You had me at trigger warning…
I’m really sorry if this triggers anyone but I’m sitting here alone with my boyfriend and his son upstairs before 6:30am and I just got high. I had made it all week without it (meth) and then my friend called and asked me to come by and we got high together yesterday and he gave me some to keep me going. Every time I get it in my head I’m going to just walk away from it I don’t. I get through the worst of the withdrawal (though tbh I haven’t been smoking it daily for months now) I end up in a situation where I don’t say no. I realize that I’m putting everything I love at risk. Everything I’ve worked for for 10 long months and I know that I can lose everything, and I literally mean everything but I can’t seem to walk away from it all completely. Rehab or even a sober living community aren’t options because I can’t afford either nor can i just walk away from my beloved little family. I’ve already lost the honor and respect and love from my own adult children and it’s a daily struggle not to smoke daily but here I be, using again and ashamed. Very ashamed. It’s not even like I really get high, I never have. My effed off brain wants to use meth to focus and get the brain behaving better than without. I can’t wait for my psych evaluation next week for ADHD.
it’s almost my birthday and I’m gonna quit for real. I’m gonna walk away from the people who are “helping” me continue to use and keep myself with the people who are sober. It’s not gonna be fun but I’ve done it before I can do it again. I have to. Or I’ll lose everything. My home, my love, my bonus kids, my actual kids, everything. I won’t even have a car to live in if anyone else finds me using. I’m scared but resolute. I’m not even sure why I’m doing this now except I wanted to wake up.
I’m not sure exactly if I’m looking for advice or just needed to get this off my chest but thank you in advance for any support or advice. 🥺
@versatilecat1977 I think you need to walk away from the people who provide you with it. Because that's not really a friend is it? The fact that you can go days without says you're strong enough to give it up completely but it'll be hard I'm sure. I think a lot of people relapse with just about any bad habits or addiction they're fighting with
Oooooooojh. The steps. Been there done that. I’m not a fan. I’m a godless heathen who has a tendency of being brutally honest and I have to stay sober not be triggered by every story and every meeting just going over and over what it’s like being high and how miserable I am without it. So I appreciate you but no. I finished my semteps long ago when I quit pain meds and I hated everything about it. It’s just too much like going to a church event and being a godless heathen is much more fun than being a Christian in my opinion.
I have walked away from my only friends now. It’s just me and my boyfriend. I’m still going to go get Hugh shortly but once it’s gone it’s gone. Funny how thing go sometimes… One of the friends decided that he would try to kiss me so I punched him and told him that he had crossed a hard line and that he knew that I would punch him bc and if he didn’t then he’s never been a friend of any sort. Do that was easy.
i know I cannot change my kids minds if they’re not willing to be open minded and around me. So I’ll quit tomorrow or Friday and I’ll be rough for a couple days but I always get through. I don’t want to quit if I’m brutally honest but I know that’s the addiction monster talking. He lies just as my anxiety does. I’m working on finding a therapist that takes my insurance and whatnot and I have a full psych evaluation in a week. They’re looking for ADHD and to see what else is squishing about in my noggin. I’m hopeful that this will b allow me to actually learn how to make this executive dysfunction a superpower not a liability. I’m really trying to avoid more pills but I don’t think I can do that yet. Maybe never.
I’m very lackadaisical today and I’ve been obsessively trying to write a letter for each of my kids but it’s hard not to get upset about everything. So I’ll go watch some tv and crochet and see how I feel later.
@versatilecat1977 That makes a lot of sense. It would be hard to go there and constantly talk about the thing you're trying to avoid. I guess that they would have god a part of it like they do AA. I guess it's supposed to provide people with some kind of comfort and strength - idk I'm not religious either. To much hypocrisy in religion for my taste. It's a battle knowing you should quit something but that something helps you cope with the world
I had my psych evaluation yesterday and he said I definitely have ADHD and definitely don’t have bipolar. Maybe OCD but everything he sees as a potential OCD symptom can be ADHD. He thinks I probably was on the mild side of ADHD when I was younger but that my TBI caused it to get worse as time goes on and we’re treating bipolar for 20 years. I’ll be 47 Monday.
