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Weekly Prompt #41: Are there any underlying beliefs or fears that fuel your anxiety?
by ASilentObserver
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December 12th
...See more Hello all and welcome back to another discussion,  A couple of weeks ago, we discussed what kind of behaviors anxiety has caused you to engage in. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt40Whatkindofbehaviorsdoyouthinkanxietyhascausedyoutoengagein_336332/] Thank you to all who participated and shared your thoughts with us. I appreciate you all. I hope all who may read it find it relatable, too. If anyone hasn't shared them yet, please share them here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt40Whatkindofbehaviorsdoyouthinkanxietyhascausedyoutoengagein_336332/], and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you.  This week's prompt:  Are there any underlying beliefs or fears that fuel your anxiety? There are often underlying beliefs and fears that fuel anxiety and these can be categorized into a few key areas like core beliefs, fears, negative thinking patterns, etc. Let's start to discuss and share these behaviors and I look forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences. Did you join us in the Anxiety Support Chat? It is available every Wednesday for the entire day. [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php]
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Conquering Anxiety: Panic Attacks and How to Tackle Them
by SoulfullyAButterfly
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December 10th
...See more Hey everyone, I’m excited to join the Conquering Anxiety series with a discussion on panic attacks. These attacks can be scary and feel overwhelming, but there are ways to manage them. What is a Panic Attack? A panic attack is a sudden surge of intense fear or discomfort that peaks within minutes. Physical symptoms like shortness of breath, chest tightness, heart palpitations, dizziness, or numbness can accompany it. These symptoms can be really frightening, but it's important to remember that they're not dangerous and will pass. How are Panic Attacks Different from Anxiety? Anxiety is a general feeling of worry or unease, often about future events. Panic attacks, on the other hand, are sudden and intense episodes of fear that come on strong and fast. People with anxiety disorders may experience panic attacks, but not everyone who has a panic attack has an anxiety disorder. Strategies for Managing Panic Attacks In the Moment: * Deep Breathing: Shallow breathing is common during panic attacks, but deep, slow breaths from your belly can help slow your heart rate and calm your body. Try inhaling for 4 seconds, holding for 7 seconds, and exhaling for 8 seconds. * Focus on Your Senses: Ground yourself in the present moment by focusing on what you see, hear, smell, taste, or touch. Notice five blue things in the room, count the sounds you can hear, or sip some cool water and describe the taste. * Positive Self-Talk: Remind yourself that this is a panic attack, it's temporary, and you'll get through it. Some people enjoy writing their own affirmations in advance. * Relaxation Techniques: Progressive muscle relaxation involves tensing and releasing different muscle groups, which can help ease tension. Practicing PMR regularly during calm periods can be very helpful for managing general anxiety and reducing muscle tension. This lower baseline tension can make you less susceptible to panic attacks. It is not recommended that you practice/apply PMR during periods of panic attacks or long-term anxiety as the body is already in a heightened state of arousal/tension during such states. General Strategies: * Learn Your Triggers: Identifying situations or thoughts that trigger your panic attacks can help you avoid them or prepare for them. A panic attack journal can help you look for common patterns that may be triggering. Some common triggers are stressful situations, social situations, or negative thoughts. * Challenge Negative Thoughts: When anxious thoughts arise, challenge them with evidence-based reasoning. For example, if you're worried about passing out in public, remind yourself that panic attacks, while uncomfortable, are not dangerous. Try evaluating the evidence that supports and is against the thoughts you are having. * Seek professional help: A therapist can teach you coping mechanisms and help you understand your anxiety. Actionable Activities: * Create a "Calm Kit": Assemble a collection of items that help you feel grounded and relaxed during a panic attack. This could include calming scents like lavender, a stress ball, pictures of loved ones, or a playlist of soothing music. Having this kit readily available can be a helpful reminder that you have tools to manage your anxiety. * Practice Visualization: Imagine yourself in a calm and peaceful place during times of low anxiety. This can create a mental refuge during a panic attack. * Develop Your Personal Panic Attack Plan: Personalize what you will do during a panic attack according to your needs. Discussion Questions: Members: 1. What are some of your experiences with panic attacks? 2. What coping mechanisms have worked well for you? Listeners: 1. Are there any resources you'd recommend for people who struggle with panic attacks? 2. How can you best support someone who is dealing with a panic attack? Remember, you're not alone in this. There is help available, and you can learn to manage your panic attacks.  This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/] You can join or leave the tag list here. [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4lpVXC3O_M5IFg4EGkFVJ5y3rj9re7Wq4bOhaVIGOvcRpAw/viewform] @exuberantBlackberry9105 @unassumingEyes @WeEarth @CordialDancer @YourCaringConfidant @daydreammemories @yellowPineapple3652 @BaklavaBaby @CalmRosebud @Gettingbettertoday @GregariousSky @mytwistedsoul @sincereZebra2546 @pamharley003 @Sugarapplefairy5 @orangish @NovaIsNB @Blahblah1805 @KateDoskocilova Note: We are looking for people who have worked on their anxiety management (progress counts, it's okay if your anxiety is not all the way managed yet) who are willing to share their experience to help others. Please message @Hope [https://www.7cups.com/@Hope]directly to contribute to a post in the series.
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Reminder✨️🌌
by daydreammemories
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December 4th
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Anxiety Anxiety Anxiety
by charmingButton18
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Monday
...See more Lately as I have started to explore and research more about this condition I have come to know that it's not easy problem to deal with . People suffering from severe anxiety often lead a life in avoidance , they are not sure about what are their choices and may not be able to think through it . We need them to overcome their struggles and sadly we can only be there to support them , to love them and make them our presence fell . anxiety will be difficult. As I am still exploring various aspects of it , I am developing more sympathetical understanding of it . I hope I can be of use to someone in future.
