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Aging Up Support Thread
by Hope
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more Hi everyone! In the past few weeks, the Teen Leadership Team has been brainstorming ways to better support our transitioning teens. In an attempt to provide you with a space where you can get support on transitioning into the adult side we are launching this Teen Transitioning Support Thread. Here is it how it will go: â This is a safe space for all teens who are soon aging up or have recently aged up to share anything that concerns them about the transitioning process, ask questions and get support. â The thread will be monitored by our Teen Transitioning Mentors. Most of our Teen Transitioning Mentors have gone through the aging up process themself and are passionate about supporting our transitioning teens. They will respond to the members posting in this thread. Important! â This is not a place to get support on matters other than aging up as a teen. This is so we can focus our resources on supporting the teens who are going through the transitioning process. If you are looking for support on a personal matter/in need of a listener, please check our browse listener page. [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] *Aging Up: A period when a member/listener who joined 7 Cups as a teenager turns 18 and is moved to the adult side. It is also referred to as the transitioning period. ------------------------- This post is brought to you by the Teen Transitioning Program. Please read about it here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/AgingUpSupportRequestWearehereforyou_216566/].
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Teen Transition FAQs
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 October 22nd
...See more Hello, teen community! We understand that aging up can be overwhelming. That’s why we’ve compiled a list of the top 10 frequently asked questions to help you navigate the transition process smoothly.  1. What changes will occur when I turn 18? Will I still be able to talk to teens? As you turn 18, you will be transitioned to the adult side of the community. The teen side will no longer be accessible to you.  * You will get the following access:  * Access to adult side group chats * If you are a listener, you will be taking 1-1 adult chats to listen and support them.  * If you are a member, adult listeners will take your 1-1 chat request to offer personal support.  * To reconnect with teens to support them, as a listener you can apply to become an Adult-Teen Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/].  2. ATL Application and Roles: How do I apply for ATL? What are the roles and responsibilities? You can read more about the ATL application process here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/].   3. How do I handle transitioning from teen to adult listener? Aging up can be overwhelming. So, transitioning from teen to adult listener can be an additional aspect. Here are a few tips to navigate the aging up process:  * Focus on your priorities and take your time.  * Practice self-care  * Participate in the Listener Support Room to get to know the adult side community. Ask your questions related to listening and mentors & fellow listeners will help you with the best resources and information.  * Request a Transition Mentor to get all support related to your transition on the adult side.  * Focus on taking one chat at a time instead of a bunch of 1-1 chats. Take your time to listen and support them.   * Explore Member group chats. It will help you get a basic understanding of adults' challenges and how they support each other.    4. How do I support adults when I have limited life experience? Very good question! It can be a challenge supporting adults when you have limited life experience. But two things:  * As listeners, our primary role is to provide a safe and supportive space. We avoid giving unsolicited advice, instead focusing on active listening. By listening attentively, showing empathy, and asking open-ended questions, we can help others feel heard and understood. * Suppose you feel you are unable to listen to a specific topic and don’t have enough understanding to support them. In that case, you can let the member know and encourage them to connect with other listeners through the Browse Listeners page.  * Also, you can go to the Listener Support Room to seek ongoing chat support from trained chat supporters. The chat supporters will guide you through listening to the member.  5. Can I still chat with teens after aging up? What are the differences in talking to adults? * As you age up, depending upon the account you have, you may or may not be able to chat with teens.  * If you have a member account, you will not be able to chat with teens.  * If you have a listener account, you will need to become an Adult-Teen Listener to go through the required training to support teens.  * The key difference in talking to adults and teens is their struggles and challenges. The challenges and their thought process tend to vary.        6. How do I handle relationships with existing teen members after aging up? * That's a great question! As you transition to adulthood, you'll gain access to the adult section of the 7Cups community. However, you won't be able to directly support teen members until you complete the training to become an Adult-Teen Listener. In the meantime, you can continue to contribute to the teen forums and offer support to other adult members. * Before you age up, you can let the members know you are about to age up and won’t be available 1-1 to support or listen to them. But they can do two things:  * Connect with other Teen or Adult-Teen Listeners through the Browse Listeners page to get support.  * Participate in forums and tag your username in the format of (@username), so you get notified of the specific thread and you can respond to their posts to support them.  * Create a Check-in thread and tag your members in the Forums to stay connected and check in with them on a monthly, weekly, or daily basis as per your and their availability.   7. How do I deal with anxiety, stress, and other emotional challenges? * Aging up can be daunting and it can cause anxiety, stress, and other emotional challenges along with ongoing challenges and struggles. Before we learn how to tackle it, please remember two points: * Your challenges and struggles are valid and they matter.   * The progress path won’t be linear but your steps will count and accumulate.  * A few approaches that can help you navigate and take care of your emotional well-being are:  * Self-care techniques: Taking steps to practice self-care helps to manage your emotions well. These techniques include mindfulness, healthy eating, sufficient sleep, exercise, hobbies, and relaxation activities but are not limited to them. It can vary from individual and can be more than one or two activities.   * Practicing coping mechanisms like deep breathing exercises, positive affirmations, gratitude journaling, limiting stressors, and problem-solving approaches can help manage stress and care for your emotional well-being.  * Seeking support is a huge one and connecting with support groups, a space to share or vent can be beneficial as you navigate the emotions of aging up.  * Read the self-help guide on Managing Emotions here! [https://www.7cups.com/help-managing-emotions/]  8. What basic life skills should I know, such as cooking, hygiene, and finances? As you transition into adulthood, it is essential to have a solid foundation of life skills. Here are some basic skills to start with: * Cooking: Learn simple recipes like pasta, stir-fries, and sandwiches. This will help you eat healthier and save money. * Finances: Understand basic budgeting, saving, and spending habits. Create a budget to track your income and expenses. * Laundry: Learn how to sort laundry, read care labels, and use a washing machine and dryer. * Cleaning: Know how to clean your living space, including dishes, floors, and bathrooms. Please know these skills take time to develop. Take your time and start with the basics and gradually add more as you feel comfortable. 9. How do I balance college, work, and other responsibilities? Balancing college, work, and other responsibilities can be a challenge, but doable. A few tips to help you manage your time effectively: * Prioritize tasks: Identify what's most important and focus on those first. Use a planner or app to keep track of your assignments, work shifts, and other commitments.    * Create a schedule: Allocate specific time slots for each activity. Be realistic in setting your schedule and ensure you are getting enough rest.    * Time management techniques: Experiment with techniques like the Pomodoro technique to improve focus and productivity.    * Delegate when possible: Please do not be afraid to ask for help or delegate tasks to others if you can. It is okay to ask for help.    * Communicate openly: Talk to your professors, coworkers, and loved ones about your commitments to avoid misunderstandings and find support.  Please know it is okay to adjust your schedule as needed. The key is to find a balance that works for you and helps you achieve your goals. 10. How do I become more responsible, mature, and confident? Becoming more responsible, mature, and confident is a journey, not a destination. A few tips to help you on your way: * Take responsibility for your actions, both good and bad. Identify and learn from your mistakes and strive to do better. * Having clear goals gives you a sense of direction and purpose. Work towards achieving them, no matter how small the steps. Your every step is counting. * Practice self-care by prioritizing your physical and mental health. * Step outside of your comfort zone and try new things. As you challenge yourself, it can help you build confidence and resilience. * Please do not be afraid to ask for help when you need it. Talking to a trusted friend, family member, or mentor can provide much-needed guidance and support. Please know growth takes time, so be patient with yourself and celebrate your progress, no matter how small. Have a question that isn't answered in the FAQs? Let us know in the comments  Or, connect with a Transition Mentor to get the transitioning support. Click here to request!  [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform]
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Become An Adult - Teen Listener (ATL) | Support The Teen Community
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 August 29th