I’m struggling really badly knowing this. Misdiagnosed by everyone else. I’ve never had a 4+ day manic episode. At most 2 days of something kinda resembling mania. No wonder I’ve been missing something in my entire being. The correct knowledge and understanding of what’s my major malfunction and now I need to figure out me with a different superpower. This is like Superman finding out that green kryptonite really doesn’t do anything to him, it was all placebo.
idk I’m struggling with everything right now and it’s just hard today. To do anything. It took motivation and effort just to do this reply because I’m just not good today. And yeah I’m kinda scared that putting me on ADHD medication might not be good but I have to try and know. If I reach for my meth pipe not because I’m addicted but because I’m self medicating literally. It doesn’t matter. I don’t need it. I can ask for a sooner appointment than the end of the month with my psych nurse.
@versatilecat1977 It would be hard finding that out. And to know now that for 20 years you've been treating something you don't even have. What repercussions might that misdiagnosis have caused?
And I’m 3 days sober. It’s supposed to be out of my system now. It’s Friday. I’m still trying to figure out what’s gonna happen with these meds for the bipolar disorder that I don’t have so I don’t need but I know better than to just up and quit anything. I’ll connect with them Monday. I’m not feeling bad or good. I’m very meh. 🫤 But I have my cat stretching out down on the foot of the bed and that’s ok.
Thanks so much. I don’t feel pressured or obligated to respond. I’m enjoying our conversation. It helps to know I’m not just being overly dramatic. I feel overwhelmed but I’m trying my best to keep it together so that we can get through tomorrow, which is a big deal. My birthday party and the only people coming are my boyfriend, his 2 kids and myself and going to my parents house. My 2 adult kids have refused to attend, my brother has blocked me on everything, no reason given, and I’m doing my best to relax and just take it easy as I know this much stress can trigger a bad fibromyalgia flare or a migraine.
I’ve been reading a fascinating book and I have no idea what to do for dinner so I’m just gonna let my boyfriend decide. I tidied up the living room in anticipation of our new living room rug being delivered today and I’m still waiting for the thing to arrive but I’m excited about it. Hopefully it’s nice like it looks in the pictures and the reviews were good. 🤞🏻 So a little bit of light in the tunnel. It’s been a long week and it’s not over yet. Tomorrow will be interesting but whatever happens hopefully my parents don’t get too excited and overreact. They’re pretty laid back but they do have boundaries and once you cross them they don’t want you around. My boyfriend and his kids are my family. They adopted me and convinced me that I had finally found home. I live with my boyfriend and his son. His daughter is 26. I’m turning 47 on Monday. I don’t want to get older! Waaah 😭
@versatilecat1977 Congratulations on those three days of sobriety! I think that's great! One day and moment at a time
The party went ok. I wasn’t feeling great so I was off and on edge. Everyone noticed it partly because I was triggered by everything at my parents house and partly because I’m me. It’s Wednesday. Still sober though struggling. I’m craving it really badly right now and I’m gonna do some laundry and hopefully distract myself. Folding and hanging clothes is somewhat soothing to this poor bruised soul.
How are you doing? How has your week been going?
@versatilecat1977 It's hard to be in a house that holds a lot of triggers. I can't imagine ever being in my childhood home - just the thought alone makes me feel sick
I’m really sorry you’re having depression. I know what a drag it can be. I know how hard it can be to get out of bed and go do *** that just doesn’t feel fulfilling or rewarding or whatever. When everything seems like you’re doing it right for the wrong reasons or just struggling with life. I get it. Been there. Am there to a degree. I’m unhappy with some things in my relationship with my boyfriend but hopefully we can get past my relapse and even have a relationship.
Yeah it’s a *** day. The man went to the office but didn’t wake up the boyo so we were late to his day camp and then we forgot his lunch so I had to rush home to make his lunch and hurry back there to get it to him. It’s not far but it’s all side streets so it’s slow. I was a race car driver in another life. I hate going slow. then I had planned stuff with my alone time like finishing my book and getting some work done- I have a small business selling cool stuff on Mercari. It’s a buying and selling app. Not as commercial as eBay or as refined as Etsy. lol
Inst I ended up on the phone most of that time and then got caught up in by a task and was late to pick him up because my alarm didn’t go off to remind me what time it was. Do he’s doubly mad at me now, the boyo is. I’m making him put his laundry away and pickup the dirty laundry and put it in the basket.
Now The Man was at the office but he decided if another guy could just decide he was bored and wanted to work from home so could my man. So now he’s home.
i relapsed again. I used for a few days and tonight I’m telling the man. Not now while he’s in work mode but after dinner and after he’s had some time to decompress. Maybe. Tomorrow at the latest. I’m cognizant of the fact that he didn’t sleep last night more than 2 hours. So if he doesn’t feel good the last thing I’m gonna do is frag everything up and potentially *** him off even more when I could wait until he’s had some sleep and then we talk. Idk. I’m in a scared bad place and I got rid of everything that I had and the paraphernalia and flushed the last of it.
