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Help! Need advice on how i can help my friend
Relationship Stress / by peacefulReeds7160
Last post
 December 8th, 2020
...See more Hi to the 7cups community. Just want to say thank you ahead. There are always listeners here for support and i am so thankful a communityblike this exists. Was just hoping to find different perspectives on how i can help my friend and perhaps figure out why her actions are so. I have this friend who keeps drunk calling an ex. And then the next day she feels so much regret about it. But then she would get drunk again and drunk calling again. Personally i dont really drunk text/call so i dont understand why she does this. But i think this way is not exactly emotionally healthy. So i hope to be able to get a better understanding so i can be of better help/advice to her. I look forward to your inputs. And i hope everybody who reads this have a great day ahead 😄
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My fiancee broke up with me and I cant move on
Relationship Stress / by peacefulReeds7160
Last post
 December 1st, 2020
...See more My fiancee broke up with me. We fought over the wedding date. It is so shallow. We were having a heated fight, I got mad and returned the ring but i said i didnt mean it i was just upset and i said sorry. But he said he couldnt go on anymore after i returned the ring. He told me he loved me but because of what happened we cant go forward anymore. He said this hurt him as well. We were suppose to get married october. We broke up july. After we broke up i tried to talk to him to work things out, but he said he cant talk to me anymore because he is just doing his best to be able to move on from this. It has been over 3 months now. Until now i dont understand why we had to break up. If he loved me and if this hurt him too why wont he work it out with me. I know only he can answer this question. But he told me his decision is made up and he wants to break up. And i am trying to respect it. But i cant move on. I used to be a type a personality. I crave to excel and learn. But together with this happening to me, i am not really on good terms with my only sister as well, and the rest of my family we dont really have good communication. Without my family and the future family I looked forward to, material goals seem pointless. Material things and success without people to care about, they dont really matter. Its like all the things i worked hard for, nothing really matters any more.
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I regret returning our engagement ring
Relationship Stress / by peacefulReeds7160
Last post
 November 20th, 2020
...See more I found my soulmate. He proposed after 3 years, and we have been engaged for a year. But 3 months before our wedding, we were arguing over something extremely shallow - the wedding date. He was stressed with work cause of covid his business is in trouble. And i was stressed out with work, im a doctor l, covid hit us tough. We had a really heated discussion one day. I got upset with some things he said (they involved financial things). So i told him to take his ring and go. For a moment I saw it as a big rock and forgot the love it symbolized. He got really hurt. I said sorry later. I didnt mean it as I dont want him in my life. I was was silly and emotional. But he said he cannot go forward with the relationship anymore. He said I had broken everything he built i our relationship.
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