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Number of ratings240 Number of reviews95 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesFrench Listener sinceOct 9, 2015 Last activein last week GenderNon-Binary PathStep 1,312 People helped381 Chats2,678 Group support chats3,343 Listener group chats5,225 Forum posts1,919 Forum upvotes3,936
Bio

Upcoming sessions https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php 
if you need to edit or cancel an event already published, or any other need (repeats, pictures, titles or descriptions, etc) related to community calendar, send me a message. I answer within 24-48 hours.

English will follow, please read the profile before to send a message! (I normally take only French Chats)

FRANCAIS 

Bonjour! Je suis patate! Je suis un écoutant "vérifié" et je suis ici pour vous apporter écoute et support dans les sujets suivants:

- Anxiété, stress, attaques de panique (expérience personnelle)
- Autisme et TSA  (expérience professionnelle)
- Automutilation (expérience personnelle, j'ai complètement arrêté il y a plusieurs années)
- Vivre avec un handicap physique
- problèmes de santé physique (expérience personnelle)
- maladies chroniques et/ou dégénératives (expérience personnelle)
- Intimidation, taxage, discrimination (expérience personnelle et professionnelle)
- Diversité culturelle (expérience personnelle et professionnelle)
- LGBTQA+ (expérience personnelle)
- Gestion des émotions (expérience personnelle)
- Parentalité (expérience professionnelle)
- Gestion du poids, adopter un mode de vie sain. (Je prône l'alimentation intuitive, pas les diètes) (expérience personnelle)
- Victimes d'abus, Victimes de crimes (expérience personnelle)
- Expérience traumatiques, État/Trouble de Stress Post-Traumatique (ESPT/TSPT) (expérience personnelle, je me suis rétablie)
- Travail autonome, lancement d'une entreprise (expérience personnelle)
- Troubles du comportement alimentaire (expérience personnelle, je me suis rétablie)
- Stress financier (expérience personnelle)
- Vie étudiante (expérience personnelle, je suis étudiante)
- Ados vivant en familles d'acceuil/foyer de groupe/centre jeunesse, ou adultes qui y ont vécu enfant (expérience personnelle et professionnelle)

Je NE prend PAS les clavardages sur les sujets suivants:
- Relations 
- Ruptures amoureuses et divorce
- Santé sexuelle et tout ce qui touche la sexualité (excepté les victimes d'abus sexuels qui sont les bienvenues)
- Rencontres (dating)
- Problèmes "de garçon/d'homme ou de fille/femme"


J'accepte les nouveaux membres, adolescents et adultes, tant pour du court terme, long terme et check-ins.

Du au nombre de chats inappropriés, les requêtes hors-ligne ou sans sujet spécifiés ne seront pas répondu. Merci de précisé votre besoin et sujet dans votre premier message.


English

My English is limited to an intermediate level so I usually don't take adult chats in English.

If you have been referred to me by an other listener with my permission, or crossed me from forums or chatrooms, feel free to message and specify! ;) 

Otherwise, I accept teens for English chats on the following topics only: 

- Anxiety, stress (personal experience)
- panic attacks (personal experience, recovered)
- Autism and ASD (working experience)
- Self-harm (personal experience, fully recovered for years)
- Living with a physical disability
- physical health problems  (personal experience)
- chronic and/or degenerative diseases (personal experience)
- Bullying, taxing, discrimination (personal experience)
- Cultural diversity (personal experience + professional experience)
- LGBTQA+ (personal experience)
- Emotional management (personal experience)
- Weight management, adopting a healthy lifestyle. (I advocate intuitive eating, not diets) (personal experience)
- Abuse victims, Crime victims (personal experience)
- Traumatic experiences, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) (personal experience, recovered)
- Self-employment, starting a business (personal experience)
- Eating disorders (personal experience, fully recovered)
- Financial stress (personal experience)
- Student life (personal experience, I'm still a student)
- Parenting and familial (professional experience)
- Foster care (personal experience and professional experience)

If you have been referred to me by an other listener with my permission for a different topic, or crossed me from forums or chatrooms, feel free to message and specify! ;) 

I DO NOT accept chats on the following topics:

- Relationships (including boy/girl friend) - except parent-child or school which are welcome 

- Breakups and divorces
- Sexual health and any other sexual issue (except victims of crime)
- "Boy/man or girl/woman" issues


I accept new members, teens and adults for both short term and long term.


