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Iamwhoiamwhoami December 31st, 2023

Nothing new, same issues . I miss the people here. I have been really struggling the last few months. I have been really trying and it seems like I am going back instead of forward.

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 19th

I am still awake I haven’t even had any old geezer naps. I feel sorry for the one driving me tomorrow, because I’m going to be extra cranky and irritable tomorrow. Of course maybe they will get lucky and the meds will kick in enough that I will sleep both ways.

Anxiety has mellowed a little for, I don’t know, about an hour or so maybe.

I know I am a big crybaby, my writings here, when they are focused on me whether it involves what is going on inside or outside of me, they portray a person who would miserable to be around because it appears that all you would here from me is lots of the same things I write here.

However, in person I am completely the opposite. I barely speak, I keep everything inside, I am very uncomfortable speaking to anyone, even my own doctor. She gets more than frustrated with me behind closed doors and never completely to my face . She is very patient, but I can never seem to speak on my own behalf to her, I say the bare minimum. Now that I understand just a little bit about navigating the app for sending messages and scheduling, etc., I think she gets a little frustrated with me because I ramble on in my messages there like I do here.

She is a very busy doctor and I am assuming she is as well in her own life as well. So reading my novellas I send is probably a bit tedious for her.

But either way, if one of you were to meet me you wouldn’t believe I was the one behind these writings . Unless you stuck around for a day or two, then reality would set in and you would realize that my being pure negativity and being so introverted that your only chance of being around me for any term, long or short, it could only be done in short bursts, maybe an hour or so max with a eight hour break then maybe another quick burst.

I am on a self hatred streak obviously. But if it keeps my anxiety at bay…..

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Tinywhisper11 September 19th

@Iamwhoiamwhoami nah, I'd be able to put up with you forever ❤ cause I'd talk to you so much you wouldn't have a chance to say much anyway, and if your grumpy I'd just slap you a little bit😁😁😈😁😁 it's me you wouldn't be able to put up with😂😂😂😂


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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 19th

@Tinywhisper11

Keep dreaming, you are too precious to be able do anything like that. 💕💕💕

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 19th

It figures, I am wide awake, without even a drooping eyelid until a half hour before my next medication is due. Now I can barely stay awake. My life sucks.

Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 19th

It is tempting to take it a little early but that would defeat the purpose of moving the time between a shave closer.

I don’t think I will be writing here during my trip there and back. Of course whenever I state something like that, I usually do just the opposite. Probably just to tick myself off.

Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 19th

I am extremely blessed to have some very special friends here. No matter where my thoughts guide my writing, they are here , continually reminding me of the positive things that they recognize in me via my writings. I don’t recognize anything I do as positivity in me. I recognize the positivity coming out of my writings, however I believe that the strong threads that they have woven together that has taken hold in me, there must be an offshoot that has managed to make its way into the mess of thoughts bouncing around in my head and therefore is able to use there love and positivity to twist my negative to positive in my messages to them.

My eyes can’t focus. I hope that bit of rambling makes sense.

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Tinywhisper11 September 19th

@Iamwhoiamwhoami you always make perfect sense to me ❤❤

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 19th

@Tinywhisper11

That’s good because that makes one of us that it makes sense to ❤️❤️💕

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 19th

Ok , take my meds and I am wide awake. …… 😖😖😖😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 19th

Well, I suppose I stay awake It is currently about 3 hours from being picked up. I will probably try and take a shower in about an hour. Then lay down for awhile, try to shave, lay down for awhile, brush my teeth, lay down for awhile, try and make sure I have the few things I need for the little trip are by the front door, lay down for awhile, get dreams piece by piece laying down in between, then it should be about time for my ride to get here.

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Helgafy September 19th

@Iamwhoiamwhoami

I can tell you - persons with ME/CFS (as I have) do just the same as you and it's called "pacing"; doing one thing, rest, doing another thing, rest.

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 19th

@Helgafy

Thank you. That is very interesting.

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 19th

It is about time to start my day. Shower first. Then each step until it is time for us to be............

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Tinywhisper11 September 19th

@Iamwhoiamwhoami you worked out how to use gifs😁😁😁 yaaay! 

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 19th

@Tinywhisper11

It took awhile but found one at least.❤️

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Tinywhisper11 September 19th

@Iamwhoiamwhoami you did great ❤

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 19th

I finally made it into the shower for the intense wake up call to the pain. The usual few minutes under the water and out, dry what I am able and hobble to bed.

What would Tiny do? ………. That’s right…cry. Ok I think I can accomplish that fairly easily.

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Tinywhisper11 September 19th

@Iamwhoiamwhoami I'm here now ❤ you can cry to me 

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Tinywhisper11 September 19th

@Tinywhisper11 well done for having a shower ❤ please tell me you use a electric shaver??

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 19th

@Tinywhisper11

No, just a manual one

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 19th

@Tinywhisper11

Might have to keep that pose for the next few hours if the meds don’t work as well as hoped for. ❤️❤️❤️

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 19th

@Tinywhisper11

If it’s ok with you, I am going to focus on getting ready to leave. My ride should be here in about 45 minutes.

I will try to keep you and the others at the forefront of my thoughts throughout this ordeal today.

❤️❤️❤️❤️. Thank you for coming back here when you did just a little while ago, it means a lot to me . ❤️❤️❤️❤️.

💕💕💕I still am permanently locked in the holding of your hand while embracing you in a warm hug. I love you. 💕💕💕

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Tinywhisper11 September 19th

@Iamwhoiamwhoami good luck sweetie ❤❤ we'll talk when you get back ❤❤ I love you ❤ 

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Tinywhisper11 September 19th

@Iamwhoiamwhoami next time you order shopping but yourself some chocolate cake,you deserve to spoil your self ❤❤ I'm really slow at typing, sorry. How are you feeling now?

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 19th

@Tinywhisper11

That is really tempting but I could eat a small slice or two and then the rest would go to waste. My actual sweet tooth disappeared, but the cravings are still strong.

I am really slow at typing as well.

I am really anxious and nervous more about how the ride is going to go.

I’m sorry but I do need to finish getting ready to go.

❤️❤️❤️I love you, ❤️❤️❤️

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