Feel free to share your experiences and maybe we can reflect, explore the situation openly and if at all there is something I would share it from my own experience in such matters . Mostly we need a little patience, love and care but sometimes a jolt also does a lot of good..so everythings in a way laid out for the best..in my opinion. What goes down will always come up, its nevery a spiral fall all the way down. And you can keep things up most of the time if you act wisely. Hope is never lost for the brave. Be careful what you wish for and hope for.