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Number of ratings113 Number of reviews81 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Hindi Listener sinceMay 19, 2020 Last activein last week GenderMale PathStep 209 People helped450 Chats3,914 Listener group chats273 Forum posts108 Forum upvotes172
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/// Please send me personal request or personal message while I am away, I will get back to you as soon as I can. \\\

Hi there, I am NS and I am a verified listener on 7cups since 2020, if you are feeling low, if you are in pain and you want to rant out and need someone to hear you out, you can talk to me. 


This is a safe place, I don't judge, I don't give advice, whatever happens between us stays between us, you can let yourself out, and I'll listen to you. I personally have gone through many issues alone when I didn't want to because I didn't have anyone, I try to be a person who I could have relied on when I went through my dark episodes in life, and I want to help you in the same way by being someone whom you can rely upon with your deepest and darkest problems.


I know how it feels when life seems to be going in a downward spiral, but I can reassure you that while things may not seem fine, they will be better in long term. Its hard going through the hurdles of life alone, when faced with tough times, you don't have to go through it alone, you can rely on me, on us.


Being a listener, don't hesitate to approach me if you want to talk about any topic you'd like. We can talk about anything you are going through to anything you are passionate about. Everyone is welcomed here, even listeners who might be going through something they wanna rant or discuss about but make sure to use your member account for that.


I prioritize comfort, boundaries and listening above everything, if you do have any topics or any boundaries you feel uncomfortable discussing, let me know. I'll make sure not to cross any of them. 


A note to myself and others who might be going through their own problems:

You are a human, a flawed one. You make mistakes like everyone does, you aren't different from others. We all are different, all our problems are different but no matter how small they seem in your eyes, they are valid nonetheless. Happiness and Suffering and two sides of same coin called life. There will be times so tough you want to give up, and there will be times where you cannot contain your happiness. No matter how tough life seems right now, don't give up.


You are valid. Your problems are valid. Your experiences are valid. Don't let people who say otherwise, influence you into thinking you are worthless, because most of the times, its self projection. Talk to me, ill listen. Don't let your negative self influence you into thinking everything's worthless and there's no point in talking about it, at a cosmos level, nothing really matters. But right now, in the moment, you are living, you are experiencing, so it does matter, at least right now.


Its going to be alright, even if it doesn't in the moment feels so, let talk and open up and try to make things alright.

pfp by wooma from shama- Shama - Utattemita/Miyashita Yuu - YouTube

PS- I like to give huge and tight hugs, ill give you too, as much as you want :p​



Recent forum posts
Is anyone into fragrances?
Hobby Zone / by GuiOakes
Last post
October 15th
...See more I have been getting a lot into fragrances and have gotten soo manyy ittars!! Mainly OUDs and many flower, fruity based ittars!! Im so looking forward to expanding it more and wearing them daily! I feel when it comes to stuff like self care, we should do it for ourselves and not for what other people think! I really like smelling nice!! my favv I have been wearing are Vanilla based wattagirl body mist paired with dubai oud ittar!  If you also own perfumes or are into fragrances we can have a convo about it!! Mention them beloww!!
Fish in the lonely dark sea.
Hobby Zone / by GuiOakes
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February 24th
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photus and random doodles
Hobby Zone / by GuiOakes
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October 2nd, 2023
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Im a newbie artist!!! Id like you to share your oldest art and most recent art.
Arts & Crafts / by GuiOakes
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July 7th
...See more Looking at others artwork gives me immense pleasure, its always a treat to look at a artist and see their journey and how far they have come.
Thoughts and Emotions
Journals & Diaries / by GuiOakes
Last post
May 15th, 2023
...See more It must have pained quiet a lot considering your nature, but you still don't show that to anyone. You pretend to be a strong person, trying their best to put on a mask that you aren't weak, to yourself, to others. It must have been crushing, taking a decision that you knew you'd regret it, you would have even cursed yourself for taking a decision too. It's okay, if you think it was a mistake, own it, if you have guilt, own it. Don't deny your true feelings, don't deny your own self, you don't have anyone other than yourself. If you lied to them too, how else will it work out? You wanted to feel loved, you wanted to feel pampered, you wanted to be cared for too, but you always denied that, it was shown by your expressions, it was reflecting in your eyes, that you were lying, you did it to protect yourself and for others to not make them worried for you, as you believed you didn't need anyone. That too was a lie. Your own perception is of that one which doesn't allow you to free of the restraints that hold you back. Your own perception is the one which cannot accept the love, which cannot accept new things, which cannot accept good things. It must have hurt right? fighting that and giving up even though when you tried your best.
Feedback & Reviews
Compassionate, has a great timimg (doesn't interrupt me when I speak) and was able to offer support without overstepping boundaries. Keep up with the good work :)
Great understanding listener
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She was very helpful regarding family stress
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Very kind and patient.
Listens well, and thats all i need in life
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You are an amazing person and an amazing listener. And thanks for everything. Good luck for your future!! ~Pri
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Very friendly and wholesome person🥺
First person I really got to talk to on here as someone new to 7cups. I had a lot I needed to talk out to mull over with what I’m going through and this is one of the sweetest people out there to do it with.
Absolutely patient will stick with you throughout. EMAPTHETIC AND MOTIVATING
BEST LISTENER EVER 🌈📈📈📈
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Highly recommend... he’ll make u feel heard
Is a really good listene
They truly helped me, by just letting me talk about my problems and feelings I feel more calmer. So thank you
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Listened to everything i said and really supportive
lifted my mood and helped make sense of what i'm feeling, it truly was a great and wholesome talk. i feel really comforted.
Really nice, had a lot of direct lived experience and was able to really put things into perspective
They listened to my concerns and answered in a comforting way.
Is helpful and nice to me :)
He is doing a very good job as a listener. i myself have been a listener on 7 cups, and wanted to talk someone. he surely made me feel like heard, and he is nice to talk to.
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I love her, she is so amazing and understanding and always here for me when i need her
Helpful chat, great listner
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shes so nice and helps me
I'd chatted with a few other listeners but they were the only one that kinda understood and actually had some good feedback.
Very understanding, and they helped me calm down. I know you can’t resolve the situation but you helped me so much thank you.
Very kind and understanding :)
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