I put them at risk by exposing them even a little bit because I didn’t stop and think. I didn’t think about the fact that his ex could be back in town and she does shif like randomly calling the cops on him for delusional reasons. She’s literally a fully delusional paranoid schizophrenic who has been living in her own way for far too long. She’s dangerous and she’s crazy. But if she had done that and they discovered it my boyfriend could have potentially lost his son.
ok I know it’s a reach but it’s possible.
I’m trying not to overthink and beat myself up too much but I deserve a self flagellation today.
my ADHD medication is part of a national shortage. Nobody has it. Not in my dose. So I’m waiting for the office to call back and let me know WTF I’m supposed to do from here.
I hope you had a decent day. Mines been a roller coaster of existential epiphanies to depths of despair.
I’ll be ok no matter what happens. I’m a survivor.
@versatilecat1977 I'm sorry you know what it's like too. Tbh there's been a lot of those thoughts about doing things right for the wrong reasons and wondering if any of it even matters. It'll pass eventually - I just need to work through some things
I know that it will pass but the going through it is worth really sucks, friend. You got this though. I know you will be ok. You’re a survivor too.
My BF and I talked about everything and worked through the problems and talked through the problems as we both made promises to do better, make better choices and decisions. We both know that sorry means change and I have been sober since this past Monday. It’s not easy but I’m getting the meds I need today finally so I’m pretty darn sure that I will be able to resist any more thoughts about anything like a relapse. For one thing my BF and I are over if I relapse again. And I don’t want to lose everything that matters to me now because of a stupid drug I only crave because of my genetic predisposition. I am an addict and I’m getting help. I’m not gonna see the people that are detrimental to my well being or who can’t respect my choices to be sober and not use around me.
it turns out Juneteenth was a federal holiday Wednesday so I told my boyfriend everything after he went to work and realized it was a holiday and came home lol I had a complete breakdown and was a total wreck but we’re gonna be ok.
I have given myself some credit for getting rid of everything and flushing the drugs. It took an awful lot of effort to actually do it I could have easily kept it and kept using and he never would have known about it and I admit there’s a tiny part of me that just hates myself for doing it but mostly I’m happy though.
My ADHD meds just arrived. I just took it. I’m hopeful. I’m starting anew. Juneteenth is now my sober date because I’ll remember that easily. My aunt said that everything will be better soon. This medicine is supposed to help me not relapse.
I am pretty proud of myself for sorting through my stupid diamond paintings and I will be getting rid of a lot of them. Probably 1/3 of them right now. Unfortunately I spun out and ordered more so I’m still not happy about that but In time things will get better.
I had therapy yesterday, Thursday. My first session was good. She’s a neat lady and she gets me. We laughed a lot. Even talking about hard stuff we could laugh. “At least all this trauma makes me hilarious!”
I’m doing ok today but it’s early yet. Well not technically early it’s 11:30am and I slept until after 10am. I’m usually up at 6 or 7 so it was nice. My cats were cuddling with me and my BF is working from home because it’s Friday and his son is eating breakfast late because he slept even longer than I did! But it’s a good day here. We’re all good.
thanks… and I’m here for you too. If you ever need anything.
@versatilecat1977 I'm glad you had the chance to talk things out with each other. I know that can be scary to do. Communication can be really hard sometimes. Necessary but scary
So far this Saturday I’ve gotten up late after my first day on my adhd drugs and staying up late like usual well not as late as a usual Friday night we’re old lol I even got a sundress on because it is currently a steamy 82° in Denver. And it’s not even noon.
My brain feels like it’s been squeezed out like a wet sponge and then thrown back in the messy sink. It also sometimes feels like it’s the junk drawer emptied out on a trampoline. lol I don’t know where I’d be in this life without my dark and twisted sense of humor. It’s like the only way I can deal with this trauma. Trauma is very ugh. I know mine sometimes is horrific so I have to pick something to laugh about or I’ll go mad and go kill peoples.
