a different room, how will it works for my quotas?
and as I have powers in my rooms only and no privilege in this different room, how it will work on this side too?
Does it mean I will be very limited in topics to those on your sheet, and no longer allowed to go with our regular discussions that we had many choices to pick from, and in a different room?
Does it mean for continuing on disability team, i will have to lead only open chats and fun chats? no more thoughtful and supportive chats? i will have to limit my support sessions on an other room, and then double my tasks as support session leader and moderator for disability, by doing my discussions in a different room and that they dont count in my quotas?

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August 12th, 2019

@vivelespatates the mix and match program is not part of the support teams. Its a separate program and we are aware that people will not be able to volunteer for every role and we do not encourage that. If you are wanting to be apart of the disability team you will host your open chats and community building events in that room. These are discussions guided by the members of the community and allow them to share and reach out as they need to.

The discussions on the sheet will be rotated with new discussions once they have been led.

You are not required to lead in mix and match as it is not compulsory. Please dont feel pressured to take on more than you can do.

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BlindGrapefruit August 16th, 2019

@vivelespatates

My understanding is that some discussions are deemed to be "support sessions," and some are not. The ones that are "support sessions" will go to the other team, but many discussions will stay with Disability Support, and we are allowed to host them and announce them in the Community Calendar. You sessions have a been a CRITICAL part of the team, and we need you! I hope that you will stay and do sessions with approved discussions. I hope that helps.

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AffyAvo August 12th, 2019

What is the criteria for getting existing/new discussions added?

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August 12th, 2019

@AffyAvo Support team mentors are welcome to have new discussions written by their community and submitted. We have 5 per topic available at a time however we will rotate those as they have been hosted.

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