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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

dtanushree
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“Gratitude is the fairest blossom which springs from the soul.” – Henry Ward Beecher Would you like to appreciate a fellow listener/member? Click on this button below 👇and appreciate them for spreading love, compassion and kindness in their own unique ways in this community. Peer Appreciation Form [https://forms.gle/hfwDBA8dTaP6bhta9] Chats which I do NOT take: Loneliness Sexual health Self harm *Please pm me to schedule a chat* Warning: If you're here for inappropriate chats, you're on the wrong site. This place is not for those purposes. Thank you for reading my bio. You're always welcome to pm me and I'll try to reply you as soon as possible. I hope you find all the help you need on cups.  🍁 About me: I'm a Listener since 2018. I've been in to many leadership roles. Now I only focus on being a listener here. I love to listen without judgement, validate your feelings and be there for you as a friend. 🧸 *sends bear huggss to all those who need one*
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Kieran000
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Hey thanks for checking out my profile, I’ve been on this site since the very start of 2019.  I do a lot of work inside 7 cups, but also keep in mind I have lots of work outside 7 cups. I do volunteering on the side of work & study and have experience in various forensic and other settings but can’t go further into it nor can I provide any professional advice.  My involvement with 7 Cups Group Support Mentor Leader (Retired Currently)  I previously managed the communication and supported the implementation of community feedback relating to group support via bi-weekly community meetings and liaising directly with the admin of the group support domain. I was also tasked with recruiting new chatroom moderators and mentors, and helping them in their role as a wider responsibility of my mentor leader position. Global Chatroom Moderator (Current) I am a moderator in all of the group support (members & listeners) rooms, meaning I assist to keep the rooms welcoming, safe and appropriate. I’m also part of the trauma support leadership team, and am specifically a moderator on the leadership team there as well, which I also host discussions for as well as a discussion leader.  Group Support Mentor (Current) I assist with the welcoming of new chatroom moderators and room supporters regardless of their chosen communities that they’re specifically supporting.  Listener Chatroom Mentor (Current) I provide support to the listener support rooms as well, as mentor and moderator. Helping to keep the chats supportive and am tasked with assisting with questions from listeners, as well as chat support and peer support.  Adult-Teen Listener (Current) I have been approved through an interview to support both, teen and adult members and listeners.  Quality Mentor (Current) I support listeners with their quality of listening by providing feedback, mock chats, and long-term mentorship.  Doorkeeper (Current) I have the ability to access the Chatroom Management panel where I can open and close all the 100+ listener and member chat rooms. If you’d like a room open in order to host a discussion you have scheduled please do feel free to send a message.  Chat Supporter (Current) I support the answering of chat related questions whilst listeners are actively taking part in member support chats, without breaking any confidentiality. I also help those who have been impacted negatively by a member chat.  Safety Team Outreach Member (Current) I reach out to users whose profiles have been flagged as violating the community guidelines, providing a chance for them to correct it before any further action is taken.  Safety Discussion Team (Current) I host discussions around safety on the site and am also the project agent for the safety team, which means I focus too on recruiting team members, checking-in with them and being part of both discussion and outreach teams helping out.  Community Mentor Leader (Retired) I used to manage the Newbie Hub sub-community where it was my role to onboard and support new community leaders, as well as manage discussion scheduling and supporting existing leaders too.  Anonymous Evaluator (Retired) I used to anonymously evaluate listeners by posing as a member (authorised) to get information on their quality of listening and then report back to admins.  Support Team Leader (Covered within GSM position) I previously co-led the Support Room 24/7 Coverage project which aimed to provide quality listening support to those in both teen and adult Support Room 24/7. This project was successful for a few months and then it was no longer operational, hopefully can get it back around with more support to continue it in event of leader(s) going on break.  Academy Mentor (Retired) I used to assist students of the Internship and Leadership Development Program with keeping track of their progress and supporting with any questions or concerns.  