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Number of ratings180 Number of reviews131 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceMar 4, 2020 Last activein last week GenderMale PathStep 470 People helped999 Chats3,071 Group support chats5 Listener group chats8 Forum posts16 Forum upvotes26
Bio

Kevin. Thirty-something years old. Professional software engineer. I love to help others by listening and talking to them. I hope talking to me is helpful. I hope my work as a Listener helps people live happier and more successful lives.

I have experience with depression. Across many years. Fortunately I am doing so much better now than I used to be. Now I frequently go long periods with feeling depressed. The experience with depression got me interested in therapy as a way of helping people improve their lives.

Outside of 7cups, I am also passionate about software engineering, computers, and technology. I love writing code and building software. I also love listening to music, working out at home, playing piano, composing music, attending meetups, and watching basketball.

I live in the USA and I am in the Pacific Time Zone.

Recent forum posts
Bug in Status: Online, offline, busy
Site Updates / by calmingOcean6858
Last post
 April 11th, 2023
...See more Hi, I noticed two issues with the Online Status feature. These issues were not present before. They are a regression. The first is: It says I'm offline. Then when I select "Busy" or "Available" it doesn't change. It still says Offline. The second is: I sometimes get messages from Listeners asking if I am available to Listen to them. Even though I am not available at that time. Has 7cups leadership commented on these bugs? Is there a great software engineer working on it?
How is average wait calculated?
Newbie Hub / by calmingOcean6858
Last post
 October 30th, 2021
...See more I'd be curious to see the algorithm behind how average wait is calculated. Does it mean "How long you can expect to wait on average between joining the back of the line now and getting matched with a Listener?" Or does it mean, "How long have the people currently in line been waiting, on average?" Or what? The reason I ask is that I suspect the amount of time the average person spends in line is much longer than the listed average wait time.
Can I see old notifications? Where was the admin AMA?
Newbie Hub / by calmingOcean6858
Last post
 June 21st, 2020
...See more Usually when I log into 7cups there are a few notifications. For example, I saw a notification that said something like "Check out the responses from our Admin AMA". But I can't find that link anymore because I don't see old notifications. In social media sites I would be able to see old notifications. But on 7cups I feel like it's very easy to miss an old notification and never see it again. Does anyone know what AMA it was that I saw a notification about and what the link to it is?
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Feedback & Reviews
Pretty genuine person seems caring
Very good listening questions
This person helped me tremendously.
Tryes they're best to help and understand
Listened really well and asked questions that allowed me to think about things I had thought enough about.
He is really so helpful , he is great in motivating someone.
Very good listener
He is a glorious listener!
Give great feedback. Great person all around
They were very helpful and listened to me and talked with me in a nice manner.
Excellent listener
Someone who wants to be there for you and supportive as possible - can recommend
The best listener
Amazing. Really helpful
Kind person. Great listening skills. Challenging as well.
Seems well-invested to conversate!
I get five stars because he seems very interested in listening and talking to me
Very kind, helpful and understanding. Thanks again.
Lovely listener
Helpful and honest
Professional and attuned! I got something out of it
Good listener, kind and engaged
Very attentive and kind
Even if he doesn't know the correct solution but he will surely make us comfortable and reduce our pressure
Really caring and helpful listener. Thank you!
incredible listener. made me feel safe
Been a great listener
Replies fast :)
The only one that truly understood and helped me
thoughtful, understanding, and validating.
He’s a good listener
Extremely understanding and supportive! I could not think of anyone better to talk to when I feel down
He's been compassionate patient understanding and caring
good listener, really cares
Awesome listener
Very nice and understanding
Helped me with relationship and self worth issues
Helped me alot I am so much better
Good listener, offered new perspectives
Helpful! Patient
Good listener he is
Gives sound advises...polite and helpful
Good listener to chat with
Good listener!
calmingOcean6858 listened to my struggle and gave me some good questions to think about. Thank you!
Good listener. Felt better after speaking with him.
I loved how he made me think. Because of his I have a better outlook on my situation
seems to relate well
He made me feel from awful to happy 😊
Empathetic. Response time was great. I think he actually cared about how I was feeling, which was the most therapuetic part. Thank you.
really understanding a great listenr
Great listener and response back fast
response is fast, person is calm, accepted my request pretty quickly
Very good at putting people at ease.
Patient and understanding, responded politely.
A great listener
They helped me when I was struggling and said nice things
Great and patient listener who tries his best to help with how I'm feeling
Great listener, thanks for listening
Thank you for being patient.
Amazing. Very understanding and would talk to again.
Amazing great listener
Very considerate and empathetic.. helped me find solutions to my problem.. thanks alot
Really helped me to see situation differently!
Very sweet listener. The site needs more people like you. take care of yourself. Wishing You Happiness and Success in all your endeavours.
Easy to talk to, very kind, helped calm me down from my anxiety issues.
Good listener and understood my situation
Great response time!
Amazing listener
really good listener
Thanks! You really helped.
Very helpful and kind and wants to help people and support them
Love this person
Great listener
He's very nice and patient! Great conversation!
Great help very compassionate
The person was kind and gave no advice as I explicitly asked from the get go
Amazing service
I can't say other thing to him than THANKS FOR OPENING MY EYES.
He helps see the light in the negative situations you're faced with.
Very personable and relatable
Great listener!
I have never talked to someone so willing to listen. I am very appreciative of the responses I got and it really opened my eyes.
Thank you... gentile
Awesome chat loved it
very patient and kind, doesn't make you feel rushed and really listens to what you have to say
let me vent and explain my life without judging or giving advice. thanks!
i think a listener is supposed to be interactive and im glad that happens
Great listener, informative and helpful
The best listener ever.
Very good response time
It was my first time, but I enjoyed talking with them. It was nice to connect with someone.
I learnt to be the better person ♥️
Was helpful and gave me time to think and gather my thought with no pressure and judgement
Really inspiring!
Great listener. Very helpful!
A really good kind amazing and plain awesome person he is a really good listener i totally recommend him
Great to talk to.
Loved it awesome chat
Thanks for helping me with everything. You're god sent!
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