Due to the number of inappropriate chats, offline requests without a specified topic will not be answered.


Mentorat

J'accepte les nouveaux mentorés. 

Projets spécifiques pour lesquels j'offre un plus grand accompagnement, tant aux membres qu'aux écoutants: 
* Group Support Mentor* (Support Team Leader for Healthy Living)  
* Support Room Mentor (in charge of Tockify) 
Ça signifie que je peux vous aider à planifier, organiser et animer des discussions de groupe dans les canaux, joindre une équipe qui anime régulièrement des discussions, ou mettre à jour vos évènements sur notre calendrier communautaire.
(Pour le mentorat réservé aux écoutants, visitez mon profil de mentor)

Healthy Living Team

Are you a member or listener interested in leading healthy living discussions?!  
The healthy living team is recruiting new discussion leaders to help members to develop good healthy habits, get support and motivation, and discuss topics in relation to their health. We have a lot of approved discussions available for you to lead! 
If you are interested, message me in English or French and specify its about HL team or +Click here for more information! 


Twin
My listener twins are @Jenna , @PoliteOcean and @HopieRemi <3


Group Support Mentor in charge of Tockify Calendar. 
If you notice any issue in Tockify Calendar, including using it, creating, editing, canceling or deleting a session or repeated weekly event; or want to inform about events not taking place as planned, you are welcome to message me and I will reply within 24 to 48 hours.
Upcoming sessions https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php 

Help with planning, preparing or discussions. No matter if you are a member or listener, I can help you with that! :) 

For mentoring specific to listeners, visit my mentor bio.