If you are a member reading this, I am not available for 1-1 support chats. You will be able to find me usually in any of the member group support rooms. I am always open to questions as messages, so feel free if it’s that otherwise I will not be able to respond. *I may go online to take chats at my own discretion, if I have the green dot next to profile picture, I have chosen to accept and will take the chat* I am not acting in a professional capacity here nor can I provide you crisis support on 7 Cups My likely response schedule (UK time) Monday: 8:00-11:00, 18:00-23:00  Tuesday: 8:00-11:00, 19:00-23:00  Wednesday: 21:00-23:00 Thursday: 8:00-23:00  Friday: 8:00-12:00  Saturday: 11:00-18:00  Sunday: 11:00-23:00  I’d say I’m most experienced with supporting people experiencing issues with the following topics: (The number of *’s indicate the amount of personal experience with the issue, and the familiarity with it) Self-Harm (Historic & Post-Recovery Journey, Addiction) *****  Break-ups, Relationship and Family Stress ***** Sexual Violence / Abuse ***** Grief (Parental, Sibling, Friends, Medical Vicarious Grief) ***** Anxiety (Generalised, Social and Trauma-Related Anxiety) **** Student Life **** Depression **** Work Stress **** Domestic Violence / Abuse *** Addiction (Self-Harm, Drugs, Alcohol) *** Self-Esteem *** Bullying *** Loneliness ** Managing Emotions ** Cancer * Schizophrenia * → Just some awesome people from my journey of cupsing who I’ve near enough known forever here 😛❤️ @Aimee198 (RIP, I miss you, especially the *hair flicks* and 😛’ing sooo much 💛💛💛) @AlwaysForYou197 (RIP as well you loved sharing your poems with me and I wish you still could 🥺❤️❤️❤️) @EmmaE @Azalea98 @mxmes @LoveLilly @Gracey @ASilentObserver @Suryansh @Rebekah @ListeningSarinn @Anna706 @Sia1325 @lueurspace @emotionalTalker2260 @HopieRemi @Jenna @Amy @Hope @JessHobson @Angelx28 @TayTayy @ALovelyFriend @VicK5123 @Anna706 @Sunisshingandsoareyou @optimisticMagic0014 @enchantedlove @Mishi3015 @cuteOrange213 @fujitheflowerboy @Ines1229 @ThoughtfulNarwhal3963 @shiningSky3745 @Dajia215 @niceTruth1478 @bookworm274 @KristenHR @ItssssMJ @fairyava and moreee Some links relating to me that you might like (Clickable below) Kieran’s Appreciation Corner [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gldd/AppreciationCorner_2202/KieransGroupAppreciationCorner_234229/] Kieran’s GLDD Interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gldd/FunCorner_2236/DinnerWithOurAlumnikieran000_248266/] Kieran’s Self-Care Interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/addiction/GeneralAddictionSupport_725/ATalkOnSelfCareWithKieran000_277292/] Kieran’s Living-with-Leaders Interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/LivingwithLeaders_2290/Beingthebest_276987/]
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SeenTarListener
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I have overcome depression and anxiety for the most part and I want to help others who are suffering from this.
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Jenna
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I'm glad you’ve reached out. Life can sometimes feel overwhelming, and having someone to listen without judgment can make a difference. Whether you're feeling lost, anxious, or need space to share your thoughts, I’m here to support you. I aim to create a safe, empathetic environment where you can feel heard and understood. We all battle things, and thankfully we don't have to do it alone even if it's just someone on the other side of the screen offering support. ------------------------- Topics I support Anxiety, Bipolar Disorder, Depression, Grief, LGBTQ+ PTSD/Trauma(Sexual Abuse/Assault), Terminal Illness ------------------------- What to expect I focus on being a compassionate listener, asking thoughtful questions, and helping you process your emotions. My goal is to help you feel lighter by the end of our conversation. I believe in the power of kindness, honesty, and mutual respect in every chat. My chats are 1 hour long and I support repeating members once a week. Feel free to reach out when you're ready to talk. Let's walk this journey together, one step at a time. ------------------------- Twin Brian AnnaSilverberg Lefthanded Pal Bluerivercares Listener Quintuplets blithesun94, coolvibes, Kristynsmama, Teagan, vivelespatates
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awesomeHeart38
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verified listener  HEALTHY LIVING ROOM SUPPORTER  I WILL NOT TAKE SEXUAL CHATS !  Hi I'm glad you have found me 💕 I'm a gem I used to suffer with anxiety so I know exactly how you are feeling ❤️ At the moment I don't take chats on self harming or sexual abuse not because I don't care it's because I do care and I'm not trained enough to help you and want you to get the best listener who can guide you through your experience 🙂
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warCD51
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Here to help! 
