Scintilla22
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Listens toOver 18
LanguagesEnglish, Hindi, Oriya
Listener sinceJul 15, 2020
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PathStep 49
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The way I see it, if you want the rainbow 🌈, you gotta put up with the rain ⛈️
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal 🥀
In the east," she says after a time, her gaze still downcast, "there is a tradition known as kintsukuroi. It is the practice of mending broken ceramic pottery🏺using lacquer dusted with gold ⭐and silver and other precious metals. It is meant to symbolize that things can be more beautiful for having been broken."
"Why are you telling me this?" I ask.
At last she looks at me. Her irises are polished obsidian in the moonlight🌕🎑. "Because I want you to know," she says, "that there is life after survival 💫
Wounding and healing are not opposites. They're part of the same thing. It is our wounds that enable us to be compassionate with the wounds of others. It is our limitations that make us kind to the limitations of other people.
It is our loneliness that helps us to to find other people or to even know they're alone with an illness. I think I have served people perfectly with parts of myself I used to be ashamed of.
But pain's like water. It finds a way to push through any seal. There's no way to stop it. Sometimes you have to let yourself sink inside of it before you can learn how to swim to the surface 🌊🐚
Those who overcome great challenges will be changed, and often in unexpected ways. For our struggles enter our lives as unwelcome guests, but they bring valuable gifts. And once the pain subsides the gifts remain. These gifts are life's true treasures, bought at great price, but cannot be acquired in any other way.
Wounding and healing are not opposites. They're part of the same thing. It is our wounds that enable us to be compassionate with the wounds of others. It is our limitations that make us kind to the limitations of other people.
It is our loneliness that helps us to to find other people or to even know they're alone with an illness. I think I have served people perfectly with parts of myself I used to be ashamed of.
But pain's like water. It finds a way to push through any seal. There's no way to stop it. Sometimes you have to let yourself sink inside of it before you can learn how to swim to the surface 🌊🐚
Those who overcome great challenges will be changed, and often in unexpected ways. For our struggles enter our lives as unwelcome guests, but they bring valuable gifts. And once the pain subsides the gifts remain. These gifts are life's true treasures, bought at great price, but cannot be acquired in any other way.
Don’t feel bad about feeling bad. Don’t be frightened of feeling afraid. Don’t be angry about getting angry. There is no need to give up when we are feeling depressed. Nor should we be dismayed at the grief which often accompanies the outgrowing of anything which needs outgrowing. We can be glad that our soul is speaking to us and pushing us onwards. We frequently need to persevere with a period of inner turmoil 🌪️before the dust can settle and be swept out the door.
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I love the way she patiently listened to me.
She is a good listener.
Very supportive
The best. Unbelievably wonderful listener who has got lots of patience, kindness, love, time sense, ability to offer different perspective ... Everything !
Gratitude.
A very good talker. We discussed loads of topics. It was a very lovely interaction and I'd highly recommend anyone having a bad day to refresh himself talking to her.
Such a gem of a person to talk to
Really nice and easy to talk with and makes you feel comfortable
She’s amazing ❤️
Nice person, thanks a lot.
Your kindness, understanding and support has helped me feel so much better today. Thank you so much for your help.
God bless...keep smiling
So open, empathetic, caring
Thank you for listening
Blueberry you made me feel so good and like I said you are my most favourite listener and I guess you are the best out there
super awesome listener
she's amazing, sympathizes a lot..
her words are like virtual hugs
she made my heart feel a lot lighter
they listened very well
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She is beautiful both inside and out. I felt so much more calmer after speaking with her! Highly recommend!
she is awesome like angel
Very nice and helpful. Kind and patient.
she responds very fast, nice talking to her
Shes very kind and warm
Chat was very good, it reached to outcome, it helped me a lot thanks.
A very nice person to talk to
Am amazing listener to talk to. Gives you attention and time and makes you feel confident about facing problems in a better way.
Really nice and good listener
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Loved it... She is a nice person
One of the best listeners I have spoken to in all four years of me using this website. She was very attentive, kind and understanding. I really felt better after speaking to her
Really helpful, was really kind.
You have been such a good listener (more like a friend). Kudos girl! ♥️ Thankyou for contributing in making this world a better place to live!
Loved it! Awesome chat!
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