Whats some advice you d give urself if u could go back in time
Could be a letter to ur past self.. could be wt u wish someone would hv told u back then.. smtg u wish other people in similar situations get to know.. here's ur outlet
@flowlikewater07 I would definitely be kinder to myself. My home was a suffocating home with depressed parents, so I never got the care I needed. After some traumatic events, I thought I was the root of the problem and I hated myself. Since I was 9 I have always thought of ending it and now that I look back I am suffering a lot of health problems because of it. If I could meet the old me I'd love him with lots of hugs and kisses because as a child I always wanted to experience what normal kids experienced.
@abhuMax
To the little boy in u,
Hugs (if accepted).. you are loved you are cherished. you deserve care love and protection and happiness.. whatever state ur parents were in was neither ur responsibility nor ur fault.. and it is not right that u had to pay the consequences for it..
With Ice creams and hotwheels,
someone who would have cared for u
Even though no-one notices or validates your efforts pay attention in schoola dn keep trying foe the top, you don't have to know everything or pass every subject, but really try hard in the ones that interest you. Your interests will open doors.
@flowlikewater07
My advice to myself would be :
First , its okay to accept help, don't deny help from healthcare , and search for help as soon as you get issues , waiting will make it worse .
Secondly, be wise , be smart think twice about big choices and life and study hard .
@flowlikewater07 i would tell myself that social validation only takes you so far. You have to live a life that serves you and not just what others expect of you. Boundaries are not bad and the people who respect them are the true genuine people you need
The boy who wasn't willing to give you his all wasn't the one. There will once come someone who loves you just the way you are, and you won't have to question why you are not enough.
Many people told this to me back then, but I just didn't feel like they were right. I wish my past self would have believed it, that it indeed gets better and he wasn't the one, because the one wouldn't be afraid to try with you.
It would honestly be to not get yourself into a relationship with a certain somebody. I mean, some relationships teach you lessons, but this one is too much to deal with. I'm losing myself in it. I know how to get out of it, but it's too hard to do so.
The relationship with yourself is one of the most important in life. Never make someone a priority that makes you an option. Other people's opinions of your life are just that, opinions. Believe in yourself, even when no one else will.
@flowlikewater07
- Read up on autism and how to live without masks.
- Spend less time trying to win at life and more time just enjoying it.
- Doing nothing hurts more than doing badly.