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ASilentObserver
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"You are always one decision away from a totally different life." Hello everyone, I'm known as Obs and I'm one of the members of the Community Management Team [https://www.7cups.com/about/communityGuidelines.php].  Here are some resources in case you need them -  If you are unable to see any group support rooms, probably you would need to meet some requirements. Check them here! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ASilentObserversOffice_2008/WeeklyGroupSupportLetterWeekofFeb10_217277/]  Join us in various group discussions. check the community calendar for the schedule and details.  [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] Group Support Frequently Asked Questions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ObsDesk_2008/FrequentlyAskedQuestionsGroupSupport_215692/] Weekly Communi. a listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/CommunityModeratorWeeklySchedule_1640/CommunityModScheduleWeekofJan06_214569/] If you are a listener and need some Chat Support, check this resource [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/edit?usp%3Dsharing&sa=D&ust=1581950130116000&usg=AFQjCNFZd4GUNuPdJ94r__2tXhDNc9oL5Q]  Please feel free to PM me with any questions or doubts regarding our community and roles. I am here with you to help with the best of my efforts while we keep building our community better each day with team efforts.  I am unable to take chat requests right now as I am unable to respond timely. I request you to connect with other available listeners here-  Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. We all are here with you to listen to and support you.  Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character-building day." - Les Brown Have a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by!!
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CommunityModAaron
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Hello everyone! Welcome to my profile! I am Aaron. I am a Community Moderator.  Unfortunately, I am not available for 1-1 chats so if you seeking support, please find and connect with a listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]!!
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InsightfulPhoenix
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My name is InsightfulPhoenix some even call me Phoe!🤗 I am married, part of the LGBTQ+ community as Nonbinary Demisexual with She/They pronouns. I have toddler who is ASD possible ADHD. I have Adhd/Autism/PTSD/DID and my husband Aspergers and ASD. We are Neurodivergent strong.  I have an INFJ-A personality, which is also the same personality that Joan of Arc had. I am often told I have too big a heart😂! Now that you know more of me,I hope this brings you comfort.  A quote I live by is "Never ask a person more than once who they are, they told you who they were the first time"  ❄️Former Roles❄️ Newbie Hub Moderator  ❄️Current Roles❄️ P.D Moderator  Quality Mentor Trauma Room Moderator  Women’s Issues Forum Supporter  A.E Team  Peer Appreciation Team/Smile Spreader  LCT
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Lou73
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--- ❄ Not accepting new member chats - Jan 2025 ❄ --- Hello I'm Louise (she/her) 🦋 Welcome to 7 Cups! Please read my bio before sending a message 💙 Part of the LGBTQ+ community 🌈 My Leadership Roles:  Group Support Mentor Leader (GSML),  Team Leader - Member Sharing Circles Chatroom Moderator: -Sharing Circle (and Newbie hub) -Personality Disorders Community -Global Mod Doorkeeper and Safety Patrol Team - Feel free to send a message if you need a room opened or closed or a profile flagging.  Member Sharing Circle Host: Mon and Tues 6PM ET Proud recipient of the Persistence Badge 🌸 and 4 Tulip Awards 🌷🌷🌷🌷 Previous roles: Forum Supporter - Hobby Zone 🎨 Chatroom Supporter - Hobby Zone 🦉 Smile Spreader for Peer Appreciation Team ------------------------- For member chats: Please no chats for: - sexual health, abuse, men's issues, domestic violence, relationship issues, addiction - dissociative disorders, pregnancy or bulimia - casual chats Accepting chats for: - borderline personality disorder (BPD or EUPD), managing emotions - anxiety, depression, panic attacks, social anxiety, bullying, family stress - student life, work stress Usually online between 5pm and 8pm (Cups time) or leave me a message and I'll reply when I can 😊 -------------------------
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Suryansh