...See more Hi everyone! This post talks about a very important step in a listener’s journey, becoming an adult-teen listener. We were teens once and we know how confusing and challenging teenage life can be. A lot of questions and thoughts in mind, but no idea who to reach out to. But you can be that person to whom they can reach out and feel heard and comforted. You can find all the information you need on the role, requirements, process, benefits, and expectations here. ➡️ What is an Adult -Teen Listener? An Adult- Teen Listener is a trained listener who listens and supports both adult and teen members. Becoming ATL allows one to join the teen side of the 7Cups community and listen to teen members 1-1, participate in teen member group chats to support members there, and participate in teen listener group chats to share experiences, learning, and resources to support teen community better. Commonly known as ATL in the community. ➡️How is it helpful to become an adult-teen listener? * Allows one to support teen members i.e. helping them feel heard, and less stressed and your support efforts contribute to a better support system while they transition to a new phase of life (Adulthood) * Allows an aged-up Teen Listener to reconnect with their teen members to continue listening and supporting them * If interested in leadership opportunities, it allows one to participate and help scale up teen community projects. Important Note: For all of the 18+ listeners who are interested in listening to teens, to work with teens, you must have experience as a listener and meet some general criteria, as outlined below. Additionally, the application process involves a background check and a video call interview on either Skype or Google Hangouts. ➡️ How to apply to become an Adult-Teen Listener? Basic Requirements * Be a Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/GetVerifiedon7Cups_290064/] * Be a listener for at least 3 months * Have at least 100 1-1 Chats * 4+ Star Rating * 6000+ cheers * Completed 20+ training guides [https://www.7cups.com/listener/training.php#training] including AL 1 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1wG5popRr-lrfhUc8AoZh-QTMR5QM0Flp3bJlkVROZr8/viewform] & AL-2 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe2hbLMIdBr16LQ48keucm10K5qjjh9EcgC0PUbn6wnqHiuqg/viewform] * Zero Behavioral Reports In addition to that, a few more criteria * Full legal name * To verify identity, you would need to submit a photo of 1 government ID. (Please send the ID via email to bookworm4@7cups.com) * Successfully complete a video call interview with a community leader * If you reside in the USA, you will need to provide a phone number for safety check purposes. If you do not live in the USA, this is NOT required. ▶️ Click this link to submit the application [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe1KvaFVN_eab9iF6jfAUJN6Nz3tuq9-umbQrtxAsmLl-vXLQ/viewform] ➡️ A few resources that you may find helpful: * FAQs related to Adult-Teen Listener Program [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/FAQsAdultTeenListenerProgram_292998/] * Click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/TeenListenersOnlyClub_98/ATLHowcanyouensurethatyourapplicationgetsprocessedasap_215465/] to see tips for fast application processing! * We understand that the Adult-Teen Role process can be scary for some, but we assure you all of your data is safe with us and it is truly worth it. You can hear from the teens themself here! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerCommunityCenter_38/FriendshipCornerforTeensATL_1809/YoushouldbecomeanAdultTeenListenerbecause_231025/1/#2484138] * If you are already an ATL and feeling confused? Check out this guide. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingupSupport_1766/PresentingAdultTeenStartersGuide_249084/] If you have any questions or concerns, please reach out to @Bookworm4, @Jenna, @Heather225, and @ASilentObserver. We look forward to working with you to bring more support to the teen community. *Post edited by Erica on 04/15/23 for clarity purposes* *Post edited by Jenna on May 20, 2023 to update interview information* *Post edited By Jenna on May 23, 2023 to clarify ID submission*
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Aging Up Support Thread
by Hope
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more Hi everyone! In the past few weeks, the Teen Leadership Team has been brainstorming ways to better support our transitioning teens. In an attempt to provide you with a space where you can get support on transitioning into the adult side we are launching this Teen Transitioning Support Thread. Here is it how it will go: â This is a safe space for all teens who are soon aging up or have recently aged up to share anything that concerns them about the transitioning process, ask questions and get support. â The thread will be monitored by our Teen Transitioning Mentors. Most of our Teen Transitioning Mentors have gone through the aging up process themself and are passionate about supporting our transitioning teens. They will respond to the members posting in this thread. Important! â This is not a place to get support on matters other than aging up as a teen. This is so we can focus our resources on supporting the teens who are going through the transitioning process. If you are looking for support on a personal matter/in need of a listener, please check our browse listener page. [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] *Aging Up: A period when a member/listener who joined 7 Cups as a teenager turns 18 and is moved to the adult side. It is also referred to as the transitioning period. ------------------------- This post is brought to you by the Teen Transitioning Program. Please read about it here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/AgingUpSupportRequestWearehereforyou_216566/].