I feel very lucky that I followed my gut with my new therapist. I literally googled something about therapist near me who take my insurance and this app called SonderMind came up and my gut said “Go. Go with it.” So I did and found her first try. She looked cool in her picture, she has all the qualifications I need except for any more than basic training for OCD but neither of us are too concerned. If I’m 47 and just getting diagnosed with OCD then it isn’t as bad as it could be. She has addiction training. I desperately need that. Anyway she has tattoos and piercings like me and we both love bats and skulls and cats. So there ya go it’s cool.
my parents are coming up here for the first time ever tomorrow. I’m freaking out a bit and halfway knowing what to expect from this impromptu visit (they called yesterday to talk about coming up for dinner!) I am freaking out because the house is a mess. My living room is full of my diamond paintings- yes I just listed a bunch of diamond paintings and I sold 25+ paintings and other projects (coasters, greeting cards, notebooks and stickers- all diamond art projects) to my great friend up in Minnesota so I will be shipping those Monday I hope. But my vape died and I have one that broke so I need a new vape. Ugh. Gotta borrow $20 from my boyfriend.
I have seen the finished diamond paintings for sale on Mercari but I don’t sell mine. I have found storage notebooks like for art and paintings that work great for my diamond paintings. I made bookmarks and notebooks like small journals or sketchbooks and coasters for gifts. I don’t get the paintings finished very quickly so I don’t see being able to sell the finished product for anything but the cost of materials. My BF did frame one I did, and hung it up. It’s a paw print and it looks like rainbow stained glass with white around it so it looks like a window almost. It’s cool. I’m really happy he liked one enough to add it to the pictures of his kids and his own artwork on the wall. Literally- he painted a portrait of Trent Reznor from Nine Inch Nails on the wall behind the couch and then a picture of a broken mirror over the fireplace. He’s really good. :)
Otherwise I am ok. The adhd medication is keeping the worst of the after effects of the drugs I smoked away. My brains doing weird things on this Vyvanse stuff. It’s a lot like I felt on drugs. But don’t get me wrong I don’t think I like it so if it doesn’t change in a few days I’m not staying on it. We’ll try something else. I’m not gonna set myself up for failure either by addiction or by not being comfortable with it. I’m not dumb. I just made some really dumb mistakes. And I know I’ll lose everything I have if I make another mistake like this. I’m on thin ice and I deserve it. He’s forgiven me he says but he hasn’t slept a full night since I told him. Meh we’ll make it through this. I’m confident in myself right now and I have more support right here than I ever could have hoped for. I may not be a good communicator but I’m trying to get better. I’m really good at burying everything and trying to deal myself and then my communication becomes a breakdown and a hour or two dumping thing on my boyfriend. Having this app, knowing I’ll have therapy every week and I have my psych nurse too. I am communicating better with my parents and they are reading about adhd in adult women and they are so supportive of me for the first time in a long time.
my kids well my son and I have spoken a couple times and I wrote my daughter a letter about the diagnosis and I have no idea if she got it, read it or just threw it away. I admit I took pictures of the letter. I behaved and didn’t lash out with my harsh and spiteful tongue (haha now I’m listening to Motionless In White)
oh it’s after noon and I’m on my 3rd cigarette so I’d better get to cleaning.
I hope you have a great weekend too. Cross your fingers for tomorrow’s dinner with my parents. The dining room is the worst room ever in the house right now lol
ooooh the basement. That’s the Boyo’s territory so I’ll ask him to at least collect his socks and put away his legos.
ok I’m going
ttyl
@versatilecat1977 So how did it go with your parents and dinner? Lol it always seems people stop over or want to visit when the house is a mess doesn't it? 😅 I know my house keeping skills are somewhere along the lines of there appears to have been a struggle lol. I hope it went well. The fact that they're reading up on the ADHD and that they wanted to visit seems like a good sign!
So today is Wednesday. So much has happened let me summarize.
- My BF and I got into our first fight Saturday and we even broke up for a little bit and I left and he got me to come back home and we talked for really real and about stuff we’d never addressed before. We talked about everything. I thought I made everything crystal clear because I thought things were changing. He helped me clean house for my parents visit and everything.
- my parents visit went fine. My BF waited until they got here to go get us cigarettes and then he went to pickup the food and then we ate. I couldn’t even interest my parents in a game of Uno. They just sat complaining about my kids and what jerks they are right now and I sat there listening while the boyo tried to get their attention to look at his lego project I got him. A really cool police car because he wants to be SWAT when he grows up.
