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BlueStarlightS
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Number of ratings16 Number of reviews12 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Portuguese Listener sinceMay 23, 2022 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 17 People helped38 Chats133 Listener group chats6 Forum posts10 Forum upvotes22
Bio

🦋"Being focused on the process means much more than the success itself."✨️

🇺🇸English


 -Hi, you can call me Star! I'm 19 and a Psychology major. 


Digital Art, Design, art and people are things that keep me moving every day. Making your day a little better helps my mission to come to life!


I have Cerebral Palsy, and I'm a lesbian. That means I do have experiences with Disabilities and LGBTQIA+ questions, and I'm 100% open to discuss those🤍.


 It's my main goal to be able to use my knowledge in a supportive way🧠


 Even if I'm more capable in offering support related to my own experiences, I'm still a versatile listener.


You're not alone!


If you wanna talk, feel free to request me!  


(I do not accept chats with sexual or suicidal matters, if you need more immediate help, reach out to someone close to you or a therapist so they can help you properly)




 Let me explain how I work!

If I am...


Online: You can make a request and i'll be likely avaliable to chat with you imediately!  

Busy: I'm currently chatting with another member, so i might not be able to accept your request  

Offline: I'm not avaliable in the moment but you can message me and we can schedule a time to talk! 


 I'll inform you the amount of time that we have to chat at the start of our conversation :)  


~Star✨️



🇧🇷PT/BR


🦋"Estar focado no processo significa muito mais do que o sucesso.✨️

-Oi, pode me chamar de Star! Tenho 19 anos e curso Psicologia! - 🧠❤️


Um pouco mais sobre mim: tenho Paralisia Cerebral e também faço parte da comunidade LGBTQIA+! Adoro arte digital, música e obviamente psicologia! Tenho experiência direta com alguns tópicos, fique à vontade para conferi-los abaixo. Estou aqui e pronta para ajudar🫡.


Meu principal objetivo é poder usar minhas experiências de forma solidária e espero poder fazer isso por você!


Mesmo sendo mais capaz de oferecer suporte relacionado às minhas próprias experiências, ainda sou uma ouvinte versátil e posso ajudar.


Você não está sozinho!


Se quiser conversar, fique à vontade para me solicitar!


(Não aceito conversas sobre assuntos sexuais ou suicidas, se precisar de ajuda mais imediata procure alguém próximo ou um terapeuta para que possa te ajudar adequadamente)




Deixa eu te explicar como eu trabalho!

Se eu estiver:


Online: Você pode fazer uma solicitação e provavelmente estarei disponível para conversar com você imediatamente! Ocupado: No momento estou conversando com outro membro, então talvez não consiga aceitar sua solicitação. Off-line: Não estou disponível no momento, mas você pode me enviar uma mensagem e agendarmos um horário para conversar!


Informarei quanto tempo teremos para conversar no início da nossa conversa :)



Espero te ajudar da melhor maneira possível!


~Star✨️

Recent forum posts
Challenge for (perfectionist) artists!
Arts & Crafts / by BlueStarlightS
Last post
March 6th, 2023
...See more I'm too much of a perfectionist. I used to make either eight hours artwork once in a month, with every single thing perfect (the feeling lasted 5min until I found a mistake), or nothing! So I decided to draw small, 30-45 minutes a day, a random reference, whenever I can. Turns out that allowing myself imperfections and less time gave me cool artwork! I don't know how to show images here, so I uploaded some of my artworks so far. If you want to cure art burnout or try something new, I've been absolutely loving it, and it helps me to stay in touch with my art :) Also, anyone have suggestions of anything I could draw next? https://ibb.co/GV66JzR https://ibb.co/sg3CRpm https://ibb.co/GsC5LZQ
What I would like my past self to know about anxiety :)
Anxiety Support / by BlueStarlightS
Last post
August 4th, 2022
...See more I believe that the thing that I lacked more when battling along (not against, along) with anxiety, was acceptance. Three or four years ago, accepting something meant the same as being conformed with something. So I denied my anxiety and I had on my mind that I had to destroy it. Well, turns out it wasn't the best approach for me. Things really started to get better when I accepted that I had anxiety, and that there'll be days where I'll be anxious. And I don't have to fear them, because they're not a monster, they're a struggle, they're part of my growth. Working along with anxiety always puts me back on track. Not doing everything to prepare. But simply stopping and let this feelings come, go to the root of them, and then try to work them out. Writing is an amazing coping skill for me, as an overthinker, but meditation helps also. Work along with yourself, your feelings and your goals, instead of fighting this battle alone. The 7Cups community is always here to help. And i hope i was also helpful with this post :) Thank you
My introduction!
Disability Support / by BlueStarlightS
Last post
August 3rd, 2022
...See more Hello! I'm Star and I'm a listener here on 7Cups! I have cerebral palsy and i hope I can help people with a similar condition as mine, or other types of disabilities by providing support. I have the desire to become a psychologist and make a small difference in the world. Reach out to me if you wanna talk, and it's a pleasure to be part of this community :)
Feedback & Reviews
She really is an amazing listener. She asks very thoughtful and insightful questions that make you think. She knows how to guide a conversation and let you think for yourself and problem solve. I really appreciate her help and her persistence in being there for me. She's amazing
Great listener, really empathetic and kind. Talking to them made me feel better instantly
Wonderful listener ☺
she's one of the most helpful listener I've talked to. she seems clever, attentive, educated and very insightful. I felt heard and I learnt more about myself and others with her help and thoughtful listening. thank you so much!
Muito boa, ótima ouvinte!
very nice, and good at the listening ^-^
amazing!!
A very good listener
Star,,,She's a very kind and understanding listener.I felt good after talking to her..I recommend her to everyone:)
Great person to talk to
Very Good Listener 😇
good listener
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