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 I am presently not taking any new member chats. Feel free to search for other listeners from HERE [/BrowseListeners]. Thank You for understanding me. Hello Hello! Welcome to my profile page, thanks for visiting. I am Suryansh, or Surya, a young man from India. My time zone is IST (Indian Standard Time). My favourite subject is Physics. I really enjoy listening to music, watching series shows and tech movies, traveling, and getting to know our world and its history. I like coffee, and I am fond of writing and reading thoughts and quotes. After a few years, I aim to join the Indian Administrative Service, serve the nation, and continue listening and supporting people. I am a trained, verified listener here on 7 Cups. I like listening to people and supporting them with whatever they are going through. I believe that everyone deserves to be heard and understood. I cannot solve your problems, but I assure you that I will provide you with a safe listening ear and support you. Your feelings are absolutely valid, and I vow to you that I will never judge you. I would appreciate receiving ratings and reviews, as they help me improve, learn, and grow. I greatly believe in respect, patience, and kindness, which I will always embody in our conversation, and I would greatly appreciate it if I received the same attitude as mine back from the other person. I substantially care about you! I am available from Monday to Friday; weekends are days off from 7 Cups for me as I practice Self-Care on these days. We all deserve to have some me-time to care for ourselves. My general response time is within 2–3 days. If I am unavailable or offline, you are so welcome to leave me a message, and I will try to respond as soon as possible. I have some triggers that make me feel uncomfortable in chat. Please avoid sending one-word messages involving 'okay', 'k', 'huh', 'heh', ok', 'oh', 'ah' and 'hmm'. I would appreciate your understanding nature toward me. My Involvement in 7 Cups Group Support & Chatroom Ambassador  As a Group Support Ambassador, my focus area includes Group Support Leadership, Engagement and Quality Aspects of the rooms. As a Chatroom Ambassador, my focus area includes complete management of the Chat Support Team. I also assist with Chatroom Mentor/Teen Star applications & onboarding processes. Global Community Mentor As a Global Community Mentor, I moderate the forums and take steps towards building engagement in the sub-communities with various types of activities. I can edit, delete, or transfer any forum post/thread from any sub-community. Forum Moderator/Forum Flag Team Member As a Forum Moderator/Forum Flag Team Member, I take steps to keep the forums clean and free of toxicity. I am allowed to review flagged posts, approve, edit, or delete them, according to the community's forum guidelines. Listener Verifier As a Listener Verifier, I can conduct mock chats or grade forms, in order to verify listeners, based on their Active Listening skills.  Global Moderator As a Global Moderator, I have moderation (Mod) access in all the member group support rooms. I moderate the rooms to keep them a safe place for everyone and maintain a supportive environment in the rooms. Safety Patrol As a Safety Patrol, I flag inappropriate profiles on 7 Cups, to help maintain the community guidelines, and with the ultimate aim of maintaining a positive and appropriate environment in the community.  Chat Support As a Chat Supporter, I provide support to our listeners through ongoing chat. Peer Support As a Peer Supporter, I provide support to our listeners after a hard/difficult chat. Doorkeeper As a Doorkeeper, I can open or close any room on 7 Cups.  You are always welcome to drop me a message if you would like to get any information, want any room to be closed or opened, or just have a casual chat. I reassure you that you will be provided with a safe and non-judgmental environment to have a chat with me. Thank you for visiting my profile.  Congratulations! You have reached the end. I have a cup of coffee for you HERE [https://thumbs.gfycat.com/BonyDecentChameleon-max-1mb.gif]. Thank You :)
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Alvish22
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"Tea, though ridiculed by those who are naturally coarse in their nervous sensibilities, will always be the favorite beverage of the intellectual"                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      
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