Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

Curious to know does their exist so much romance in real couple

wittyMap7054 1 day ago

I always felt i haven't had experience much romance in life. 

Sometime I feel i overthink then the reality is different. 

So want to know from other people do romance or intimacy exist early period only or it goes whole time till relationship is there. 

Does it done frequent. 

9
toughTiger6481 1 day ago

@wittyMap7054

 I feel the romance is strong in the beginning of relationship  ... too many people are constantly chasing that and are disappointed when relationships have lull from the romance.   

Many saying things like "they are not texting as fast as they used to"  or "they want to stay home instead of going out all the time "...   I met a person who nailed this by telling me they enjoyed the chase and the getting to know a person but once that is over they are looking for the chase the flirting the romance. 

 In long term...We may see glimpses through out the relationship but it is not real in everyday type things.   As time passes we grow into a deeper relationship you understand that and while we like when moments arise where we have that again ... but know it is the little things. 

1 reply
wittyMap7054 OP 5 hours ago

@toughTiger6481

Deep level of understanding n connection can happen only when both r ready.

I haven't met a guy who want deep connection.

I also want to grow old holding someone hand knowing their mind just by seeing their eyes 

load more
Sweetgirl07 22 hours ago

it depends on the person, i have been dating my s/o for just over a month, we were "talking" for 10.5 weeks before we made it official, though we didnt care, we were a happy couple in every sense except the label, and that was fine with us

We have been friends for 4 years, and i think that plays a part in how we are so attached to each other

Our mutual friends starting dating 2 days after we did, and they are starting to feel the romance fade away

I am not worried about this happening to us, every morning I get to school, and see my darling waiting by the door, in the beanie i made him for his birthday, eyes searching for me, I walk up and see his eyes light up as i come and hug him, I get a hug and kiss to the head and a "Good Morning my little fox, I missed you" (he calls me that cause i sound like a fox when I laugh)

We have already had those deep, personal discussions, we've opened up about our past trauma, discussed our hopes for the future, planned out what we want our lives to look like for the next 6 years

No, we're not in that brand new couple stage anymore, but every time he does something small, like hold my coffee in the morning so i can juggle my bag and stuff to get in line for security at the entrance to my school, bringing me a few dandelions he picked off the side of his driveway, grabbing my hand when i start to itch from anxiety, or just stare at me and tell me im pretty, i fall even more in love with him, and it was this way before we started actually dating

I think part of why we are such a good couple is we spent so long "talking" , and we still havent done anything besides small kisses and cuddles


2 replies
Athena108 22 hours ago

@Sweetgirl07

Wow.

I. Am. So. Single...

But gosh your relationship sounds sooo freaking amazing gurll.

wittyMap7054 OP 5 hours ago

@Sweetgirl07

U r living the actual healthy relationship dear 

This what mostly misses in other life.

 doing each other small gesture 

Appreciating it 

I am happy for you.

I wish I experience one day. 

load more
Wallis 21 hours ago

@wittyMap7054

Hi Map. I share experience with you. Being single is common as having a relationship. It is OK.

1 reply
wittyMap7054 OP 5 hours ago

@Wallis

Hugs.. for telling that.

It tough to accept though. 

load more
theseaandthesand 15 hours ago

The intimate details and experiences of romance in a relationship changes over time. In the beginning, it is all hearts, butterflies and flowers, but as the years go by, it changes I.e. it matures and becomes more familiar. There is a need to recognise that love starts in one format, but the values within the concept also mature and in doing so switch from a focus on what we want to the needs of the couple and may well include sacrifice of our own expectations. If it were not so, then the relationship would seriously suffer. Finally, not everyone is romantically inclined, so we discover alternative qualities that bi d the relationship.

1 reply
wittyMap7054 OP 5 hours ago

@theseaandthesand

Your thoughts make sense.

I made mistake by assuming my ex also would be wishing same romance I wanted. 

Too childish it seems now. 

load more