Curious to know does their exist so much romance in real couple

@wittyMap7054

 I feel the romance is strong in the beginning of relationship  ... too many people are constantly chasing that and are disappointed when relationships have lull from the romance.   

Many saying things like "they are not texting as fast as they used to"  or "they want to stay home instead of going out all the time "...   I met a person who nailed this by telling me they enjoyed the chase and the getting to know a person but once that is over they are looking for the chase the flirting the romance. 

 In long term...We may see glimpses through out the relationship but it is not real in everyday type things.   As time passes we grow into a deeper relationship you understand that and while we like when moments arise where we have that again ... but know it is the little things. 

it depends on the person, i have been dating my s/o for just over a month, we were "talking" for 10.5 weeks before we made it official, though we didnt care, we were a happy couple in every sense except the label, and that was fine with us

We have been friends for 4 years, and i think that plays a part in how we are so attached to each other

Our mutual friends starting dating 2 days after we did, and they are starting to feel the romance fade away

I am not worried about this happening to us, every morning I get to school, and see my darling waiting by the door, in the beanie i made him for his birthday, eyes searching for me, I walk up and see his eyes light up as i come and hug him, I get a hug and kiss to the head and a "Good Morning my little fox, I missed you" (he calls me that cause i sound like a fox when I laugh)

We have already had those deep, personal discussions, we've opened up about our past trauma, discussed our hopes for the future, planned out what we want our lives to look like for the next 6 years

No, we're not in that brand new couple stage anymore, but every time he does something small, like hold my coffee in the morning so i can juggle my bag and stuff to get in line for security at the entrance to my school, bringing me a few dandelions he picked off the side of his driveway, grabbing my hand when i start to itch from anxiety, or just stare at me and tell me im pretty, i fall even more in love with him, and it was this way before we started actually dating

I think part of why we are such a good couple is we spent so long "talking" , and we still havent done anything besides small kisses and cuddles

@wittyMap7054

Hi Map. I share experience with you. Being single is common as having a relationship. It is OK.

The intimate details and experiences of romance in a relationship changes over time. In the beginning, it is all hearts, butterflies and flowers, but as the years go by, it changes I.e. it matures and becomes more familiar. There is a need to recognise that love starts in one format, but the values within the concept also mature and in doing so switch from a focus on what we want to the needs of the couple and may well include sacrifice of our own expectations. If it were not so, then the relationship would seriously suffer. Finally, not everyone is romantically inclined, so we discover alternative qualities that bi d the relationship.