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carefulWest6083 September 15th

If you were given a new life, what would you do differently?

Or would you not change a thing?


Please share.

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charlie1510 September 23rd

@carefulWest6083

I would’ve never compared myself to others, because it is a cycle which is incredibly difficult to get out of.

jovialKitty101 September 24th

I would not change a thing because i needed to go through these experiences to learn and become who i have become now :)

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carefulWest6083 OP September 24th

That's true. Out past experiences teach us a lot. We'd be different and maybe not as experienced without them.

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Owl44 September 24th

I'd change things...because no one, we'll at least not me has done everything right. I'd try again.

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carefulWest6083 OP September 24th

That's an interesting take. I agree, no one has done everything right.

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andrewtan99 September 25th

If was given a new life, I would be smart enough to know what's going on, and I would stay mindful. I would also hang around my friends that support me. :)

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carefulWest6083 OP September 25th

"I would be smart enough to know what's going on".

Well said.

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pumkinspice96 September 25th

Never try alcohol and not have a kid at 17.. my parents kinda pushed us all out at 18. But my siblings were able to work and save for a vehicle. I wasn’t allowed to work because my mom said it messed with her Medicaid so I was close to being 18, scared and didn’t know what steps to take, didn’t have a license or a car or a job, all my siblings had friends but I struggled to keep friends, still do. so I got pregnant to ensure a place to stay and he introduced me to alcohol and I drank to escape.. idk a life outside of being a mom and sitting on the couch watching tv and tbh day to day life is extremely boring.. I tried going on walks but going to the same place or having the energy to want to do anything gets hard..

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carefulWest6083 OP September 26th

I don't know what to say. Your honesty is inspiring. It was a pleasure to read your response. I wish you the best with your child.

I too struggle with people generally and don't have friends and I keep thinking and praying for a child so I don't have to be alone and this is something I say for the very first time in my life. Your honesty inspired me.

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Victorthisguy September 25th

@carefulWest6083 yes I would.pls ask me what.

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carefulWest6083 OP September 26th

Please do tell. What would you do differently?

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lockette September 25th

@carefulWest6083

If I was given a new life, I'd never talk to those people.

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carefulWest6083 OP September 26th

Care to tell us which people?

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Heather413 September 25th

@carefulWest6083

I would change A LOT.

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carefulWest6083 OP September 26th

@Heather413

Care to reveal a bit of the lot?

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mia0davis September 30th

In fact, I don't think I would change much in my life if I had the opportunity. Because I believe that no matter what trials we face in life, they are given to us in order to gain experience and only learn a lesson from it. But of course, there are moments that I would not have missed if I had thought faster. For example, I used to be overweight and I don't understand why I didn't do anything about it earlier. But now I have started to take care of myself. I went in for sports and changed my approach to nutrition. Now I've also started training according to this scheme https://betterme.world/articles/how-to-get-a-slim-thick-body/ and I'm really happy with everything. Our life is given to us once, and I don't think it's worth changing anything radically. But I think it is very important to think about what would be better for us and our health a little more quickly. 

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carefulWest6083 OP September 30th

This was very well said. Thank you for this interesting perspective. I'm glad that you're happy with everything :)

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orangePlum8799 September 30th

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