Recent forum posts
Healthy living sessions - week of september 2 to 8
Healthy Living / by vivelespatates
Last post
 September 2nd
...See more Hi, the theme for this week will be SLEEP !  We all know how much sleep is important for all, and the needs and challenges varies in function of stages of live. It's why we adapted two versions of this session.  For Teens:  Monday, sept 2 at 6 pm ET on Sleep in Teenage years  For Adults Tuesday, sept 3 at 6 pm ET on Sleep and aging 
Healthy living sessions - week of August 26 to September 1st
Healthy Living / by vivelespatates
Last post
 August 25th
...See more Teens Monday, August 26 @ 6 pm ET with @vivelespatates on Facing Eating Disorders Friday, August 30 @ 5 pm ET with @vivelespatates on Back To School Healthy Preparation   Adults Monday, August 26 @ 5 pm ET with @vivelespatates on ADHD & Self-care Friday, August 30 @ 6 pm ET with @vivelespatates on Back To School Healthy Preparation Want to host discussions for Healthy Living? Check here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/healthyliving/AnnouncementsIcebreakersFun_2561/LovebeingaleaderindiscussionsHealthyLivingteamrecruit_280892/] 
Discussions schedule - week of August 26 to September 1st
Group Support / by vivelespatates
Last post
 August 27th
...See more Teens Monday, August 26 at 6 pm on Healthy Living room Wednesday, August 28 at 11 pm on Trauma Support room Friday, August 30 at 5 pm on Healthy Living room Adults Monday, August 26 at 10 am on Personality Disorder room Monday, August 26 at 11 am on Trauma Support room Monday, August 26 at 11 am on Peer Support room Monday, August 26 at 3:30 pm on Mindfulness Room  Monday, August 26 at 5 pm on Healthy Living room Tuesday, August 27 at 12 pm on Personality Disorder room Tuesday, August 27 at 3:30 pm on Fifty plus room Tuesday, August 27 at 4 pm on Trauma Support room Wednesday, August 28 at 1 pm on Trauma Support room Wednesday, August 28 at 4 pm on Fifty plus room Thursday, August 29 at 11 am on Personality disorder room Thursday, August 29 at 5 pm on Mindfulness room Friday, August 30 at 5 pm on Fifty plus room Friday, August 30 at 6 pm on Healthy Living room Friday, August 30 at 7 pm on Trauma Support room Sunday, August 25 at 11 am on LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support room Sunday, August 25 at 3 pm on Trauma Support room You want more details on these events? Check our community calendar [https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php]   You want to see your next discussions advertised in this thread? Make sure to submit your events  our community calendar [https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php]    You are a room supporter or mod, want to host discussions but need some guidance to get started or just to try? Send me a message !  You want be noticed in real time on our next events through your google calendar?  Teen Calendar [https://calendar.google.com/calendar/u/0/embed?src=7ab201a4f7cf01fa914416851adb74f069c090ec7a10112d5d0ad4a78f0f219a@group.calendar.google.com&ctz=America/New_York] | Adult Calendar [https://calendar.google.com/calendar/u/0/embed?src=3911ff5f0cedd315aea771738ca84b586c181ff7f896e1ebf57bc53ca80be616@group.calendar.google.com&ctz=America/New_York] Just need to click the + button in corner
Healthy living sessions - week of August 19 to 25
Healthy Living / by vivelespatates
Last post
 August 19th
...See more Teens Monday, August 19 @ 6 pm ET with @vivelespatates on Self-Esteem Issues Adults Monday, August 19 @ 5 pm ET with @vivelespatates on Foods that Fight Anxiety Want to host discussions for Healthy Living? Check here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/healthyliving/AnnouncementsIcebreakersFun_2561/LovebeingaleaderindiscussionsHealthyLivingteamrecruit_280892/] 
Discussions schedule - week of August 19 to 25
Group Support / by vivelespatates
Last post
 August 19th
...See more Teens Monday, August 19 at 6 pm on Healthy Living room Wednesday, August 21 at 11 pm on Trauma Support room Sunday, August 25 at 2 pm on Relationship Support room Adults Monday, August 19 at 9 am on Trauma Support room Monday, August 19 at 10 am on Personality Disorder room Monday, August 19 at 11 am on Trauma Support room Monday, August 19 at 11 am on Peer Support room Monday, August 19 at 3:30 pm on Mindfulness Room  Monday, August 19 at 5 pm on Healthy Living room Tuesday, August 20 at 12 pm on Personality Disorder room Tuesday, August 20 at 3:30 pm on Fifty plus room Tuesday, August 20 at 4 pm on Trauma Support room Wednesday, August 21 at 1 pm on Trauma Support room Wednesday, August 21 at 1 pm on Personality Disorder room Wednesday, August 21 at 4 pm on Fifty plus room Thursday, August 22 at 11 am on Personality disorder room Thursday, August 22 at 5 pm on Mindfulness room Friday, August 23 at 5 pm on Fifty plus room Friday, August 23 at 7 pm on Trauma Support room Sunday, August 25 at 11 am on LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support room Sunday, August 25 at 1 pm on Relationship Support room Sunday, August 25 at 3 pm on Trauma Support room You want more details on these events? Check our community calendar [https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php]   You want to see your next discussions advertised in this thread? Make sure to submit your events  our community calendar [https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php]    You are a room supporter or mod, want to host discussions but need some guidance to get started or just to try? Send me a message !  