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Adult-Teen Listener Oath
by ArwaS
Last post
 November 23rd
...See more As an Adult-Teen Listener you become a part of this amazing community, the Teenside is a special place with so many different individuals. if you are an Adult-Teen Listener and would like to make a commitment to the Teenside, write this out below (you can copy and paste it, but that can take away from it) I (username), as an adult teen listener pledge, To understand that the teens in the community are to not be belittled or spoken down too. To support the teen community with the knowledge that I have as well as being open to learn, gain knowledge and skills from the teens. To guide the teens to take on their own initiatives and become their own leaders and not underestimate their potential for growth. To not pressurise the teens into doing anything they do not want to do, including encouraging offsite contact. To not overstep or overshadow the teens when supporting and guiding them, or monopolise within the teen community. To have a duty of care when caring for and supporting the teens in the community, so that I am not pushing boundaries and keeping the teen community safe and supportive. To be mindful of our speech and how it may be perceived, to not patronise or undermine anyone in the community no matter their age. To be responsible and to take accountability for my own actions. *Name* *Date* Please note that this is for Adult-Teen Listeners only, if you are a teen and would like to take an oath there is one here ~ goo.gl/CtBZj1 [https://goo.gl/CtBZj1] ------------------------- This post is brought to you by the Teen Transitioning Program. Please read about it here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/AgingUpSupportRequestWearehereforyou_216566/].
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Happy Birthday NotSeven 🎈🎇✨🎉🎊🎁
by CommunityModAaron
Last post
 November 1st
...See more Hellooo all,  Please join me in wishing a very happy birthdayyyyyyyyyyyyy to Seven. They aged up and moved to adult side of the community.  Let's celebrate their birthday and wish them the best wishes in navigating the new chapter and achieve new milestones, success, and accomplishments. 
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Teen Transition FAQs
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 October 22nd
...See more Hello, teen community! We understand that aging up can be overwhelming. That’s why we’ve compiled a list of the top 10 frequently asked questions to help you navigate the transition process smoothly.  1. What changes will occur when I turn 18? Will I still be able to talk to teens? As you turn 18, you will be transitioned to the adult side of the community. The teen side will no longer be accessible to you.  * You will get the following access:  * Access to adult side group chats * If you are a listener, you will be taking 1-1 adult chats to listen and support them.  * If you are a member, adult listeners will take your 1-1 chat request to offer personal support.  * To reconnect with teens to support them, as a listener you can apply to become an Adult-Teen Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/].  2. ATL Application and Roles: How do I apply for ATL? What are the roles and responsibilities? You can read more about the ATL application process here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/].   3. How do I handle transitioning from teen to adult listener? Aging up can be overwhelming. So, transitioning from teen to adult listener can be an additional aspect. Here are a few tips to navigate the aging up process:  * Focus on your priorities and take your time.  * Practice self-care  * Participate in the Listener Support Room to get to know the adult side community. Ask your questions related to listening and mentors & fellow listeners will help you with the best resources and information.  * Request a Transition Mentor to get all support related to your transition on the adult side.  * Focus on taking one chat at a time instead of a bunch of 1-1 chats. Take your time to listen and support them.   * Explore Member group chats. It will help you get a basic understanding of adults' challenges and how they support each other.    4. How do I support adults when I have limited life experience? Very good question! It can be a challenge supporting adults when you have limited life experience. But two things:  * As listeners, our primary role is to provide a safe and supportive space. We avoid giving unsolicited advice, instead focusing on active listening. By listening attentively, showing empathy, and asking open-ended questions, we can help others feel heard and understood. * Suppose you feel you are unable to listen to a specific topic and don’t have enough understanding to support them. In that case, you can let the member know and encourage them to connect with other listeners through the Browse Listeners page.  * Also, you can go to the Listener Support Room to seek ongoing chat support from trained chat supporters. The chat supporters will guide you through listening to the member.  5. Can I still chat with teens after aging up? What are the differences in talking to adults? * As you age up, depending upon the account you have, you may or may not be able to chat with teens.  * If you have a member account, you will not be able to chat with teens.  * If you have a listener account, you will need to become an Adult-Teen Listener to go through the required training to support teens.  * The key difference in talking to adults and teens is their struggles and challenges. The challenges and their thought process tend to vary.        6. How do I handle relationships with existing teen members after aging up? * That's a great question! As you transition to adulthood, you'll gain access to the adult section of the 7Cups community. However, you won't be able to directly support teen members until you complete the training to become an Adult-Teen Listener. In the meantime, you can continue to contribute to the teen forums and offer support to other adult members. * Before you age up, you can let the members know you are about to age up and won’t be available 1-1 to support or listen to them. But they can do two things:  * Connect with other Teen or Adult-Teen Listeners through the Browse Listeners page to get support.  * Participate in forums and tag your username in the format of (@username), so you get notified of the specific thread and you can respond to their posts to support them.  * Create a Check-in thread and tag your members in the Forums to stay connected and check in with them on a monthly, weekly, or daily basis as per your and their availability.   7. How do I deal with anxiety, stress, and other emotional challenges? * Aging up can be daunting and it can cause anxiety, stress, and other emotional challenges along with ongoing challenges and struggles. Before we learn how to tackle it, please remember two points: * Your challenges and struggles are valid and they matter.   * The progress path won’t be linear but your steps will count and accumulate.  * A few approaches that can help you navigate and take care of your emotional well-being are:  * Self-care techniques: Taking steps to practice self-care helps to manage your emotions well. These techniques include mindfulness, healthy eating, sufficient sleep, exercise, hobbies, and relaxation activities but are not limited to them. It can vary from individual and can be more than one or two activities.   * Practicing coping mechanisms like deep breathing exercises, positive affirmations, gratitude journaling, limiting stressors, and problem-solving approaches can help manage stress and care for your emotional well-being.  * Seeking support is a huge one and connecting with support groups, a space to share or vent can be beneficial as you navigate the emotions of aging up.  * Read the self-help guide on Managing Emotions here! [https://www.7cups.com/help-managing-emotions/]  8. What basic life skills should I know, such as cooking, hygiene, and finances? As you transition into adulthood, it is essential to have a solid foundation of life skills. Here are some basic skills to start with: * Cooking: Learn simple recipes like pasta, stir-fries, and sandwiches. This will help you eat healthier and save money. * Finances: Understand basic budgeting, saving, and spending habits. Create a budget to track your income and expenses. * Laundry: Learn how to sort laundry, read care labels, and use a washing machine and dryer. * Cleaning: Know how to clean your living space, including dishes, floors, and bathrooms. Please know these skills take time to develop. Take your time and start with the basics and gradually add more as you feel comfortable. 9. How do I balance college, work, and other responsibilities? Balancing college, work, and other responsibilities can be a challenge, but doable. A few tips to help you manage your time effectively: * Prioritize tasks: Identify what's most important and focus on those first. Use a planner or app to keep track of your assignments, work shifts, and other commitments.    * Create a schedule: Allocate specific time slots for each activity. Be realistic in setting your schedule and ensure you are getting enough rest.    * Time management techniques: Experiment with techniques like the Pomodoro technique to improve focus and productivity.    * Delegate when possible: Please do not be afraid to ask for help or delegate tasks to others if you can. It is okay to ask for help.    * Communicate openly: Talk to your professors, coworkers, and loved ones about your commitments to avoid misunderstandings and find support.  Please know it is okay to adjust your schedule as needed. The key is to find a balance that works for you and helps you achieve your goals. 10. How do I become more responsible, mature, and confident? Becoming more responsible, mature, and confident is a journey, not a destination. A few tips to help you on your way: * Take responsibility for your actions, both good and bad. Identify and learn from your mistakes and strive to do better. * Having clear goals gives you a sense of direction and purpose. Work towards achieving them, no matter how small the steps. Your every step is counting. * Practice self-care by prioritizing your physical and mental health. * Step outside of your comfort zone and try new things. As you challenge yourself, it can help you build confidence and resilience. * Please do not be afraid to ask for help when you need it. Talking to a trusted friend, family member, or mentor can provide much-needed guidance and support. Please know growth takes time, so be patient with yourself and celebrate your progress, no matter how small. Have a question that isn't answered in the FAQs? Let us know in the comments  Or, connect with a Transition Mentor to get the transitioning support. Click here to request!  [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform]
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Transition Support Prompt #1: What are your biggest fears and concerns about transitioning from being a teenager to an adult?
