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Number of ratings22 Number of reviews6 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceMar 29, 2016 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 25 People helped25 Chats32 Forum posts11 Forum upvotes13
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Hi, if I'm online, please feel free to start a chat with me and I will gladly help you as best as I can! I am willing to talk to anyone about anything x

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You can get through this!
Trauma Support / by Holly13
Last post
 April 13th, 2016
...See more I was sexually abused when I was 10. It happened at a young age so it took me a while (a few years) to process what had happened to me. About three years later it began to upset me, all the memories came back and I realised what had happened, it felt like it had happened all over again! However now I can safely say I am through it! Yes, there are still times when I feel like crying or not getting out of bed and I still think about it, but I know how to work through these days and come out stronger each time! It is hard but you can get through it, even if it doesn't feel like it! It's unfair and takes a lot of time and energy to get through but it's possible and totally worth it!
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I found 7cups because...
Newbie Hub / by Holly13
Last post
 April 11th, 2016
...See more I found this website when I was looking for someone to talk to, about a year ago about a situation I didn't feel comfortable telling anyone about. So I googled online services and found this! I'm glad I did
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Emotional abuse or just mother-teen arguments?
Trauma Support / by Holly13
Last post
 April 8th, 2016
...See more Hi, last night I watched a video on emotional abuse and it got me thinking about my relationship with my mother, which I have been unhappy about for a while however as Im 16, I cant tell whether its just because Im a teenager and were just having an argument. We arent close at all, I dont think we ever have been, she never hugs me or says she loves me…ever. I cant remember if she ever has, we never share anything personal or talk about how we feel. The worse part is that I had a few problems late last year with restricting, purging, stress/anxiety and panic attacks and so I spoke to one of my teachers as I didnt feel comfortable talking to my mum, but she called my parents and told them what I said because its the law or something, but now whenever we get into an argument and I get upset she shouts well why dont you go and tell Mrs ***** or shell sarcastically say oh Im so upset Im going to go to Mrs ****. She makes fun of me for talking to my teacher, she hit me one time a few months ago. She favours my 10-year-old brother and whenever I say anything to him, she shouts at me and defends him but if he ever says anything to me she doesnt care. I know this has been really long and probably doesnt make much sense, I just hate living with my parents, I wish I had a close family and its weird but I find myself almost trying to find a new mother with teachers at school because I always feel really attached to them, especially when they act as though they care about me. So how can you tell the difference between emotional abuse and mother-daughter arguments?
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I never not felt comfortable. I just wanted to vent out my random thoughts and had no expectations. She took control of everything and helped me navigate my thoughts in right direction. She was respectful and never asked a question that would offend me (which usually the case when I talk with most people). I am surprised it went smooth. I ended up feeling resolved. She is rare and you are lucky if you have discovered her.
Very supportive and puts things into approachable perspective.
Really helped me see things clearer. Thank you :)
She's very attentive and explains everything very well. :)
I think Holly is a good listener and she helped me with my issues. I hope a can continue having her as a listener.
Helpful suggestions in what to try, similar manor to therapists I've had in the past
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