You want be noticed in real time on our next events through your google calendar?  Teen Calendar [https://calendar.google.com/calendar/u/0/embed?src=7ab201a4f7cf01fa914416851adb74f069c090ec7a10112d5d0ad4a78f0f219a@group.calendar.google.com&ctz=America/New_York] | Adult Calendar [https://calendar.google.com/calendar/u/0/embed?src=3911ff5f0cedd315aea771738ca84b586c181ff7f896e1ebf57bc53ca80be616@group.calendar.google.com&ctz=America/New_York] Just need to click the + button in corner
Healthy living sessions - week of August 12 to 18
Healthy Living / by vivelespatates
Last post
 August 12th
...See more Teens Monday, August 12 @ 6 pm ET with @vivelespatates on Wellness Tips for the School & College Student Adults Monday, August 12 @ 5 pm ET with @vivelespatates on Useless of emotions Want to host discussions for Healthy Living? Check here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/healthyliving/AnnouncementsIcebreakersFun_2561/LovebeingaleaderindiscussionsHealthyLivingteamrecruit_280892/] 
Discussions schedule - week of August 12 to 18
Group Support / by vivelespatates
Last post
 August 17th
...See more Teens Monday, August 12 at 6 pm on Healthy Living room Wednesday, August 14 at 11 pm on Trauma Support room Sunday, August 18 at 2 pm on Relationship Support room Adults Monday, August 12 at 10 am on Personality Disorder room Monday, August 12 at 10 am on Sharing Circle room Monday, August 12 at 11 am on Peer Support room Monday, August 12 at 12 pm on Sharing Circle room Monday, August 12 at 3:30 pm on Mindfulness Room  Monday, August 12 at 5 pm on Healthy Living room Tuesday, August 13 at 12 pm on Personality Disorder room Tuesday, August 13 at 3:30 pm on Fifty plus room Tuesday, August 13 at 4 pm on Trauma Support room Wednesday, August 14 at 10 am on Sharing Circle room Wednesday, August 14 at 1 pm on Personality Disorder room Wednesday, August 14 at 4 pm on Fifty plus room Thursday, August 15 at 5 pm on Mindfulness room Friday, August 16 at 1 pm on Personality disorder room Friday, August 16 at 5 pm on Fifty plus room Friday, August 16 at 7 pm on Trauma Support room Friday, August 16 at 8 pm on Sharing Circle room Sunday, August 18 at 11 am on LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support room Sunday, August 18 at 1 pm on Relationship Support room Sunday, August 18 at 3 pm on Trauma Support room You want more details on these events? Check our community calendar [https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php]   You want to see your next discussions advertised in this thread? Make sure to submit your events  our community calendar [https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php]    You are a room supporter or mod, want to host discussions but need some guidance to get started or just to try? Send me a message !  You want be noticed in real time on our next events through your google calendar?  Teen Calendar [https://calendar.google.com/calendar/u/0/embed?src=7ab201a4f7cf01fa914416851adb74f069c090ec7a10112d5d0ad4a78f0f219a@group.calendar.google.com&ctz=America/New_York] | Adult Calendar [https://calendar.google.com/calendar/u/0/embed?src=3911ff5f0cedd315aea771738ca84b586c181ff7f896e1ebf57bc53ca80be616@group.calendar.google.com&ctz=America/New_York] Just need to click the + button in corner
Healthy living sessions - week of August 5 to 11
Healthy Living / by vivelespatates
Last post
 August 5th
...See more Teens Monday, August 5 @ 6 pm ET with @vivelespatates on Healthy eating is more than the foods you eat Adults Tuesday, August 5 @ 6 pm ET with @vivelespatates on Healthy eating is more than the foods you eat Want to host discussions for Healthy Living? Check here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/healthyliving/AnnouncementsIcebreakersFun_2561/LovebeingaleaderindiscussionsHealthyLivingteamrecruit_280892/] 
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Feedback & Reviews
Loved chatting with them so much they are so understanding and lovely made me feel so safe and comfy ❤️
Patates are amazing. 100 percent recommended. Thank you for your dedication to Cups and for helping others❤️
Love viv so much!! So funny and listens so well, makes me feel liked and belong
They really are very sweet and just someone thats nice to talk through my anxiety and overwhelm
A really amazing listener. They were so kind to me. I really appreciated it. They were patient with me and asked all the right questions. I am grateful for having the chance to talk with them.
Very understanding 😃
Lovely person, although I selected the wrong listener as they do different topics and I’m new here they were very understanding and lovely anyway
A patient and understanding listener. Makes me feel that I’m being understood and cared. Highly recommend.
Gentle and calm
Great listener! Super nice
Amazing mod! One of my favourites!
Very kind, understanding and helpful