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overthinking
by independentSailboat3979
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December 14th
...See more I have such a problem with overthinking and I'm starting to push everyone away, my best friend of three years stopped talking to me because I still haven't changed and I'm tired of being this way. I'm tired of losing everyone in my life, I'm tired of drinking and smoking myself till I cant I just want a friend I wanna get better and I don't know how to and honestly I don't know if this is the thread for this but there's js so much and I cant even say it all.
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Need a friend!
by MustangGal004
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December 14th
...See more I'm in need of a friend to talk to. Anyone! I think I might be depressed. I know I have been diagnosed with anxity. But I feel like my life have no meaning anymore. Like work is jusy something I have to do now. I no longer enjoy my passion. I used to spend ours washing and cleaning my car. Now I dont even wanna do that! I dont wanna drive anywhere. I just need a friend please 😪😭
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am i in the wrong?
by shadowmoonking
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December 8th
...See more so everyday at home i try to dedicate 15 minutes to myself now and when anyone interrupts it i get really mad and i have stated this to them and they still do it now they dont let me lock my door so i put up a sign and their ignoring that to so i talk to my counselor and they asked what we talked about and im not telling them and they are getting mad who was in the wrong and what should i do?
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Anxiety 101
by wealthMoly
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December 8th
...See more So am in this phase of life....! No jobs, business not doing well. used my emergency fund,  all of it. Almost losing hope and I have an anxiety thinking about not having my three meals, where or when will  I find a job and a way to bounce back. What did you do when you passed through such a phase..*** did you bounce back?? Am not married and don't have kids.
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One thing my anxiety has taught me is.....
by Laura
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December 8th
...See more One thing my anxiety has taught me is.....
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Essays
by GoblinBoyQ
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December 6th
...See more I have a persuasive essay due and It
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Anxiety
by reliableMoon3028
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December 3rd
...See more Hey iam new here i want to overcome anxiety because i can't live normally
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panic attacks
by secretGarden3333
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November 29th
...See more Lately I've been dealing with multiple panic attacks a day. I have a deep fear of dying young and sudden death. It is an anxiety I have dealt with for a few years, but recently after I got laid off for the winter from my job as a horticulturalist, the anxiety and intrusive thoughts have gotten so bad that it's leading to multiple panic attacks a day. They mostly start by me having the instructive thought, then the anxiety symptoms make me think I'm having a heart problem or a stroke (tight chest, palpitations, sweating). Then I eventually call myself down enough to distract myself and it goes away, then the intrusive thoughts eventually come back... The other night the panics got so bad that I had my boyfriend take me to urgent care. They checked everything, and though I had a higher heart rate everything else seemed normal. Just the trauma of acting out that intrusive thought and going to the clinic for that was heavy on me the next day, I was still feeling a heavy chest from all the anxiety. But since I was feeling a heavy chest, I'm anxious about having it, thinking it really is the heart issue and it gets worse and leads into another panic attack. It just seems like a vicious cycle I'm in right now. I just want to be able to enjoy my time off and get things done that I normally can't in the growing season, but the anxiety cripples me. It's affected my GERD and Gastritis as well, causing physical pain on top of the mental. I just want to feel normal. I feel hopeless about feeling better and I just want to feel okay with living. I don't want to be so anxious about dying that I forget to live. Please help
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I don't know why
by reliableCake732
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November 21st
...See more I am 13 years old,and rn I am completely clueless.I am weaker than most of the people of my class.I could not complete my  small assignment even after two months!! I am so slow . I am very bad in physical activities like small exercises and stuffs,I am neither good in studies.I mess up every little things .I think I don't have any talent.I get anxiety and pamic attacks easily.I don't know why this is happening:( People hates me for this.Can y'all please help me to find out why all this things are happening and how to cure it? 💔  Is it any sign of any kind of learning disabilities? It's my heartfelt request to you 🌷💌 Plz support me :(
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I Love My Comfort Zone!
by Mya000
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November 18th
...See more These days, there’s so much emphasis on “leaving your comfort zone” but I want to take a moment to appreciate staying in it! My comfort zone is my sanctuary—a space where I feel secure, connected, and at peace. Here, I can recharge, reflect, and feel truly whole. I’m deeply grateful for this refuge, knowing not everyone has a safe place to return to. Comfort is often seen as something to break out of, but why can’t we simply enjoy it? Feeling at ease in our own lives is a beautiful thing. Choosing comfort doesn’t mean we’re stagnant or afraid of growth, it means we’re honoring our boundaries and respecting what feels right for us. Life is challenging enough without constantly forcing ourselves out of what feels safe and nourishing. Growth can absolutely happen within comfort. We can expand our horizons, set meaningful goals, and discover new things about ourselves—all while staying grounded in what feels like home. We don’t need to shatter our comfort zone to grow, we can gently expand it if it’s not quite big enough for us to feel fully fulfilled in life. So here’s to the power of comfort zones and the beauty of feeling good right where we are ✨
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Anxiety about anxiety
by pizzapozza
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November 12th
...See more I've been literally feeling anxious about anxiety. My stomach wraps in knots and I get so overwhelmed just worrying about feeling this was if that makes sense! Like I get panic attacks because I'm scared of having to deal with anxiety for a long time. I'm scared of it never leaving. And I worry thinking "what if I feel anxious later" which just results in me feeling anxious about that. I'm more scared of feeling anxious than the anxious thoughts themselves. (I'm very sorry, I hope this makes sense.)

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