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 October 21st
...See more Hello everyone and I hope you are all having a bit easier week. How are you all feeling? I am starting the Prompt Series with the goal can share our transitioning thoughts & challenges and supporting each other by responding to the comments and thoughts in this thread. Today's prompt is: What are your biggest fears and concerns about transitioning from being a teenager to an adult? I know how transitioning can be worrisome and draining for one's well-being. But please know you are not alone and you have all of us here to listen to and support. Take a moment to share your thoughts and discuss with or support others as well. Also, you can request a Transitioning Mentor to support and guide you as well! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] -------------------------
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You can
by amicableox0685
Last post
 September 7th
...See more I'm in my last year of my thirties. Next year I'll be forty. At any age you can change. Just look in the opposite direction.
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Become An Adult - Teen Listener (ATL) | Support The Teen Community
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 August 29th
...See more Hi everyone! This post talks about a very important step in a listener’s journey, becoming an adult-teen listener. We were teens once and we know how confusing and challenging teenage life can be. A lot of questions and thoughts in mind, but no idea who to reach out to. But you can be that person to whom they can reach out and feel heard and comforted. You can find all the information you need on the role, requirements, process, benefits, and expectations here. ➡️ What is an Adult -Teen Listener? An Adult- Teen Listener is a trained listener who listens and supports both adult and teen members. Becoming ATL allows one to join the teen side of the 7Cups community and listen to teen members 1-1, participate in teen member group chats to support members there, and participate in teen listener group chats to share experiences, learning, and resources to support teen community better. Commonly known as ATL in the community. ➡️How is it helpful to become an adult-teen listener? * Allows one to support teen members i.e. helping them feel heard, and less stressed and your support efforts contribute to a better support system while they transition to a new phase of life (Adulthood) * Allows an aged-up Teen Listener to reconnect with their teen members to continue listening and supporting them * If interested in leadership opportunities, it allows one to participate and help scale up teen community projects. Important Note: For all of the 18+ listeners who are interested in listening to teens, to work with teens, you must have experience as a listener and meet some general criteria, as outlined below. Additionally, the application process involves a background check and a video call interview on either Skype or Google Hangouts. ➡️ How to apply to become an Adult-Teen Listener? Basic Requirements * Be a Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/GetVerifiedon7Cups_290064/] * Be a listener for at least 3 months * Have at least 100 1-1 Chats * 4+ Star Rating * 6000+ cheers * Completed 20+ training guides [https://www.7cups.com/listener/training.php#training] including AL 1 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1wG5popRr-lrfhUc8AoZh-QTMR5QM0Flp3bJlkVROZr8/viewform] & AL-2 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe2hbLMIdBr16LQ48keucm10K5qjjh9EcgC0PUbn6wnqHiuqg/viewform] * Zero Behavioral Reports In addition to that, a few more criteria * Full legal name * To verify identity, you would need to submit a photo of 1 government ID. (Please send the ID via email to bookworm4@7cups.com) * Successfully complete a video call interview with a community leader * If you reside in the USA, you will need to provide a phone number for safety check purposes. If you do not live in the USA, this is NOT required. ▶️ Click this link to submit the application [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe1KvaFVN_eab9iF6jfAUJN6Nz3tuq9-umbQrtxAsmLl-vXLQ/viewform] ➡️ A few resources that you may find helpful: * FAQs related to Adult-Teen Listener Program [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/FAQsAdultTeenListenerProgram_292998/] * Click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/TeenListenersOnlyClub_98/ATLHowcanyouensurethatyourapplicationgetsprocessedasap_215465/] to see tips for fast application processing! * We understand that the Adult-Teen Role process can be scary for some, but we assure you all of your data is safe with us and it is truly worth it. You can hear from the teens themself here! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerCommunityCenter_38/FriendshipCornerforTeensATL_1809/YoushouldbecomeanAdultTeenListenerbecause_231025/1/#2484138] * If you are already an ATL and feeling confused? Check out this guide. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingupSupport_1766/PresentingAdultTeenStartersGuide_249084/] If you have any questions or concerns, please reach out to @Bookworm4, @Jenna, @Heather225, and @ASilentObserver. We look forward to working with you to bring more support to the teen community. *Post edited by Erica on 04/15/23 for clarity purposes* *Post edited by Jenna on May 20, 2023 to update interview information* *Post edited By Jenna on May 23, 2023 to clarify ID submission*
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Recently badged ATL
by wishfulWillow6962
Last post
 July 27th
...See more Hi all, I’m not sure if this is totally allowed here so I apologise if not. I got badged as an ATL earlier today but after looking forward to getting back to the teen community after a month, it wasn’t quite as I expected. So many people that I grew to know and recognise in the community particularly in TL, I found haven’t been around and lots of new listeners instead (which is great I just didn’t expect to feel like I’m completely new there again). I just don’t really know where I fit in at the moment, I’m still getting to know the adult community but now don’t feel at home in Teenie Land either. I’ve been approved as a Listener host recently as well but don’t even know where I would prefer to host for my first time. Any tips or help would be appreciated, and/or it would be nice to hear how people have got through this if anyone else has experienced this.
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Is what I want in life wrong?
by EmmyMarie06
Last post
 July 27th
...See more I'm 17. going to be 18 in a little under 7 months (September 30!!!). I am SO EXCITED to be 18. I will be 18 through the majority of my senior year of high school. all my life starting from age 7 I thought I wanted to be a nurse. my dad has always been in and out of hospitals bc of a terminal illness, and I remember just wanting to help him yk? I find it fascinating.  but just this year I took a class and very quickly realized that nursing is NOT the path I want to take for a lot of reasons. to sum it up I realized what a load it is just to be a nurse. My mom worries about my future. she pushes me to have a career plan all set up and set in stone. its stressful to appease my mom because for months I had no idea what I wanted to be. I still don't have a full plan and its scars me because I'm going to be out of high school sooner than it feels like I will be. not too long ago, about 2 months ago I decided to try for the career of being a police dog trainer. I know that I belong in an active or creative career, and preferably one centered around animals - or dogs (my favorite animal - there are dog trainer schools ive look into, but my mom still isn't satisfied.  "how are you going to pay for the school?" "you need to get a trade since your so against college, not this" "what are you going to do? how will you pay rent?" "you need a real career" "you should go on a mission to figure your life out (Mormon mission" (even though I'm probably leaving that church for personal reasons, but she doesn't know that yet)  those are the main points my mom tells me day after day each week and I'm just sick of it. I'm only against college because I don't have the money to pay for it. I know there are student loans and all that but I still have nothing. my parents didn't create a college fund for me because we've been poor my whole life. it doesn't help that my dad wont let me get a real job. I'm hoping he might this summer though. I'm going to get one after I'm 18 during senior year too.  for a long time I actually wanted to be a singer. I love the creativity and honestly singing speaks to my soul. but because "I didn't ask for it from a younge age" I apparently cant do it now because catching up would be impossible. I understand that there's a lot of stuff I don't know because I didn't know I loved to sing when I was 5 years old. my family also would never have had the money to put me in lessons anyway.  