Hey. Hey you.
So you're shopping around for a listener, wondering "Do I really need to talk to somebody?" Will it actually help? What's the point? Why would I inconvenience somebody else with this?

Well, if my light is on, I will respond. I am not the most consistent or reliable listener, life happens, but I want to talk to you. I'm usually relieved when people reach out to talk, because I know I've been in the same place, paralyzed by the idea of being a nuisance. You're not a nuisance. We're all just people.

I believe that by simply talking we can help each other out. That even a moment of relief from pain or frustration can change your perspective about what's possible. I think that you know yourself better than I will, and within you is the bravery and resourcefulness to cope with whatever life throws at you. I believe reaching out takes both.

About me? I'm spfee. I like gardening, and music, and I want to make a point of stretching in the morning! I put my hands up against a door frame and sort of walked into the door frame today, and man, great stretch. Felt really nice. Highly recommended.

Oh yeah, me. I'm a flexible, nifty human by all accounts. I've battled depression, panic attacks, and anxiety. I'm also fairly versed on the topics of polyamory and infertility.