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RefaFina
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L Proficient 6
5 star rating
Rating
Number of ratings56 Number of reviews49 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, German Listener sinceOct 20, 2019 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 24 People helped80 Chats953 Group support chats3 Listener group chats652 Forum posts94 Forum upvotes207
Bio

Currently unable to accept new member chats unless referred

Take a seat and relax
I’m RefaFina and here to listen to you
No matter what’s going on for you at the time

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Life can feel like a dark forest at times
I’ll be the fox walking beside you
While I can’t choose your path,
sharing your thoughts and feelings can help
I’m here to listen to whatever’s on your mind

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Any topic beside the following is welcome:

I cannot provide support regarding
self-harm, alcohol / drug abuse, or eating disorders

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What to expect

I will solely focus on you
You can expect open-mindedness and empathy
We will explore your situation and help you feel comfortable
Chats with me are up to 60 minutes long

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My status

Green
 Available for listening now. Feel free to reach out!

Orange
 Currently busy with another chat or other 7 cups duties. Expect a delay of several hours

Red
Currently offline, but I'll get back to you as soon as possible

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Age: 28:
Pronouns: She / Her
Occupation: 👩‍💻 Software engineering and architecture consultant
Hobbies & Interests: 🎮 Video Games, 🧗‍♀️ bouldering, 🫛 vegan cooking
🦊 Fun fact: Refa means vixen in Icelandic 🦊

Feedback & Reviews
The greatest listener to have ever joined this website.
She can drain oceans of sorrow and grow forests in the desert of solitude.
She is perfect.
She's a great listener. Kind, compassionate and good with open ended questions.
Really good listener and can adapt to many circumstances. Impressed.
Without equal.
Always good, always present, always helpful.
Fantastic, unique, excellent, caring, heartfelt, sincere, insightful, noble.
Always a joy, thoughtful, attentive and invests her whole heart into each conversation.
I can't praise her enough.
The greatest.
There should a 6 star rating option for her.
Feuchsin was truly amazing and I felt heard, supported, not judged and simply I could talk about whatever was on my mind and they made me feel valid and a lot better
A blessing from a higher realm.
Wonders Never Cease and neither does her patience and kindness.
Absolutely great. Cannot ask for more from a listener.
Always a joy, you always find peace with her. Whatever force sent her your way be sure it is a great blessing.
They should make a 13th god of Olympus in her name, the goddess of listening, attention and care. With statues and temples and everything.
Because she's the listener 7cups deserves. She's a silent joy, a watchful confidante. A red dame.
I wonder what her spirit animal is, maybe a dove? Because she only brings peace and calm.
She's always great. Very consistent over time, a stable, reliable presence. A great blessing to anyone who meets and talks to her.
Always wonderful company.
She's always great. Consistent over time. Good boundaries. Very healthy person. Knows how to listen and will always be in balance. You can't ask for more from a listener.
It difficult to describe her presence. She'll always there, responsive, understanding, like you are confessing in a journal but much better as it writes back. It's rare quality to be so welcoming and someone to feel so free to write to you.
If only the whole world would be more like her, it would be heaven.
She deserves every poem written to be dedicated to her.
A ray of light, a wonderful melody, a subtle flagrance of tranquillity, a caring hug. She's the best.
Kind, patient, professional, open-minded, respectful and so much more.. everything you want in a listener and more
Always great company, really knows how to listen, is very reliable, good boundaries, one of the healtiest connections I ever had.
I can't say enough about this person, she is truly one of the best. Thank you so much.
Deeply appreciate the time and care she puts in every chat. A true angel and a blessing.
She is an angel.
Wonderful, wunderbar, vidunderlig, prachtig, maravilloso, minunata.
Best listener on here. who really cared understood my situation. She never judged always encouraged me to me
Again another really helpful chat and fully understood about my situation. Much appreciated.
Josephine ist eine wunderbare Zuhörerin, die wirklich zugehört hat und sich nicht darüber aufgeregt hat, dass ich ungewöhnliche Probleme hatte. Ich schätzte sie einfach. Ich hoffe, wir können uns wieder unterhalten. Sie hat ein großes Herz.
I loved talking to her. She made me feel listened to
Totally brilliant listener, she is fantastic. Able to assess your issue and responds with sensible suggestions designed to ease your problem. I cannot say thanks enough, excellent.
Thank you Josephine for being ever so kind and understanding always. It's so wonderful to be able to pour my heart out in our chats. You are simply the best, Josephine!
Very kind, patient and pays attention to what you say. 10/10
very helpful and understanding
Truly amazing to have such a great listener to reach out to. So understanding and non judgmental. Jake.
Sehr verständnisvolle Zuhörerin mit guten Gegenfragen und Ratschlägen Danke für die gute Stunde ich freue mich schon auf den nächsten Termin
Really great kind and caring listener. She understood where i was coming from. Amazing caring person
Thanks for the support
Absolutely amazing chat again, more steps with opening up taken. Thank you, appreciate your kind time. Jake.
Truly amazing listener, I reached out here and this listener listened and totally understood about my situation. Never judged me and helped all the way. Thank you your awesome! Jake.
Amazingly kind and compassionate listener.
Really lovely listener, thanks a lot for listening to me.
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