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😞does anyone else feel like their not accepted for being yourself?

Tinywhisper11 October 26th, 2023
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In the chat rooms where I generally hang out, I've made lots of friends there. But the past couple of weeks, I'm not sure I belong 😞 today someon e got angry at me, someone swore at me, in the last two weeks someone told me my positivity is toxic. I've been told by one member that just because I greeted someone with merry pumpkin month, that my whole past is a lie!😞I can't be anyone other than myself😞 this is the first and only place I've had to socialise.I don't know what I'm doing wrong😢

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou November 4th, 2023
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@Clio9876

Aw hey hey Clio, it's always soo good to see you around. Amazes me how you found this wonderful take-away from what I said, I couldn't have put it more simply lol, you are spot on. Really grateful you find something of value in my posts.🥺 You are amazing the way you are, and you're allowed all the time you need to believe it too!💖

Clio9876 November 6th, 2023
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@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Perfect timing. I was feeling a bit low this morning, following an argument where I felt unaccepted. And this really helped me to pick myself back up. Thank you for being there and being you. 

Sunisshiningandsoareyou November 7th, 2023
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@Clio9876

Aw I'm superrr happy to hear that this helped you feel better and more accepting towards yourself. Sending love your way!

HachiBee October 28th, 2023
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@Tinywhisper11

Hii Lola. I don't know you well, but I've seen you around here in forums and it's such a delight to see your positivity around here.

It's sad to hear some people can be so mean to a great person such as yourself.

I'm really sorry you were treated that way in the chatrooms, especially in a place where you should feel welcomed and accepted.

It's tough when others don't appreciate your positivity and unique way of interacting.

But remember, you're valuable just as you are, and you deserve to be respected and accepted for being yourself. Other's negativity don't define your self-worth.

You have people here who will appreciate and embrace your authenticity here in our little corner of the internet.

Best wishes to you 💜

Tinywhisper11 OP October 28th, 2023
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@HachiBee 🤗❤❤ thankyou ❤❤ gives you a giant tiny hug ❤❤❤ your very sweet

amiableBlackberry92 October 28th, 2023
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@Tinywhisper11

Lola 🤗 hugs for you my friend. You are an amazing person and don't let anyone tell you differently. You just keep being you ❤️ the inspiration that you are. You are respected and loved by so many here. Focus on your biggest supporters! Keep being the bright light that you are in this life. 

You are loved 

ABB 💜💜

Tinywhisper11 OP October 29th, 2023
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@amiableBlackberry92 thanks ABb your always so kind to me ❤❤hugs you ❤

FredJonesSDE October 28th, 2023
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@Tinywhisper11 No, I am Fred Jones and will smite anyone who does not accept me

Tinywhisper11 OP October 29th, 2023
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@FredJonesSDE haha! Fair enough😂😂😂

Tinywhisper11 OP November 5th, 2023
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@Tinygreentreefrog poo heads😂😂😂 and babies in adult meat skins. Haha!😂😂😂😂😂😂 your the best ❤😂😂😂 and I know your right, I try not to let things get to me ❤❤ thank s frog ❤❤

BluePlace4881 November 4th, 2023
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I'm having trouble with my family not accepting me as being trans I dont know what to do and its causing me to have severe depression to the point where I'm starting to consider suicide does anyone have any ideas on what should I do

Tinywhisper11 OP November 5th, 2023
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@BluePlace4881 I'm sorry your having a hard time being accepted😥 it makes you feel so very bad. But we can only be us, and if people don't like it, then they can b@@ger off! Please don't let them ruin your life. You are perfect just the way you are ❤❤ sends love and hugs your way ❤ we are all here for you ❤

BluePlace4881 November 5th, 2023
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Thank you for your love and support to help me get through this

Tinywhisper11 OP November 5th, 2023
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@BluePlace4881 huggs you tightly ❤❤ I hope your ok??

BluePlace4881 November 5th, 2023
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I'm feeling better since I'm getting so much support from the people on this app and from my friends

Tinywhisper11 OP November 5th, 2023
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@BluePlace4881 I'm so glad ❤ just remember if they can't accept you for being you, even if their family, they are not worth listening to, I know it's hard. But you are the most perfect version of you there could ever be ❤❤

BluePlace4881 November 4th, 2023
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@Tinygreentreefrog

Thank you for this advice and for sharing your experience I feel the same way the more feminine things that my family put on me such as dresses or pink things made me feel very bad I've always liked suits more or playing in dirt which I wasnt allowed to do when I was younger since my family believes girls should be proper also I want to transition because the world refuses to listen to women so if I transition maybe I get the world to listen about the problems women go through but this is who I am and I have been talking to my friends so I'm getting support from them even though I'm young I'm old enough to know at least with this that this is who I am 

Some people are just mean, don't listen to them <3

Tinywhisper11 OP May 8th
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@jesusredeemedme2425 hugs you tightly ❤

slowdecline48 May 8th
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If you like, you could always pick up a few snappy comebacks. No doubt there are websites full of 'em, where you can find the ones you like & memorize them. If someone insults you in a chat room you can reply with one, quickly. Some I've used in the past:

  • "p!ss up a rope"
  • "Sit down on this -->🖕🏻 & spin around"
  • "your mother told me that last night"
  • "By the way, you won't recognize her when you get home--I shaved off all her body hair."
  • "Cute. How long did it take you to put that sentence together?"
  • "Coming from you, that's a compliment."
  • "If my dog had a face like yours, I'd shave his butt & train him to walk backwards"
  • "If my dog had a face like yours, I'd shoot him"


(Do not take the above advice seriously...unless you want to &/or find it amusing. Actually, it's probably better to report the person who insulted you)

Tinywhisper11 OP May 8th
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@slowdecline48 you know I'd find theese amusing😂😂😂😂😂 thanks ❤ ❤

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@slowdecline48


How do you come up with this stuff????? XD

slowdecline48 May 10th
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@jesusredeemedme2425 Most of those comments I heard or read somewhere. 😆 You can learn a lot when you live like I have.

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How… how have you lived???? O.O

slowdecline48 May 14th
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😆 Rather adventurously, at times... I also probably spent too much time on the Internet during my mid- to late 20's.

BismaKanwal May 8th
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@Tinywhisper11
I am so sorry you have had to go through so much. sometime people so hurtful words because they are hurting on the inside themselves. while that is no justification for actions, I hope you don't stop spreading positivity around.

Tinywhisper11 OP May 8th
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@BismaKanwal yeah I know everyone has their own issues, and probably say things they don't mean. It just hurts sometimes ❤ but don't worry I'll never stop trying to spread kindness around ❤ thanks for your kind words ❤gives you a giant tiny hug ❤

BismaKanwal May 8th
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@Tinywhisper11 

glad to hear that, gives you a hug in return <3