I made the mistake of telling my mom that I wanted to sing. she got mad at me and for 3 days straight told me that it would be stupid to sing. pointless. no one would want to hear me sing. it would do me nothing. so I gave up on that dream I guess.  I've also thought about going to college for social work, teacher, therapist or journalism. but I haven't had much experience in any of those fields except indirectly with therapist, which could tie into social work. I mean I've done some journalism, and I write well when I actually try....I also have always envisioned myself as a teacher? idk. just the money part stresses me out.  I hope to move out as soon as high school is over. I cant stand it in my home anymore. I have a long distance boyfriend who lives in Pennsylvania. I haven't told my parents about my bf yet...but I hope to move out to PA soon after high schools over. it would be relatively easy to move up there, and on top of that I have a support system up there too. My bf's family loves me, him and his mom especially. they want me up there, so they would help pay for it. helps that they are loaded with money too. I just want to pay for at least half, cause I don't want to take advantage of their money yk? I feel so safe, and happy when I'm with him. we have a life together planned out and I really hope to make it a reality. honestly (this isn't the teenage girl talking) I think that we have a fair shot together too.  I know my parents aren't gonna be happy when I leave. I know as an 18 year old they cant stop me, but it still helps to have support from family yk? its gonna hurt if they don't support it.  on my birthday my bf is planning on flying down here (in Utah) to be with me when I turn 18, and its gonna take a lot of explaining to tell my parents that. he also hopes to come to my senior prom too, which would be 8 months after. then when summer break starts either I continue saving up to move out there or I visit him. idk yet. probably save. definitely visit him when he turns 19 that summer though. (he turns 18 this June)  I don't know why I'm writing all this. I just want to know if my life "plan" is good or not. ik that not everything is set in stone. ik that there's always that chance that my bf and I wont work out. ik there's that chance that a career wont work out. am I justified to try though? I wont ever give up on my bf, but for the career part should I just drop it and make my mom shut up? or just try. and see where it goes. I tell my mom that I at least want to try. just see where it goes. but she gets mad and says that its not good enough. ik that shes just concerned for my future, and as her oldest child its also a first for her. hard on her too that I'm growing up. but why does she need to keep pushing me towards perfection?
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Senior High schooler stress
by convivialVillage7837
Last post
 July 27th
...See more Its hard to know what to focus on. Im a senior in high school so i have college apps but then i still have my classes and clubs in school. So i need to do homework but then i have an anxiety attack or feel suicidal and cant do it that night. Its hard to balence all these things.
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I need a long term listener to help cope with my bullying trauma issue
by Eitas
Last post
 July 21st
...See more Hi, i had posted in this group about my trauma before and i honestly need someone to talk to and on my side because i desperately need it.  An ATP listener please, if possible because i am about to become a young adult soon and i prefer adults' wisdom. I had a toxic listener before so i hope i won't meet that kind of listener. To the ATP listeners, please look at my previous post on my profile to see whether you can help or not if you decide to help me. Many thanks!
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It's not to late to care for your Mental Health.
by caringBerry61
Last post
 July 17th
...See more Here's a concise list of common ways to maintain mental health in old age: My personal tip: read read read and read. Books, essays, romance, not gossip magazines! 1. Regular physical exercise 2. Cognitive stimulation (puzzles, reading, learning new skills) 3. Social engagement and maintaining relationships 4. Healthy diet rich in nutrients 5. Adequate sleep 6. Stress management techniques (meditation, mindfulness) 7. Regular medical check-ups 8. Engaging in hobbies and meaningful activities 9. Volunteering or community involvement 10. Maintaining a positive outlook And read again! Even better: find a subject you'd like to study.
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