- Tuesday we had a show to go to for my bf’s friends band. Old high school friends and I had a totally girl freak out over what to wear and I was ready when he got home and he got dressed super fast and we went downtown to this club for goth night. I was all dressed up and sexy and all these guys kept asking me to dance and I only danced with my BF and his friends and he was giving me all the right signals and signs and I thought everything was going great and we got home and he went to sleep. Without touching me, without a word. Just got into bed and went right to sleep. Devastated my self esteem. Then he had said he took today off but he didn’t. He only was going to if he didn’t sleep well and he slept well so even though the boyo was gone overnight and we had until noon today to fool around he wasn’t interested. I don’t know what happened. But I few small, ugly and unloved. I feel like he really didn’t want a girlfriend he just wanted a mom and chauffeur for his son and if he doesn’t change his tune I’ll leave and I’ll walk away from a year of my life with him and I’ll never do anything this stupid again because my relationships seem cursed so why bother anymore? Why try? Why should I do anything but let myself fall back into the numb world of drugs where everything hurts less because I’m high.
- I’m lost and can’t find myself.
As someone who struggles with addiction and attends Narcotics Anonymous I understand and can relate too you. I have been clean/ completely sober for a year now and it hasn’t come easily. One of two most helpful things I have learn though is that ‘ connection is the opposite of isolation’ and too remind myself ‘ Just for Today’. I also had too remind myself I have chosen this life and I’m doing it for me. I hope you may consider finding an NA meeting in your area or even going on zoom please type in ‘ virtual NA’. I wish you the best in your recovery and it takes courage too share what you have ( online or not). You have the desire too stop and I have faith in you. I hope that you got something out of this and that you are managing okay since this was posted too. Sending love and healing🙏
Thanks for sharing
I get it, injection was my way and I lost my mind, soul, love and still to this day fighting for sense of self.
the evil is hard to fight don’t be hard on self and just hold close your reasons to keep pushing through. You can do this. Promise
I haven’t been able to walk away from the stuff. I just smoke, I thankfully have no desire to shoot up because tbh I know that would be the end of me. I’d get lost in the drugs and probably put everything possible into my body because I would be at rock bottom’s basement. I would lose everything. Period. If I got caught right now I would lose everyone I love. Idk if I’d even have anywhere to go aside from a couple friends who would let me couch surf. I’d lose my cats, my parents, my boyfriend and his kids, I’d lose my home, and yet here I am with the glass pipe I my mouth and I’m doing the drugs anyway. I can’t pretend to understand why right now. I just know that I’m stuck right now and I will get through it like I always do. Idk how but I will.
@versatilecat1977 I moved my reply down here because replies have been ever soooo slowly sliding to the right and I use my phone more than my laptop
I'm sorry to hear you guys had a fight but really glad you both talked more in depth about things on Saturday
I wonder with your parents - do you think they could have been baiting you? I mean - I'm suspicious of people and their motives tbh but could they have been drawing you in to see what you'd have to say about your kids? Then again too - you said they've been reading about ADHD and are more supportive. Maybe they're genuinely put out by your kids behavior towards you
It's sad though that they didn't give any attention to the boyo. It would have been really nice if they would have connected with him over his Lego project (Legos are awesome btw!)
Could he have misinterpreted something between you and his friends? Or could he have been waiting for you to make a move? Have you talked with him about how he made you feel? It just seems really sad because I'm sure you put alot of effort and thought into what you wore and how you did your make-up. Did you talk on the way back home at all? Even if he was exhausted he could have gave you a kiss and told you how wonderful you looked and simply said let's just cuddle because I'm beat and then spent the morning making it up to you. If you haven't talked to him about how he made you feel - I think you should otherwise your hurt might turn into resentment. I'm really sorry your night out left you feeling this way
Don't let this be a reason to fall back into that world. That's not living. Yeah the numbness takes away the pain but it takes away alot of other things too. You've put alot of work into getting where you are now. A new therapist - reconnecting with your son and your parents. Those are all good things - even if your BF is being an idiot right now
*sending you peace and strength*
My BF got laid off Monday and I relapsed yesterday. My old buddy got me high and gave me a ton for free I couldn’t say no. That’s my biggest problem is saying no when it’s offered. I’m powerless against this stuff. I’m hating myself because I know I’ll keep using until it’s gone then quit again and who knows how long this will last but I’m just not caring for my own self or anything else right now and I know it. I just can’t seem to shake it off. I know why I fell off the wagon I know it’s not easy for anyone but it’s been easier than it is now and idk why I can’t seem to stay off it now. I understand that I’m addicted but I don’t understand why I can’t say no when it’s offered freely. It’s my kryptonite.