They are so good at letting me find the words I need to share supporting me but also letting me discover I can do it on my own too. They are a great combination of teaching me and letting me find answers on my own also. They are perfectly amazingly empathetic , funny and considerate. And always fosters growth in me.
Great listener
Very very understanding and caring
Vive is creative, patient, and helpful. She puts the member first.
i love them really responsive
Kinda, open, and empathetic
I really appreciated that this listener checked on le after two weeks without talking to each other.
I was having a sort of anxiety attack and my listener took the time to listen to me, which helped me calm down.
Super fast replies, helpful, straight to the point
I think this listener was very polite and helpful. I totally recommend this listener to others! :)
Amazing listener, thank you so much
Awesome chat! Vive is amazing~
Really good, very professional and I felt he knew what he was saying. Thanks
Very understanding and compassionate
Patient and wise.
Amazing chat nice person
Good listener. Kind
Bonjour! Merci!
Really helped me when I was having some issues!
The best listener ever ! 💜
Ecoutante d'une grande gentillesse, patience et intelligence émotionnelle. Elle m'a vraiment aidé a m'enlever la pression, tout en validant et affirmant calmement mes besoins. Je suis très reconnaissante pour cette session et je me sens beaucoup plus légère. Merci !!
Vivelespatates is very understanding listener!
Really helpful, Viv made me feel better, they are a great listener and I loved the honesty and kindness they gave me.
I always have great chats with vivelespatates
Les poids ont levé.
Sweeter than molasses
Very active. One of the most quick and active listeners here. Patates is incredible and I felt their presence near me and learnt quite a lot!
Vive helps me with things going on around the site and is super supportive!
Patate has been the most wonderful listener. They helped me feel less lonely and has shown me incredible kindness when they didn't have to. Such a great person.
C’est tres bon, merci
Connais comment aider à les bon mots
Absolutely amazing!
Beaucoup de bienveillance.
Il était gentil et gentil, il était génial! Merci beaucoup.
bon m'a vraiment écouté et ce que j'avais à dire
Very helpful! I really felt listened to, especially since I was just having many bad experiences with listeners! It's a breath of fresh air to have someone like them listen to me!
They are so good! Really understand you and more!
caring professsional listener, great focus in the chat and conversational skills. Vive is amazing!
Vraiment un excellent écouteur qui a des réponses apaisantes!
Très bon écouteur
Le meilleur listener
Thoughtful.
Viv is great
:)
L'écoute et le retour nécessaires, dans une ambiance confortable
merci pour ta presence, ton ecoute et ton support, j'espere parler de nouveau avec toi bientot, tu es genial
toi t'as la patate!
très amical, il sait comment rassuré
The best listener I have connected with. Thank you so much for everything!
merci de ta présence et de ta patience ;)
great
calm et professionnel, il ma vraiment aider a me calmer quand j'etait paniquer
Merci pour ton écoute et ta disponibilité :)
merci de m'avoir écouter
patate était patient, j'avais du mal a m'exprimer et il a prit toute son temps pour me mettre a l'aise, était attentif et ne m'a jamais juger. puis maintenant je me sentir vraiment mieux et j'espere lui reparler bientot
Merci, LW4330
super! thanks
you really helped me a lot. thanks
patate est TROP cool. elle m'a écouté sans me juger et sans me dire ce que je devais faire. elle m'a supporté et approuvé dans mes propres choix. je l'adopte comme listener, elle eset simplement la meilleure!
il est cool, professionnel et compréhensif
patates m'a vraiment aidé à me sentir mieux!
Empathic, and stayed with me the whole time, listened without judgement.
Let me know about the self care guidelines, helpful
il est vraiment sympa. il m'a écouté et compris tout de suite. il est génial. je recommande +++
il est vraiment attentif et attentionné
Merci pour ton temps et ton écoute
patate est un excellent listener!
merci de m'avoir écouter!
on se sens compris et respecté, elle est vraiment génial.
thank you for understanding, not many people can understand me
il est vraiment cool, amical et professionnel. Il a su m'écouter et m'outiller pour que je puisse aller de l'avant. J'espère lui parler de nouveau dans le futur.
Awesome listener!
vraiment top!
c'est un excellent listener
le meilleur listener que j'ai vu sur ce site!
vraiment sympa, sa fais du bien de trouver quelqu'un qui peux me comprendre.
Great listener.
ce fut très agréable de parler avec toi ! et très utile ! merci !
très amical, un excellent listener, il m'a beaucoup aidé
Elle m'écoutait quand j'avais besoin de quelqu'un. C'est un peu effrayant de confié a qui que ce soit, je suis content qu'on a rencontré. Merci.
Il a su me mettre à l'aise et m'a permit d'extérioriser toutes mes émotions sans me juger. Il est vraiment sympa et amical. Je recommande.
je t'adore :D
my favorite listener
Il est vraiment génial !
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