My parents are old and tired and disappointed with how life ended up for them. They’re just like my grandparents and they bicker constantly. My mom nags dad, my dad nags mom. Nobody is happy. My son said he wants to reconnect but he doesn’t want to talk. I have texted him and asked him to call me repeatedly but I got nothing. I wrote my daughter and never heard anything about it. I’m done trying to figure it out and they can call me anytime and start working with me instead of against me. I’m not perfect but I’m trying. I don’t think I can say the same about them.
Idk life is sideways right now. I’m having an ADHD day from *** and it’s not fun. My meds aren’t working right but I’m still adjusting to everything that’s changing. I’m going off high doses of Abilify and Klonopin. Life sucks. My boyfriend….. I love him but he’s a jerk sometimes and he’s got baggage I’ve got baggage and we aren’t comfortable communicating about sex. Anything else we can talk about for hours but not sex. Idk if he’s embarrassed or what. It’s just weird. I can talk about sex with anyone else but not the man I’m having sex with. I could be having sex with any guys in my life. All my friends have made it clear that I’m fair game if I become single. I’m scared tbh. I’ve got all guy friends and they’ve all made it clear they are interested now that I’m not available. I don’t get guys bi thought I did but I don’t.
I’m powerless before my addiction and I wish I believed there was a higher power that actually gave a **** about us so I could turn my problems over and have faith that something cared. I’m just not that blindly faithful. I question everything.
Shoot I gtg.
@versatilecat1977 I'm sorry to hear your BF got laid off. That would be kind of scary especially with the way the economy is right now
It’s Saturday night and everything sucks. No, nothing else happened it’s just been exhausting. The BF and I are kinda in a disagreement right now but I think it’s a fundamental difference that we will have to agree to disagree about. I don’t know yet for sure. I finally got tired of explaining myself to him and having him take every single thing literally and I just gave up. It’s just not worth it right now. We’re both tired and hurt and upset and it’s not gonna change anything to have a definite outcome right here right now. My brain hurts. I did a little this morning but that’s it. I only did that because I was out of my ADHD medication and had to drive to my phone side of town to get it. So yeah when I woke up at 5am because my BF wasn’t sleeping well I did some. I haven’t touched it all the rest of today. Maybe tomorrow I won’t do anything. And maybe the odds are ever in my favor right? Not. ill beat this. I just don’t want to yet. That’s the dangerous part.
Hi,
every time I try to leave meth the withdrawals are terrible and there is always someone who give me some. Last time a friend and I smoked together and later she injected me and it makes me feel super *** and now I feel addicted to this sensation, does it make sense?
I have never shot up meth so I don’t have the same experience with the withdrawal that you have and I’m so sorry I’ve watched dear ones struggle and suffer and I wish I could ease the process for you. All I can say is I’m on day 7 of being clean and while my body is still adjusting and revolting in some ways to being clean (let’s just say my stomach is a mess) it’s worth it. It’s worth the suffering of the withdrawal to have the clarity and the energy that comes with sobriety. The sense of peace and comfort and peace of mind and the calm is a welcome balm to my scorched soul. My battered soul is at last not hot and blackened ash, and I can see clearly now why I fell so hard again and what I need to do now to stay sober. I can’t screw up. I simply have no choice. I refuse to let a drug control my life and ruin everything I love nos. Everyone I love. Everything and everyone I have in my life will disappear if I continue with drugs. Period. No more nice cushy comfy life. No more awesome boyfriend who puts up with way too much from me. But continues to love and support me even as I struggle with my day 7. Which will be different for me than you but you will get there.
Who knew rock bottom had a walkout basement so I could escape the situation before I hit hard?
Beautiful soul, I believe in you! Your courage and strength is going to carry you through here. No matter what, you are making progress just by being aware and full of intention. All the love to you 🤍
@versatilecat1977 Hope you don't mind but I dropped it down here because of the lovely right shifting replies
Day fourteen yes? You're doing great!
I had to lol at the image of herding cats and bouncy balls. It's been a few days is the feeling any better?
Is there something that sets off the obsessive buying? Do you notice it while you're doing it or afterwards? I know impulse buying can be a problem with ADHD too
I bet your BF likes seeing you dressed girly though and the different wigs add a little spice. I have to admit I didn't know covid hair was a thing!
Omg feeling happy is an unusual thing isn't it?! There's been a lot going on and coming at you lately. It's nice to have good happy days
I hope you had a nice relaxing weekend and lost the bouncy ball feeling